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RE: All I want is to be owned, not tribute - 9/12/2006 3:19:18 AM

Wolfie648

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ORIGINAL: mattfrosty

Is it impossible to find a mistress who doesnt demand tribute?
Even if they dont mention it on their profile, on messengers I still get 'I will require tribute' within about 2mins of talking to them.Send money to some1 I dont know? Im not stupid.

Hmm well because sub males to domme women is about 300:1 (or yeh sure I'm positive that number is off by some but go with the concept). You aren't looking for a domme you are looking for an owner (female by description). Entirely different (as I see it); although they may or may not do the same things to you.

And if you expect to find one I would suggest a less confrontational approach. Do you want to be owned or get what you want out of the relationship (2 different things in case that was not obvious)? If you want to get what you want then maybe you are a dom that wants to be spanked (or whatever). Neither is wrong just define what you want. Experience will help you do so.

Just get the power exchange right and a bunch of stuff will fall in-line all over the place for you in life (at least that was my experience).

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Why cant I find a mistress who just wants to own me and thats it?
Matt

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RE: All I want is to be owned, not tribute - 9/12/2006 4:24:58 AM

twicehappy

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ORIGINAL: Contesaluv

I love reading your posts.

Thank you, i did not copy and paste your entire post here but your method is very similar to that used by Jewel and Scooter, it just makes sense. If the perspective sub/slave cannot do the few things you listed chances are they are also incapable of any kind of committed relationship.

But like i've said before there are many who are only looking for kink and confuse either mistakenly or in some cases on purpose the kink with a D/s relationship.

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RE: All I want is to be owned, not tribute - 9/22/2006 5:18:48 AM

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Your name goes well with the ice cream cone, which who knows, might be just the marketing advantage you need to impress the right femdom.

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RE: All I want is to be owned, not tribute - 9/22/2006 5:49:34 AM

hardbodysub

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I don't have a problem with the large number of dommes requiring tribute. However, they should be categorized as pros, and this category should be included in the search parameters so the person doing the search could find all the pros or exclude them from the results of the search.

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