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MisPandora -> RE: waiting for replies (9/5/2006 5:37:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: teazchaz

I've been wondering the same thing. Why don't Mistresses simply send a response saying that they don't think we are a good match, that I'm not what She's looking for or thanks but no thanks, etc. instead of not responding at all? Is it just considered good protocol not to take the time to send out a short response? Thanks

The OP explicitly said why in her case: she asked for her to respond if she was interested.  Why should I waste my time on someone if they've already asked me to only respond if I was in fact, interested in them?!?!!?




WildnWicked -> RE: waiting for replies (9/5/2006 10:43:28 PM)

Pandora... [8|]

It took me long enough to connect one dot with the other dot.. grrrrr...

We have talked before on the Family list and I kep thinking I recognized your face. Dee Dee Dee!

It all just hit me today who you are..lol. Yeah.. I am not the brightest crayon in the box..lol.




Samwhiplash -> RE: waiting for replies (9/6/2006 12:18:28 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: teazchaz

I've been wondering the same thing. Why don't Mistresses simply send a response saying that they don't think we are a good match, that I'm not what She's looking for or thanks but no thanks, etc. instead of not responding at all? Is it just considered good protocol not to take the time to send out a short response? Thanks
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ustfulllesbian


The most common reason that I dont bother replying to mails I receive is because they havent bothered to read my profile properly in th first case, or if they have, that they have blatantly ignored the criteria I have listed as being v important to me (location, age etc).

I figure not-responding is better than mailing back a 'your too old' or 'your too short' style mail.




DiurnalVampire -> RE: waiting for replies (9/6/2006 12:26:21 AM)

Honestly, I choose not to respond to most one-liners.  If you couldnt put the effort into writing me something descent, you dont get the effort of a response.  Something thought out, even if it is WAY off base, will usually get a response.  To save myself time, I have a little test file I cut and paste for jus such an occasion.  It reads as follows:
I am sorry, but if you are offering your services to me, you have obviously not given my profile the attention you say you have.  The last part clearlt states that I am no longer looking for anything but a conversation partner.  With that said, if youd like to chat, feel free.  However chatting does not include begging me to domme you every conversation.  If you dont want to just talk, then good luck with your search and better luck next time."

Simple, to the point and minimal effort becasue it addreses the majority of emails I recieve.
But of course thats just how I do things.

DV




MisPandora -> RE: waiting for replies (9/6/2006 2:00:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: WildnWicked

Pandora... [8|]

It took me long enough to connect one dot with the other dot.. grrrrr...

We have talked before on the Family list and I kep thinking I recognized your face. Dee Dee Dee!

It all just hit me today who you are..lol. Yeah.. I am not the brightest crayon in the box..lol.

Yep -- Mama's Paramedic!




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