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A Task: leeli, what would you bring to My House? Help? - 9/7/2006 1:47:41 AM

alovelylady4U

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Simply put- i was asked by a Master i truly wish to consider me....

"leeli, as My slave, what would you bring to My House?"

He wants detailed listing, similar to the "resume" i created, that lsits all of my "assets?"

What would a Master want to be listed? my skills as a pleasure slave? Household skills like cooking, cleaning, sewing. Hobbies such as making Wicked Wall Art? Experience with serving in different occasions/situations?

What would You wish to have listed? What would you list?

Thank Y/you for Y/your time and help. The "K.I.S.S." & "Dummies" series do not seem to have a book on on this topic- yet? And He has given me until the end of the week to complete this task.

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RE: A Task: leeli, what would you bring to My House? Help? - 9/7/2006 2:00:09 AM

Mavis

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W/we probably can't help you here because.. although the list must be what you think you offer.. it's also about the choice of which things you think are significant enough to actually list.

Kind of the diff tween what do you like about me and what do i like about me.

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RE: A Task: leeli, what would you bring to My House? Help? - 9/7/2006 2:02:13 AM

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A large pizza with everything, a six-pack of brewski's, and an explanation as to why you thought what other Masters want would be what this particular Master wants.

We're not creating a birthday or holiday gift list... he wants to hear you tell him what you have to offer him as his slave. He will like what you have to say about you and what you bring... or he will not. You have a week to write a presentation of yourself, what you will contribute to his house.... None of us know that, only you do.

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RE: A Task: leeli, what would you bring to My House? Help? - 9/7/2006 2:51:33 AM

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dear a lovely
you are exactly rite in your ap contents some may also want to know your limits listed with your expereince ;or copy you info from colar me and include it;
also; a pic or head-shots ;and most are head-hunters of some sort;
any idnetification also helps ;if you can trust your community or their status,amoung others
and a list of past persons;
personally; i'd say what im not into too much ;and what doesnt affect me ;or what i consider too lite ;and what my attitude is about open relationships with other slaves ;i cant stand slaves just like me is my first impression of my intolerances;
ie can you serve if some slave is wanting the same exact thing as you and list all you have to give financially if possible
what your accomplishments; talent is ;and ;
what ties you have ;
who will miss you etc ;
what other obligations you may have and if you are willing to give it up ;and relocate etc;
in dreamland i expect the ap is only a token of respect and a real top in my book does know all like an omnicient god or thats my expectation;
it can be a dangerous game if you are not taken serious and respected as a serious slave; with a rep .!,in my experience and opinion;
no respect for my place as slave; im gone; or they are; but to know is to love so get to know them as much as possible.

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RE: A Task: leeli, what would you bring to My House? Help? - 9/7/2006 6:39:44 AM

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quote:

my "assets?"
What would a Master want to be listed? my skills as a pleasure slave? Household skills like cooking, cleaning, sewing. Hobbies such as making Wicked Wall Art? Experience with serving in different occasions/situations?

He wants to see how well you know him to be able to emphasize on the things he needs now. However, since this is just a matter of time and communication, this is of lesser importance than this one....

He wants to know how you see yourself and what skills you already have at your disposal.

It's a critical thinking, self awareness exercise. Enjoy yourself. Putting things into a resume format might be a good place to get started if you need structure though.

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RE: A Task: leeli, what would you bring to My House? Help? - 9/7/2006 6:53:36 AM

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Were I asked this question, I would require that you completed a complete and thorough self evaluation and were totally sure your self identification as a submissive was accurate and not based upon the desire for a physical sensation. I would require that you understood MY definition of slave and Master and were prepared to live your life under those terms. What "skills" you bring to the table are not as important as the emotions and mindset you bring into the relationship you are contemplating. I would require that you understood that fact very clearly. I would have you acknowledge that you completed the process by appearing at my door, naked as a blank canvas to be painted as I wish. (However if I didn't have a private entry, I'd permit a cape.)

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RE: A Task: leeli, what would you bring to My House? Help? - 9/7/2006 7:18:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: alovelylady4U

Simply put- i was asked by a Master i truly wish to consider me....

"leeli, as My slave, what would you bring to My House?"

He wants detailed listing, similar to the "resume" i created, that lsits all of my "assets?"

What would a Master want to be listed? my skills as a pleasure slave? Household skills like cooking, cleaning, sewing. Hobbies such as making Wicked Wall Art? Experience with serving in different occasions/situations?

What would You wish to have listed? What would you list?

Thank Y/you for Y/your time and help. The "K.I.S.S." & "Dummies" series do not seem to have a book on on this topic- yet? And He has given me until the end of the week to complete this task.

I'd first list all of my skills. And then I'd sit down and think concretely about what value those skills have for his house and how he envisions you fitting into his house. For instance you may know how to tile a floor but if he has all hardwood floors, maybe thats not a really applicable skills.

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RE: A Task: leeli, what would you bring to My House? Help? - 9/7/2006 9:25:52 AM

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I ask a version of this question in the Questionnaire that's a part of my application process. Include everything you think is of value in answering the question. If you were filling out a resume, you'd share your education, experience, special skills and interpersonal skills...as well as references. In other words, you’d try to sell yourself for the job. Everything you listed looks like it belongs, to me. He's looking for you to be, or begin to be, self-aware. Write it down in a word document and save it. Put it in a resume format, even. Reread and revise it on occasion. When you find the Master you want (perhaps this one), you can include it in your petition. If you’d like to take a look at my Questionnaire, to perhaps give you some ideas, feel free.

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RE: A Task: leeli, what would you bring to My House? Help? - 9/7/2006 2:29:50 PM

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Thank Y/you all so much for Y/your help and yes i would very much love to see Your questionnaire MasterFireMaam.

He said today He wants talents, training, what i hope to learn and how i will serve Him. He knows i will have no .limits once i surrender. And He respects my newbie nervousness.

After such a long time and somewhat odd journey- i am back to smiling and humming. It may not be my fate to be with Him, but i sure can hope and wish for it.

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RE: A Task: leeli, what would you bring to My House? Help? - 9/7/2006 2:52:49 PM

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If you go back to my post and click on the word "Questionnaire", it is linked. I wish you the best.

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RE: A Task: leeli, what would you bring to My House? Help? - 9/7/2006 2:58:26 PM

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List your expectations .. as this one of the things you bring to his house.

List any special skills.. do you sing? Dance? Prepare gourmet cuisine?

Anything "sexual" I'm sure he will have to teach you himself for his satisfaction.

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