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Hello to, and from Connecticut. - 9/10/2006 10:12:44 PM   
solarisDom


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Status: offline 		I just moved out of bible belt wisconsin where the kinkiest thing most people do is have oral Sex.  To New london county CT.

I just got out of a fairly serious but long distance relationship and though I would never turn away the idea for the right person, it's not my preference(though I doubt it's many peoples preferences). It was supposed to be D/s but I"m not someone who can put lot of time into something and not take it seriously, and By the number of times she lied to me, (Not that I put up with it that many). she didn't.

So let me see. I'm a Dom, But I don't have the most experience (being 19 in wisconsin sucks.) I'm 19 by the way. I'm interested in finding someone who will learn with me, or is willing to help get me into things. Show me what lines I can't cross. if any older women have a dream of being raped by a younger man. something like that, might as well talk about it. I'm a patient man, I grew up near cows for christs sake, lots of cows, I'm not used to things happening in the blink of an eye, and I'm mostly looking for someone who wants to please, and is willing to invest time, but I don't expect someone to give more than they can you understand? I take any relationship(if you know someone more than a week you have a relationship in my opinion) seriously, and approach it honestly, no matter the type of relationship.

Basically I'm just curious what's out there, this is the first time I've lived in a COUNTY that had more than 40,000 people that I can remember.let alone the town or city.

Anyone like Dean Koontz?

I'm a bit out there, ADD. And a bit emotionally back and forth (very minor bipolarism I was told when younger)
But I was recently described as a teddy bear mixed with a magic 8 ball, Cuddly, and you never quite know what you're going to get from me. I like that.

Ok that's it.

Send solarisdom a mail if you have any advice or questions, or inquiries.

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RE: Hello to, and from Connecticut. - 9/10/2006 10:57:49 PM   
TreSwank


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Status: offline 		New London County's only positive trait lies in it's proximity to New York, Boston, Providence, Hartford, and New Haven.  You might as well be in Hell; I'm not joking!!!!!  Every woman that you have sex with will already have two or more rowdy, uncouth, ebonics-fluent children, and will IMMEDIATELY stop being kinky once she thinks that you've developed an attachment..  If you're looking for a BDSM scene in New London, you should just go ahead and plan on driving to New York or Providence every weekend.

I also grew up in a rural cow-town, (Southmont, N.C.) and the only difference between New London and my former bucolic homestead, is that this shit-hole whaling village possesses a cold, grey, concrete sort of spiritual ennui that eats away at your hopes and dreams, to the extent that you just STOP expecting to achieve any sort of happiness, EVER

So.........you're a nice, "cuddly" guy?  Would you like a woman to be totally won over by your kindness and intellect?  If so, you'd better move to another town, because you've gotta network, and know how to sell yourself in this town.  It sure ain't about the steak, solarisdom.................it's about the SIZZLE.  Nice guys never move much higher than "friendship" status with chicks in New London.  If you're not aggressive enough to put some "heelism" into it, the brutha sitting next to her at the club sure as hell will be.  You've just got to learn from experience in this place.

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RE: Hello to, and from Connecticut. - 9/10/2006 11:34:21 PM   
TreSwank


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Status: offline 		But don't get discouraged!!!!!

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RE: Hello to, and from Connecticut. - 9/14/2006 6:08:44 AM   
MissJoMarie


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Status: offline 		TreSwank,

I don't know if he call crawl out of the hole you just dug for him.  Your email has discouraging written all over it.  I think that he will have to find his own network in NewLondon and go from there.  Even here in SW Florida it's discouraging but the more you seek out friends or subs the more luck you have. 



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RE: Hello to, and from Connecticut. - 9/14/2006 9:34:18 PM   
MsInnocent


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Status: offline 		New London's not so bad. I lived there for 2 years. Just don't fall into the casino trap.

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RE: Hello to, and from Connecticut. - 9/15/2006 2:41:15 AM   
Areflectionofyou


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TreSwank

New London County's only positive trait lies in it's proximity to New York, Boston, Providence, Hartford, and New Haven.  You might as well be in Hell; I'm not joking!!!!!  Every woman that you have sex with will already have two or more rowdy, uncouth, ebonics-fluent children, and will IMMEDIATELY stop being kinky once she thinks that you've developed an attachment..  If you're looking for a BDSM scene in New London, you should just go ahead and plan on driving to New York or Providence every weekend.

I also grew up in a rural cow-town, (Southmont, N.C.) and the only difference between New London and my former bucolic homestead, is that this shit-hole whaling village possesses a cold, grey, concrete sort of spiritual ennui that eats away at your hopes and dreams, to the extent that you just STOP expecting to achieve any sort of happiness, EVER

So.........you're a nice, "cuddly" guy?  Would you like a woman to be totally won over by your kindness and intellect?  If so, you'd better move to another town, because you've gotta network, and know how to sell yourself in this town.  It sure ain't about the steak, solarisdom.................it's about the SIZZLE.  Nice guys never move much higher than "friendship" status with chicks in New London.  If you're not aggressive enough to put some "heelism" into it, the brutha sitting next to her at the club sure as hell will be.  You've just got to learn from experience in this place.

Let me just say ...Ct has one of the best local D/s scenes in the East . We have Two large groups in the hartford area , one having its own dungeon(im a member there) . There is also a munch group in Norwich k, close by. By the way Tre...a number of us Ct people , have gone to the New york scene , and they are in awe when we pull up and play there. Ct has a great, open , friendly , and talented community. Before you sling mud ...get the facts. Most of the Mass scene , is in fact tightly , mingled and friendly with ours...lol. Sometimes people open their mouths and in fact need a nice gag placed there ....lol .
If you need some club names in Ct please write me or MasterRoper on the site.
One of those ebonic...oh i forget i only speak proper English,
jennifer

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RE: Hello to, and from Connecticut. - 9/15/2006 7:00:04 AM   
TreSwank


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Status: offline 		Oh PLEASE!!!!!!!!
New London is a half-ghetto, half pseudo-bohemian shithole, and for a guy that describes himself as a "teddy bear mixed with a magic 8-ball", all of that sweetness is just going to waste away, while the shitty weather and cold, gray concrete eat away at his soul like a malignant cancer.  I remember when I was a little sweetheart................before reality smacked me in the face like an abusive, troglodyte of a husband.

Well.......I guess I should congratulate him on the fact that he didn't move to Delaware (Dela-WHERE?) or Utah (purgatory).   He seems like a nice boy - but really, despite the Orwellian ambiguity in terms that women use to describe potential mates, what woman actually goes for nice guys?  I'll tell you what kind of women: WOMEN WHO HAVE EITHER LEFT ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS, OR WHO,  BY MERIT OF AN INABILITY TO KEEP  THEIR LEGS CLOSED, ALREADY HAVE FOUR OR FIVE KIDS.  That's about all.

  Come on ladies, and be honest for once in your lives.  What do you like better -  cerebral and sweet, or cocky and brutal?  Tennesse Williams probably provided the best descriptions of the sexually desirable male in the characters of Stan Kowalski (A Streetcar Named Desire) and Val Xavier (Battle of Angels). Even the "not so butch" guys (that would be me) need to have a little bit of hellfire in em'.

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RE: Hello to, and from Connecticut. - 9/15/2006 8:23:57 AM   
Areflectionofyou


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Status: offline 		Actually young one, New london has the old town atmosphere, even though im more in a yuppy town i love going to that end of the state to visit. Don't be so judging of others as your lack of couthe ..shows you as a foul mouth whiner.

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RE: Hello to, and from Connecticut. - 9/24/2006 8:07:32 AM   
TreSwank


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Areflectionofyou

Actually young one, New london has the old town atmosphere, even though im more in a yuppy town i love going to that end of the state to visit. Don't be so judging of others as your lack of couthe ..shows you as a foul mouth whiner.


I'm not a foul-mouth whiner!!!  Ya know............if awards were given out to commemorate "Totally Righteous Dudes", I would probably get, like, ten of em', so WHATEVA.

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RE: Hello to, and from Connecticut. - 9/24/2006 12:15:49 PM   
BD123


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Status: offline 		Welcome to CM. Home is what you make of it. Get out there and meet people. Best of luck.

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