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cynthiamarie -> RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong withhim (9/14/2006 12:23:27 AM)
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thank you for answer i did tell him not to write and he said jeuse christ read them like i did not know what i was talking about.
Interesting courtship behavior. [:D]
Mons, I've talked with men here who have told me they like to get drunk and come here to bait Dommes. Some have come here doing research papers. Some are just angry at the world and are looking for a target.
Your instincts are telling you to run...that is the important thing. You don't owe anyone your time or attention, especially if they're going to be that rude.
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quote "he was mad i did not asnwer them" Ridiculous.. your the dominant. he's there to please you. he's having a tantrum and craves attention.. do the sadistic thing and deny him the pleasure.. and/or take charge of the situation and tell him what appropriate behavior is and what's not.
zero, I'm not going to bash you over the head for that, because in a way it's right for some...the man is trying to court a dominant female, and he's trying to do it by leading her around by the nose and bashing her upside the head with verbal abuse if she doesn't do what he says, when he says it. (He doesn't own her yet, rofl. Yes, that was sarcasm. [:D] )
Back to my two cents on another issue:
She doesn't have to be nice and try to train him to have better manners, or more patience. If he doesn't appeal to her, or sends up red flags, a simple goodbye is fine. If he cussed at her or lost his temper, and especially on such short acquaintence, he should be expecting to be blocked or ignored.
Maybe the person will learn from this and ask one question per chat...yanno, have a conversation instead of essay and test/correction/punishment time.
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