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RE: Conspiring with tops of the opposite gender - 9/30/2006 11:04:58 PM   
pinksissyPA


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Most male subs love Women.  They adore and wish to serve Them.  However that (and this should be obvious even to those with limited intellect) does not mean they will do anything or that they wil serve some male just to please a wannabe Domme.
Being straight does NOT make a male a homophobe it makes them normal!

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RE: Conspiring with tops of the opposite gender - 9/30/2006 11:50:04 PM   
Frank01


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Bullshit attitudes about sexual supremacy seem the main cause.

Personally, I see neither sex is being 'better'. But at the same time, I won't bother talking with anyone Who thinks so. Male or Female.

I only let fantasy pervade my life to certain levels-and that's not it.

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RE: Conspiring with tops of the opposite gender - 10/1/2006 1:02:51 AM   
lilyophelia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pinksissyPA
However that (and this should be obvious even to those with limited intellect) does not mean they will do anything or that they wil serve some male just to please a wannabe Domme.
Being straight does NOT make a male a homophobe it makes them normal!


i'm super curious where this came from? If you could clarify a bit, i would appreciate it. Because, well, i know gay men that i would consider quite normal (if we're using this in a nice way). i also know lots of gay men who are super normal (aka boring, if used in another way). And what about hetero men who enjoy anal sex? Anal sex doesn't make you homosexual, you know...only if you have it with a guy, and even then, only if you only have sex with guys, and by choice! Otherwise you could be bi, or just the victim of really hateful, mean sexual abuse. And someone who is a homophobe is someone who gets icked out by sitting next to a pair of guys that they know is gay. If that's your "definition" of what a normal, straight man feels, well...

...just what did you mean by that, hmm? *breaks out the spotlight and begins to jot down notes in her little journal*

-lily

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RE: Conspiring with tops of the opposite gender - 10/1/2006 2:49:02 AM   
pinksissyPA


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...just what did you mean by that, hmm? *breaks out the spotlight and begins to jot down notes in her little journal*

Sorry to disappoint you but normal is heterosexual.  Obviously you have an agenda.  i despeise those who use hate speach such as homophobes on those who are just heterosexual males.  Personally i don't care if Harry wants Dick or Dick wants Harry, just don't bother me about it and don't label me with your hate speach.  The whole hate agenda tha some propigate against heterosexuals is repulsive and hurtful to all not just heterosexuals but homosexuals too.  If you are gay, fine but do NOT demand that i be likewise for i am proudly not!


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RE: Conspiring with tops of the opposite gender - 10/1/2006 11:44:58 AM   
lilyophelia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pinksissyPA

...just what did you mean by that, hmm? *breaks out the spotlight and begins to jot down notes in her little journal*
Sorry to disappoint you but normal is heterosexual. Obviously you have an agenda. 


Oh, wow. You know, normally i really try to refrain from any thing...inflamatory, but this post is so ridiculous. Are you, upset because some Domme tried to do something that was beyond your limits? Did you clearly state them, and avoid interacting with those Dommes (or whomever) that wouldn't fit with you?

Okay, i have an agenda? *sits and ponders this one* Hmm....an agenda. i have chores that i have to get done today, does that count? i understand the argument your making, which is that whole, why don't people who are not "normal" and not "heterosexual" just do what they do in private and not bother the very normal, women-loving, heterosexual males...is that it? That's so, ridiculous. The fact that you make comments like this, are more proof of your own insecurities and views, then whether or not you or heterosexual or not.

quote:

ORIGINAL: pinksissyPA
i despeise those who use hate speach such as homophobes on those who are just heterosexual males.  Personally i don't care if Harry wants Dick or Dick wants Harry, just don't bother me about it and don't label me with your hate speach.


Hate speech? Wow, are you sensitive. First of all, i would only ever call heterosexual men (or women) who actually were homophobic, homophobes (and even then, i probably wouldn't use that term, because it kind of sounds juvenile to me...too juvenile, actually). i would probably say that you might want to question why you're uncomfortable. i don't really enjoy penises in their fleshy forms, but i'm perfectly capable of watching a CBT scene, for example. It doesn't mean that i want to, umm...throw myself at that poor, little male subbie. *giggles*

Okay, a quick definition, from Merriam-Webster online (because i have a kink for words and dictionaries)...

quote:

ORIGINAL: Merriram-Webster online
Main Entry: ho·mo·pho·bia
: irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals


Okay, so...is your fear irrational? Is your aversion unjustified? Do you discriminate? Are you worried that every Domme you meet may secretly be planning your unwilling sodomification. Oh, this is so silly. If you're not homophobic, then don't have issues with the word...if you are, then i'm very sorry. i'm not very helpful when it comes to baggage.

quote:

ORIGINAL: pinksissyPA
The whole hate agenda tha some propigate against heterosexuals is repulsive and hurtful to all not just heterosexuals but homosexuals too.


"Wow, am i confused here. Hate agenda that some propigate[sic] against heterosexuals..." i think, i missed something here. Not that i was being political at all to begin with, but where did this come from. Umm, how are you hurt by...*snicker-giggles* by umm *more laughing*....the umm, hateful agenda being pursued against your...straightness? Being homophobic has nothing to do with being straight, btw...

And, to wrap all this up...i just asked you to clarify a statement that i thought could be taken rather...offensively by other people, myself included. i never called you anything, and i even asked in a playful way, umm...hoping that you would say something along the lines of..."Gosh, that was misleading and i don't feel that only straight, male heterosexuals are 'normal,' because that could definitely be taken in a nasty way." Instead, you brushed aside my cute humour and got all defensive and angry with me, which is a definite turn-off. That was most rude. ; ;

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RE: Conspiring with tops of the opposite gender - 10/2/2006 9:03:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash

Hmmmm... judging from the pic (and the teasing glimpse of lips under that hat - id be absolutely delighted to co-conspire wth u.

A v sexy photo !


I do thank you for the compliment :)

Cheers,

Sea

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