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RE: Experinced Domme's your help is requested. - 9/14/2006 11:07:32 AM

TheMightyBitch

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Lady Hugs.......WOW!

Great insight & thought went into your post. Don't think I am taking what any of you have to say to me lightly. I have ben meditating on it & struggling with how it will all come together & work for me.

I enjoy hearing you & others prospectives on my thoughts, as I go about trying to find what works for me.

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RE: Experinced Domme's your help is requested. - 9/15/2006 12:44:40 AM

mons

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greetings

hello you moving to fast take it slow when i talk to someone on the net we write for some time then i move to the phone many are scare and shy, so they will back down fast take you time let them know you not going to hurt them, trust you most of all i do not know if you have done this or not but it is importnt they know they are safe some my have had bad times with someone or new very new.

you may have passed up some great ones i had one who was new shy and he was a great sub.
take you time a and the weekend of training no it is not like that at all you must know someone for sometime i know of no sub who will do this weekend thing unless he is a pain person many sub pride them selves on taking time to know a person so slow down you getting it and it takes time to find that wonderful sub you will be fine

best wishes mons

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RE: Experinced Domme's your help is requested. - 9/15/2006 2:12:37 PM

MizSuz

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When I'm amenable to meeting someone new I usually insist on a quick meet. Generally, I do not discuss BDSM and/ or relationship topics with people I haven't met. I think the willingness to do so tends to feed the trolls. Once we both have a human being whose eyes we have looked into then I am amenable to playing 'getting to know you' online, as I think of online as a communication tool with those I have established relationships (casual, friendship, sexual, D/s, S/m, whatever). Until I've looked in your eyes you are smoke to me. We may enjoy interacting but my investment doesn't go much farther than that. I don't spend weeks and months playing getting to know you with someone I might find interesting unless I've met them. I meet them and see if I find them interesting in meatlife. Then I take my own sweet time, online, on the phone and in meatlife.

I agree with LadyHugs, the best relationships ('best' meaning closest to your ideal - romantic, deep, superficial or otherwise) develop naturally when you're not searching for them; rather, getting on with your life and being open to the possibility seems to be the best course of action.

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