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DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 9:54:44 AM   
ILYAH


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Status: offline 		I am new to this lifestyle, adn do nto knwo much about what I am looking for.  I do know what kind of woman I would like, small, short, small breasts, little butt, etc.
However, I don't know the exact limits or other spec on being what I wan tto be.
I am a caring, non-abusive, dominant male, that has always taken pleasure in teaching a woman what I like and what I want her to do, and how to do it.
Much of my previous exp has been with women that have submitted themselves to me without the forethought of it being this relationship, at least from my end.
Many of them had never had assplay, deep throat, etc., what they may have thought a out there, but is normal to me.
I do like role playing and that is where the confusion comes in.  If I like playing Daddy, adn want the woman to be sub and play the faughter role, is that really DaddyDom?  or is that just plain old role playing?
To clarify some more, I make sure that they are taken care of sexually, and emotionally, but do not wish a 24/7 set up, at least not yet. I tend them to make sure that they are clean and get off as well, but like to tell them what to do and how to do it.
So, you see my confusion.
Thanks,
ILYAH

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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 9:57:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Despite half of your post being an ad, I'll go ahead and give you info on the daddydom thing.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_546688/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#546972
Another daddy dom question

http://www.collarchat.com/m_541638/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#541832
How does a dom decide to be a daddy ?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_540044/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#540129
Daddy's Girl

http://www.collarchat.com/m_278285/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#278992
What exactly is a daddy dom?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_259176/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#259184
Are there any daddies here?

Daddy/Daughter Roleplay

Daddydoms and Babygirls

Daddy?

Daddy/little girl

Hiding Daddy's Belt

Daddy doms

Daddy's little girl

Daddy? (2)


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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 10:03:45 AM   
ILYAH


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Status: offline 		Did not mean it to be an ad, I just thought the more information the better to get help with this.


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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 10:39:18 AM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		Now that we have the appropriate links to learn about DaddyDom, can we focus on the 'small, short, small breasts and little butt'?  That should lengthen the thread.

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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 10:43:27 AM   
NastyDaddy


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Status: offline 		The Daddy/Dom role and the Daddy thing have each been addressed quite often in the forums. LA is sort of the unofficial message board librarian and she is very good at her voluntary task, thanks LA.  Please review and enjoy the topics links LA provided and I'm sure you will find many answers or directions you seek. Welcome to the message board and enjoy your visits.  

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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 10:50:01 AM   
KatyLied


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quote:

'small, short, small breasts and little butt'?  That should lengthen the thread.


And it should make it easy for him to shorten the time he spends looking for a sub.  It's so nice to see someone focus on the important things in relationship-building.  ::insert eye roll::


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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 10:57:37 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

And it should make it easy for him to shorten the time he spends looking for a sub.  It's so nice to see someone focus on the important things in relationship-building.  ::insert eye roll::


::inserts complimentary eye roll::  for not replying to the poster who posted what you replied to, lol   

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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 11:12:05 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

'small, short, small breasts and little butt'?  That should lengthen the thread.


And it should make it easy for him to shorten the time he spends looking for a sub.  It's so nice to see someone focus on the important things in relationship-building.  ::insert eye roll::



Perhaps he could do what so many dominants do, after he finds that the petite are not common enough to find he could date a more robust gal he can order to diet and exercise?

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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 11:12:33 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		I was responding to you in agreement, isn't that enough?




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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 11:23:02 AM   
Mavis


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
Perhaps he could do what so many dominants do, after he finds that the petite are not common enough to find he could date a more robust gal he can order to diet and exercise?


Or post back in a week about how there are to many fat chicks in BDSM.  lol

[edited to add..  ]
ok, that was mean.  Having a certain look that excites one is a fair deal,  but it's always going to draw a bit of snickers. sorry.

< Message edited by Mavis -- 9/14/2006 11:24:29 AM >

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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 11:29:45 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		or what about tall and hourglass shaped

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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 11:30:50 AM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		Well Americans are overweight, not just submissives Mavis, and this is just a quick aside as not to hijack this thread, there have been many submissives that post about being ordered on to a diet, and it has made me wonder if the reason dominants do this is not because they are looking out for the sub so much as they could not find a thin sub, therefore they go into the relationship looking to change her... I am sure that is not the case everytime, but it has crossed my mind.

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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 11:36:36 AM   
Mavis


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Status: offline 		Oh, for sure i think the diet and exercise brigade isn't always motivated by purely altruistic concerns.  <grins>   but then, it's not so bad..  the reason a Dominant is a dominant is usually because They want what They want Their way..  so shaping the body is no less intrusive (or maybe less so!)  than shaping the mind.

i wonder if i were a Domme, and it could be done, if i wouldn't find a short submale i really clicked with, then trained him to be taller.  Wow, there's a thread..   "Body Dominance"

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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 11:48:18 AM   
ILYAH


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Status: offline 		I guess that my idea of a small woman is not with the common trend in what is PC in the USA.  I know that htere is an issue with body types.  To me it is an issue for that person and not for me, per se.  I like what I like, and I do not like what I don't.
As for the forced dieting, not an option.  I am dominant, but I do not get off to much on the forced anything.  A willing participant is what I am after.  Be that wrong to some views or not, it is my like.
That is not to say that there may be the perfect person that I am over looking due to weight or other issues, but I am just starting, and I dont know that much yet.  As I grow into this, I will grow in likes, dislikes, and I am just looking for someone to learn with me and maybe grow into this with me.
If  it was all for a cheap thrill, then maybe I should just troll the bars and do what I used to do.
I appreciate the input, and the links, and all fo the comments.
ILYAH

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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 6:38:38 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		ILYAH...you are just being teased...When you have been on here on long enough you will see threads about weight issues that become a very hot topic for all that go on and on and on ad infinitum...seek what you seek....learn....all will be well...just a hint however..You may like what you like but do not maintain a closed mind to any possibility ...for that perfect one for you may not necessarily have that perfect little package, but may have that depth of soul,intelligience or sweet nature you also may seek......best wishes..Tempting

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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 6:55:46 PM   
ILYAH


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Status: offline 		I am new to the entire online thing.  And trying to get both the lifestyle change and the online community dos, donts, adn all is somewhat overwhelming.
Thanks.

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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/14/2006 7:52:19 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		LOL...tell me about it!...Tempting

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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/17/2006 12:07:35 PM   
amlonging


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Status: offline 		I read this on his profile...If you have some Tomboy in you, all the better .... You must be thin, small, and petite, please, no extra fat.
Having been a tomboy turned girlie and still athletic, I am thinking he might want to quantify even more on his likes...
small, thin, athletic, toned and petite with a nice round ass ...after all not all small thin petite girls are able to play with the boys like an athletic type or even toned woman can.

OK...now I admit I am being a smart ass .......good luck ILYAH

edited to add... I might suggest, expand search area or join several munchs

< Message edited by amlonging -- 9/17/2006 12:09:28 PM >

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RE: DaddyDom - New to this - 9/17/2006 12:13:28 PM   
ILYAH


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Status: offline 		Being  new to the lifestyle asa well as the online community, I thought putting it there as I would like it would be a good thing.  Was I wrong?  Should I tone down the likes and just see what happens?
Also, I have heard of them, but where would I find a list for local munches in the Philly area?
Thanks,
ILYAH

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