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different ways of showing submission - 1/6/2005 10:13:11 AM   
ruffnecksbabygir


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Status: offline 		Hope this hasn't been a topic already, but it probably has....anyhow, which ways do you demonstrate your Dom/me your submission besides in sexual play, i mean in every day sense.

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RE: different ways of showing submission - 1/6/2005 10:54:53 AM   
PerhapsitsFate


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Status: offline 		Here's a quick one that I always loved when I was owned. Whenever we were eating, I was to always offer my first bite to him, sometimes sitting there a little impatiently waiting for him to take the offered food. It was something we did, that was just between us, and cemented our roles.

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RE: different ways of showing submission - 1/6/2005 4:19:09 PM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		The level of trust runs deep with Doug and I. We generally do not really talk about our life a lot until someone asks.
As, I've said many times here before though. He wakes me up each morning. Tells me what I am to wear. What route I am to take to get there. In between clients I am to call him so he knows where I am. When it is lunchtime..another call to find out what I should eat and what not.
Basically what some would consider micro management. To me it is merely knowing he cares for me enough to do so. The only part of my life he does not control is my work. Because quite frankly how can he? We are in two very different fields. Him trying to tell me what to do would create a disaster.
I ask him what he would like for dinner each night. If we go to a movie he chooses. Basically the ball is in his court on everything we do. At times he throws it back into mine. He will ask me what I'd like to eat while eating out. It is sort of rare but does happen on occassion.
If I awake at any time during the night he wants to be awoken with a blow job. Also in the morning if I wake before him.
Just the basic levels of trust. At least in my mind.

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RE: different ways of showing submission - 1/6/2005 4:20:48 PM   
phoenix52


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Status: offline 		Hmmm... where to start? One thing my Master and i do in public, is that when vanilla people would hold hands, he holds me hand around the wrist, like you would when you were leading a child around. The crazy thing is, i don't think anyone notices! We haven't gotten any weird looks yet, anyway.

Also, when i enter the house, i put on my collar, kiss his feet, and kneel until he tells me to rise. It's just a little thing, takes a minute, but it really puts me in a submissive frame of mind.

Just a few of our little rituals...

shannon

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RE: different ways of showing submission - 1/6/2005 5:49:27 PM   
cynnacent1


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Status: offline 		First thought of a reply in reading this topic of this thread: In anyway He wishes me to.

There are many non-sexual ways in which i serve as submissive to INSIDEYOURMIND. When we are not alone, i am still serving Him. my submission when requested by Him in public is simply provided in ways that are not quite apparent to others.

He enjoys showering together, i shampoo His hair, and use exfoliating gloves to cleanse His body from head to toe.
He requires foot and leg massages each night, and enjoys drifting off to sleep for the night with my nails massaging His scalp.
He enjoys receiving professional facials, i provide one to Him whenever He requests one.
He also enjoys receiving pedicures, which i also provide whenever it is requested of me.
When he is due for a haircut, it is done by me.
When His beard and mustache need grooming & trimming, it is my job to do it for Him.
i never address Him by His given name while with others, although i do referre to Him as Jeffrey when speaking to others. To me His name/title is Master. At times it actually seems odd, almost forced like, to say His given name when speaking with others.
i ask His permission prior to altering my body in any way, haircuts, coloring my hair, piercings, etc.
i keep my 'bikini area' groomed in a way that He preferres, shaved (waxed during summer months) entirely smooth.
i wear red polish on my nails, He preferres that i do so, they are never any other color.
i go to bed when He decides it is time, whether i am tired or not. Once in bed, when i am told to close my eyes and sleep, i do so, whether i want to or not.
i keep a journal, and write in it when He wishes for me to do so. He reads it afterwards. (... and yes, i write anything and everything in it freely, there is nothing i am not able to share with Him).
my submission to INSIDEYOURMIND is 24/7. There are many ways in which i serve that are so much a daily part of our life. It's not something that we turn on or off simply for 'play times'. i am His, and i serve Him anytime of day or night in any way He may demand of me. As it should be ... in *our* little D/s corner of the world.

P.S. i also consult Him prior to changing my avatars on either side of this site.

¸,ø¤º°cynnacent°º¤ø,¸ (proudly owned by, and devoted to INSIDEYOURMIND)


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RE: different ways of showing submission - 1/6/2005 6:19:43 PM   
nella


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Status: offline 		Me and my Dom like littel rituals. When he get up in the moring, and before bed and anytime he enters the house and we dont have guest i am to kneel and kiss his feet and remain kneeling unthil he says othervise. I am also whipped eatch moring and eatch eveing, this to build up pain tolerance, and becouse He likes it, it is a show of Domination over me.

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RE: different ways of showing submission - 1/6/2005 10:36:45 PM   
bottominwa


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Status: offline 		There are so many things she could list here it would go on forever, and she will echo cynnacent in the "whatever He wants or requires" category. Some particulars to the house for denuflection however, Our own peculiarities in the House of King, although she knows some share them.

This girl wakes Master by sucking His cock, every morning He is home.

This girl never meets Master eye to eye unless He tells her to do so...generally that is a bad sign..lol

This girl eats from a small bowl, only what will fit in the bowl and only at the alotted times Master has allocated for her to eat. she must thank Master for the food He has provided. she does not sit at the table, she does not sit on furniture at all. she sits always at His right and on the floor. If He is busy doing reports, watching tv et all she sits with her head on His knee or in His lap unless she is told to do something.

she also is required to bathe Master as someone else mentioned previously.

she is not allowed to wear any form of pants, regardless of the time of month, the cold weather et all. In the house she is only permitted clothing when the children are awake or when company that is unaware of the life are present. she also must wear her hair down at all times unless cleaning or exercising, which she must exercise for 90 minutes 6 days a week, cross circuit and tread"hell".


she has to ask to dance everynight, He doesn't always require her to do so but she must present herself for grooming inspection at 2200 and then must ask if He requires her to dance.

Out in public she walks behind one pace and to the right.

And she never absolutely never speaks His name unless someone is on fire. If vanilla company abounds she is allowed to refer to Him as "sweetheart" or "husband".

And also as aforementioned by someone else she is required to kneel when He comes home and place her forehead to the floor until He tells her to stand, generally after briefly stating is dinner ready etc...dinner which is always served at 1800 or reheated by the time He arrives home if He is to be late He willc all enroute.

she does not leave the house unless attending a prescribed errand, a school emergency for the children, or aiding either set of elderly parents, and she must always be home before dark. she is not permitted out after dark without Master period.

Funny thing is We have alot of people over and most see Us just how We are...mainly people presume We have some strange fundamentalist religion or something...lmao.

sabrina King


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RE: different ways of showing submission - 1/6/2005 11:27:58 PM   
Suleiman


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Status: offline 		My submissive and dominant natures are very deeply ingrained into who I am. I rarely do anything, consciously, to display my submissive qualities. I mean, aside from making breakfast, washing the dishes, packing lunch, waiting until she leaves before eating my own breakfast, do the laundry, go shopping, pick out something for dinner that I know she'll like, even if it's something I'm not particularly fond of, make sure I'm home before she is, begin working on dinner as soon as she's home (but usually pouring her a drink first), coming up with various ways to entertain her, and even that most unmasculine of acts, relinquishing the remote control.

None of that is about displaying my submissiveness. It's just what I do.

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RE: different ways of showing submission - 1/7/2005 8:38:22 AM   
proudsub


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quote:

Hope this hasn't been a topic already, but it probably has....anyhow, which ways do you demonstrate your Dom/me your submission besides in sexual play, i mean in every day sense.


These might be of interest:
routine

special rituals please

rituals

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