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RE: demented - 9/10/2006 8:28:08 PM

MisPandora

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I'm just shocked the problem lasted as long as it has. I know if I would never have learned in any of my previous relationships, I would have been kicked to the curb if it was determined the problem was me just not being willing to learn. I mean, I never used to cook; I cook up a storm now. I was all thumbs when it came to massage. I was sent to massage therapy school and give wonderful, sensual massages today. The point is: Whenever I thought I had a problem with some "service" item, I never seemed to be in the presence of a woman that gave up. She usually took whatever step was necessary to make sure that my service to her was 100 percent exactly as she desired.

It's hard to give up on someone if you've already invested any amount of time in the individual. I also suspect that most women are generally unwilling to quit on someone if they think there is even a sliver of potential. There are avenues of education, as you mentioned, that we can go down to create change in the "non-compliant" individual.

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RE: demented - 9/11/2006 4:55:20 AM

mons

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greetings

i think your slave is dyslexic in learning i have it in writing as many have seen my post and reply it took me years to learn how to spell and do numbers. i was taught here in fact but someone so kind i learn but i still making mistake.

now for your slave if he is otherwise good and has good things about him. keep him unless you got him just to do house work? but he has a learning disorder i work with littleones with this problem it took some years for some to work it out and others a little younger .
he is shame i am sure of not pleaseeing you it would be sad to throw him out but it is yoiur call.

let me know what happen ask him how he was in school !

mons good luck

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RE: demented - 9/11/2006 7:42:14 AM

MistressDolly

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IConsider investing in an already trained slave. Or, resolve to be the trainer yourself.

ps. If he appears to lack interest and commitement in improving himself for you, perhaps he's not an ideal candidate.

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RE: demented - 9/11/2006 9:34:03 PM

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I actually had a submissive stand next to Me and watch Me wash dishes....
Not one offer to help,when I left some,I thought well maybe he'll finish them...NOPE he didnt.
he is utterly useless in the house.

I liked his personality and didnt want to dismiss him so I put him outside
and wow what a difference he started right away weeding,picking up trash
he was cutting down trees that were marked for cut down,cut them into smaller pieces.

Okay I'm rambling...the point is maybe he is better suited to another chore(s).
If You enjoy him I would find out what it is and keep him around.

You A/all should see My firepit I have now...and the outside sitting area,he'll have that outside session space done before winter...LOL

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RE: demented - 9/11/2006 9:49:53 PM

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I have a slave that is so inept at housekeeping, preparing meals, and general cleanliness. He hasn't been able to grasp elementary concepts like reaching/holding a cup, or by even using the microwave to heat up a meal. I have attempted/attempting a hopeful discussion(s) with my slave, but he just feigns innocence. I am not exaggerating. This has been over a period of five months. I am at my wit's end. My conclusion is that I must end this relationship. Has anyone else had this much difficulty in someone?

I have read this over a number of times ~ hasnt been able to grasp elementary concepts like reaching or holding a cup??

Perhaps I am missing something but how does one get past the age of 2 without being able to hold a cup?

I wonder what his age is? How is it he has arrived into adult hood without the basis of everyday knowledge?

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RE: demented - 9/12/2006 12:27:47 AM

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ORIGINAL: paynestar

I have a slave that is so inept at housekeeping, preparing meals, and general cleanliness. He hasn't been able to grasp elementary concepts like reaching/holding a cup, or by even using the microwave to heat up a meal. I have attempted/attempting a hopeful discussion(s) with my slave, but he just feigns innocence. I am not exaggerating. This has been over a period of five months. I am at my wit's end. My conclusion is that I must end this relationship. Has anyone else had this much difficulty in someone?

I have read this over a number of times ~ hasnt been able to grasp elementary concepts like reaching or holding a cup??

Perhaps I am missing something but how does one get past the age of 2 without being able to hold a cup?

I wonder what his age is? How is it he has arrived into adult hood without the basis of everyday knowledge?

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Those were my thoughts too. Even young children know how to reach and hold things. Or is it that he doesn't reach/hold the cup in a particular way?

If he can't do elementary things, how has he managed to survive into adulthood without constant help? Or has he always had constant help?

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