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Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 9:59:40 AM

SirRichard1946

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               BEWARE<<<Wannabe Doms are very manipulative and they are experts at it...They are professional con-artist who can lie better then anyone else, they don`t care who they hurt on their journey...
                  They will steal from you, they con people with their friendly personality and there`re experts at it, they have no remorse at all, there is nothing that stands in their way and they will plow over you to get what they want...
               You`ll never see a crack-head con another crack-head, it just dosen`t happen, they know exactly what they have to do, they can spot weakness a mile away...
       It`s their addiction that controls their mind and you are their next fix...
       In closing, if you sense any kind of manipulation by a so-called Dom, GET THE HELL OUT...TY 4 yr time...Sir Richard


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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:03:06 AM

KatyLied

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Waiting for the wannabe subs are like.....

installment.

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:07:13 AM

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deleted for unnecessary snarkiness... sorry

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:08:05 AM

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Yes, I've seen people in here who think they need to "Dominate" a sub "financially" too.
They want a sub to sign over all assets to them.
That's a big "STAY AWAY" sign!

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:09:34 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

Thanks for the warning! We submissives are so naive that we cannot tell the difference between lying cheating scum and good dominants. Without your diagram of "wannabes" we would be so helpless! Perhaps some of us will read your post and email you since you are such an honorable fellow.

Julia, you mean you're NOT helpless?

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:10:01 AM

juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Waiting for the wannabe subs are like.....

installment.

A wannabe sub is a like a box of chocolates...rofl

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:11:03 AM

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Welcome back popeye

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:12:14 AM

KatyLied

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I liked your snark, just saying.

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:14:18 AM

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quote:

In closing, if you sense any kind of manipulation by a so-called Dom, GET THE HELL OUT

I wonder if starting a post with a statement like: "I`ve always considered myself to be a great Dom, not because of my experience level but how I treat people..." qualifies as manipulation?

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:15:01 AM

Phoenixandnika

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How are Doms who lie about who/what they are any different than any other person who lie about who and what they are? *laughs*

In my opinion they aren't. Doms do not hold exclusive rights to being liars, cheats, fakes, ect.

Side note: crack addicts or addicts in general typically don't care who they steal from. They will do what they have to feed their habits, so I find your comparison and statement flawed in that aspect.

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:18:59 AM

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Dang SirRichard, it sounds and looks like you have had a hard life with all these experiences. You must know a lot of subs who have been taken away by "manipulating Doms." Why do you think you know so many like that?

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:19:34 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied
Waiting for the wannabe subs are like.....

Except it would be exactly the same thing.

One could point out that the ones who rail against the wanabes are usually just using another manipulative ploy to make themselves look like the dashing knight of protection...but then one might get called cynical and I've already had that done today. :)

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:21:07 AM

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LA, you mean SirRichard might be manipulating? Imagine that.

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:21:37 AM

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lol . someones snarkiness got exposed .... so if subbies arelike a box of chocolates does that mean we never know how many we'll get or if we'll eat em all ..... and thats all I got to say about that.

To the OP .... manipulation lies on both sides of the fence ... lets remember and its not gender based .. it could be Domme or Dom .. male sub or female sub ... hell I imagine even the intergendered can be that way ...

let me ask you this question . if a slavedoes something intentionally wrong to get spanked . has she not manipulated the situation ..... does this in fact make her a wannabe?

Ponder that for a minute .. I got time

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:22:47 AM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

Welcome back popeye

Julia, thanks!
I got in @ 0100 this morning. LONG ride.

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:27:16 AM

Phoenixandnika

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I wasn't going to ask but well I just can't help myself.

What do people consider "wanna bes" ?

On a personal note: Tamer I love your signature!

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:27:17 AM

SirRichard1946

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It seems like my opening line is upsetting people so I will remove it...TY 4 setting me straight...

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:28:19 AM

KatyLied

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quote:

let me ask you this question . if a slavedoes something intentionally wrong to get spanked . has she not manipulated the situation ..... does this in fact make her a wannabe?

Um, no. That makes her a disrespectful brat.

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:34:38 AM

Phoenixandnika

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Perhaps by manipulating the situation she is simply testing her limits and her dom/me. I personally don't think it is bratty behavior I think it is natural to some degree for us all to try and manipulate situations or to see if we can.

If her Dom/me knows that they are manipulating the situation to get spanked is she truly manipulating them? Or are they(the dom/me) manipulating the situation?

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RE: Wannabe Doms are like crack-heads... - 9/13/2006 10:35:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Phoenixandnika

I wasn't going to ask but well I just can't help myself.

What do people consider "wanna bes" ?

On a personal note: Tamer I love your signature!

thank you very much ..... says alot doesn't it? ...its from my favorite movie

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