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RE: Masters - 9/14/2006 4:50:51 AM

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I think you should be considering what you want and not just hanging on to whatever signals he is giving off you should discuss your worries about where the relationship is going with him and ask him to be honest with you. Though I think the most important thing is for you to ensure that you are emotionally ready to deal with all the possible eventualities if you are unsure where the relationship is going. Has anything happened to him recently that could account for his sudden change of behaviour if you cant think of anything then perhaps you should mention to him that you have noticed a change and you need some reassurances with regards to where your relationship is going.

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RE: Masters - 9/14/2006 6:21:26 AM

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dear sweeth0nesty - any time you feel a red flag, then you obviously have reason. go with your gut.

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RE: Masters - 9/14/2006 6:24:03 AM

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I say he isnt much of a Dom....so strap his ass to a bench...and find your self a real Dom

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RE: Masters - 9/14/2006 8:13:58 AM

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thank you all for your advice, i also feel this relationship isn't going anywhere. All he seems to do is sleep, watch sports news channel, and check out other sites on line. To me this isn't a relationship and i will be moving out as soon as funds allow me to do so

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RE: Masters - 9/14/2006 2:06:32 PM

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RE: Masters - 9/14/2006 3:18:47 PM

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It sounds to me he's not a very concise man. What Master need's a list to know what to do, or even to remind himself what to do?? It does sound like you are unhappy with the way things are, better to follow your own gut instinct about things rather then sticking it out till the reality of it is screaming at you. It also sounds to me like him telling you he will be your master till he can't be anymore or he gives you away is him trying to put in some sort of escape clause to save his own ass in all this. If he's looking for another slave and the one he already HAS is not happy - how considerate and astute is he to whats happening around him?? i doubt he'll ever be happy with anyone till he does some introspection himself. Good luck to you!

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RE: Masters - 9/14/2006 6:35:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: sweeth0nesty

thank you all for your advice, i also feel this relationship isn't going anywhere. All he seems to do is sleep, watch sports news channel, and check out other sites on line. To me this isn't a relationship and i will be moving out as soon as funds allow me to do so

Good for you. Do it.

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RE: Masters - 9/14/2006 6:39:57 PM

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I'll be rooting for you.

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