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Traditional - 9/5/2006 3:36:51 PM

SuperiorNicole

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It has been suggested to me from "onceburned" that I perhaps should post my post in this forum topic. Instead of repeating myself and I found that I can not copy or paste here, I opted to use the direct link to my post. Thank you.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_570264/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#572422

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RE: Traditional - 9/5/2006 3:50:16 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SuperiorNicole

...I found that I can not copy or paste here, I opted to use the direct link to my post. Thank you.

You sure can Cut & Paste here... and most anyplace by using CTRL key (Control key) shortcuts.

Highlight (select) the text to be copied as normal... then press CTRL + C to copy the selected text.

Then to paste the copied text... press CTRL + V

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RE: Traditional - 9/5/2006 4:03:43 PM

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Here are the questions that SuperiorNicole asked in the Introductions forum
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My name is Mistress Nicole~

I have been in BDSM for 15 years now.
I have been titled as a Traditional BDSM Domme, there are times I am cursed verbally for such. And I am not sure why excatly especially in the BDSM lifestyle. I currently sold/traded my last slave for she was not able to perfom certain tasks for which pleased me, for medical reasons. Though the Slave had been treated fairly, I constantly get harrassed by my peers for my continue beliefs in Traditional BDSM.

Am I just old school?
Has BDSM gone politically correct on me as I kept my last slave?

I am positive there are others out there that believe in old ways of BDSM as Dom, Domme, or Slaves. Or am I wrong?

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RE: Traditional - 9/5/2006 4:17:30 PM

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Thank you once again for your service "onceburned" I am grateful.

I shall keep that in mind for the next time I am needing to copy and paste "NastyDaddy" thank you.

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RE: Traditional - 9/5/2006 4:38:11 PM

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It's very rare to have slaves sold or traded in consensual M/s relationships.

But it happens and it's completely acceptable IMO.

Don't worry- EVERYONE gets verbally insulted at some point for some choice they make. It means you're really part of the club.

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RE: Traditional - 9/5/2006 5:15:36 PM

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After training ... it's more a game. I ... auction the slave *lol*. The third one netted the most and has a nice nest egg now. It works out nice if they choose to be auctioned ... I don't ask for payment up front if there's an auction. Rather I take 2% of whatever the closing price is. It's a game. If they choose not to auction, I ask for a donation based on what they believe they will be worth when I'm done *s* I don't think I've had more that 3 or 4 that didn't choose the auction. It's ... fun. I don't sell my own slaves though.

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RE: Traditional - 9/5/2006 5:32:57 PM

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Welcome to the forums SuperiorNicole, interesting question. I do consider myself to be somewhat traditional in many approaches to life. I have known people that sell, trade, release, give away or just plain old abandon their slave(s). I have known others that have a life time commitment to their slave(s). Further, I have seen both these behaviours exhibited by people of all ages, years of experience in the community and alliances, orientation or locuses. The contractual obligation between M/s couple is theirs and theirs alone, the only time I have personally felt called to say something or criticise is in the case of contractual breach and abandonment.

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RE: Traditional - 9/5/2006 5:52:54 PM

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MistressWolfen, well said.

i have to say, the first time i heard of a Master assigning out a slave for a year of service to another Dominant.. i was mortified. Funny what a few years will do to moving our lines.

SuperiorNicole, welcome Maam. It might just be that nowdays You're encountering many more newer folks so the percentage of those who have accustomed to this is higher. i'd say probably the same reason could be why You would now hear negative feedback, when possibly people with more experience behind t/them held T/their tongues if T/they didn't agree with everything seen or heard.

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RE: Traditional - 9/5/2006 6:06:42 PM

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Thank you all for the warm welcome. I do feel much better about the whole thing. Finding a new traditional female slave is almost impossible now days. I myself prefer to train Slaves as I see fit, but it may look as if I just might have to consider owning one that has been sold, auctioned, or even abandoned. Then re-train them.

In a way it might be simplier, to do so this way, I am getting rather older, and taking such time to train someone from the start is tiresome. I am just using humour here, for I am not that old. lol.

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RE: Traditional - 9/5/2006 6:16:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SuperiorNicole

Thank you all for the warm welcome. I do feel much better about the whole thing. Finding a new traditional female slave is almost impossible now days. I myself prefer to train Slaves as I see fit, but it may look as if I just might have to consider owning one that has been sold, auctioned, or even abandoned. Then re-train them.

While the above may be true for you it would be inherently dependent on your association of what traditional means, what you seek and where you're looking. Casting one's net a wee bit wider usually yields far better results. I wish you much success on your search.

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RE: Traditional - 9/5/2006 6:39:25 PM

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Thank you Porcelaine, I take that under advisement.
You are correct, perhaps I should be more open about my meaning of "Traditional" in my searches.

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RE: Traditional - 9/5/2006 6:47:07 PM

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Thank you Mavis, and yes it is quite amazing what arriving at a "certain age" can do for our outlook on things. *grins*

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