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Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 2:23:02 PM   
redvanilla


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Status: offline 		Hello everyone!  I have been given an order and for the life of me my imagination has run dry... does anyone out there have some suggestions??

I need to do something that meets the following requirements:
Turns my Dom on
Something that he can observe me doing
Something degrading/humiliating
Something that he has not seen (this is where I get stuck)

I am new at most of this and have not experienced a lot... any ideas to share??

Thanks

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 2:41:56 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Does he want something that is BOTH degrading and humiliating, or can you pick one?  Does it have to be so to YOU or to yourself, or to both of you?

I'd say put an ad on craigs list to sell your sexual services for a night for a box of pop tarts.

But really, I'd need a bit more clarification.

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 3:27:31 PM   
GeekFreak


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Status: offline 		Well without knowing what turns on your Dom, this is pretty hard.

I'll take a random shot with --

Some naked or scantly-clad self-bondage (when you bind yourself...since it's something you're doing) in your backyard.

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 3:28:09 PM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Does he want something that is BOTH degrading and humiliating, or can you pick one?  Does it have to be so to YOU or to yourself, or to both of you?

I'd say put an ad on craigs list to sell your sexual services for a night for a box of pop tarts.

But really, I'd need a bit more clarification.


Can he observe her doing this though?....

To the OP, is this via webcam or in person... have to know to give ideas on how much of you he will actually be able to see...

As LA pointed out, what one person finds humiliating another doesn't.

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 3:33:40 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
Can he observe her doing this though?....

You're right, she'd have to put in the ad that there would be someone watching, or ask for someone into webcamming.

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 3:37:13 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		Yes, more information please.

We're a pretty ruthless bunch, with no end of good ideas.

The result is likely to involve peanut butter, though.

Jeff

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 4:12:54 PM   
Ladyofthemanor


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Status: offline 		hmmm....dress up for him.  lingere, heels, hose...the works....

observing you doing what?? serving him? ie dinner on  your knees while you eat yours off the floor.  Or serving as furntiure for him to use, like a footstool, or a table for his food, or better yet a plate for it. 

 or something service or something sexual?  like masturbation or what?


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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 4:38:36 PM   
redvanilla


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Status: offline 		Thanks everyone... umm... I do not have a lot more specifics... he will be there with me and watching.  This must be both humiliating and degrading to me.  Beyond that, the options are wide open.  We have not been together for very long, so even my knowledge of just what turns him on is a little sketchy.

Peanut Butter, eh?

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 4:41:45 PM   
twicehappy


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ORIGINAL: mstrjx

Yes, more information please.

We're a pretty ruthless bunch, with no end of good ideas.

The result is likely to involve peanut butter, though.


And dancing bananas, lol.

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 5:09:38 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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And dancing bananas, lol.

Now you're talking...

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 5:11:12 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		Well, then at this point it's fairly difficult to say, only because we don't know what HE has seen before.  With you, clearly not much.  No matter.

This is something I did with one of my past slaves.  As far as she was concerned, she had to do this indefinitely.  I gave her a reprieve after the first year (to the day).

Whenever she had to do the ol' #2, she was permitted to go to the bathroom, door open of course (privacy not permitted in a slave).

However, if all she had to do was #1, she had to use a large kitchen pot, and squat.  Often in front of me.  Not in the bathroom.

Would this fit your own definition of humiliating/degrading?  Your mileage, as they say......

Is this something you think he's seen before?

If you truly wish, you could also slather some peanut butter on your nipples to make nice little clumps.

But I think at that point the peanut butter is entirely optional.

Have fun.

Jeff

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 5:41:58 PM   
ayasha


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Status: offline 		very difficult for us to answer without knowing what you consider humiliating/degrading.  And does He mean something He has NEVER seen, or never seen you do?

someone mentioned peeing in some type of container - that is along the lines of what this one was thinking of - of course that can mean anything from just peeing in it, to having to lap it up like a dog afterwords - as one said, depends on what you think is humiliating/degrading and what your limits are (smiles, if you get to have them). 

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 6:47:25 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: redvanilla

Hello everyone!  I have been given an order and for the life of me my imagination has run dry... does anyone out there have some suggestions??

I need to do something that meets the following requirements:
Turns my Dom on
Something that he can observe me doing
Something degrading/humiliating
Something that he has not seen (this is where I get stuck)

I am new at most of this and have not experienced a lot... any ideas to share??

Thanks


hummm..heard once from someone here on CM who (I think..grin).had their Dominant come to dinner (you can include his closest friends) and the submissive was on the table with dinner to be eaten from her body...for dessert well..lol....maybe you can think that one out......Tempting

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 7:24:47 PM   
RedSavageSlave


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Status: offline 		do a google search for BDSM checklist... look at all the items listed on there.. it could give you some ideas :)

good luck to you!

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 8:50:24 PM   
BitaTruble


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quote:

ORIGINAL: redvanilla

Hello everyone!  I have been given an order and for the life of me my imagination has run dry... does anyone out there have some suggestions??

I need to do something that meets the following requirements:
Turns my Dom on
Something that he can observe me doing
Something degrading/humiliating
Something that he has not seen (this is where I get stuck)

I am new at most of this and have not experienced a lot... any ideas to share??

Thanks




You fulfilled all the requirements by coming to the forums asking for wanking material. Consider it a job well done and move on to the next task.

Celeste

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 9:43:23 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble
You fulfilled all the requirements by coming to the forums asking for wanking material. Consider it a job well done and move on to the next task.

Celeste

I thought about that also, but then considered that surely he's seen that before.

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/14/2006 9:57:54 PM   
juliaoceania


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Buy different sized cucumbers and strip in front of him, get out the lube and have some fun performing.... if that just is not humiliating enough, have him take pics while you do it... He may or may not have seen this before, but it can be humiliating seeming if you do it right.

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/15/2006 2:32:34 AM   
mstrjx


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

Fast Reply

Buy different sized cucumbers and strip in front of him, get out the lube and have some fun performing.... if that just is not humiliating enough, have him take pics while you do it... He may or may not have seen this before, but it can be humiliating seeming if you do it right.


But that still might not be enough!  Has he posted these types of pictures on the web?

Would that be humiliating enough for you?

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RE: Need ideas - trying to fulfill Dom's request - 9/15/2006 5:59:00 AM   
Sirandlittle1


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Status: offline 		Im with Celleste, the jobs allready done, next task!

And this is just the sorta stunt my Dom pulled at the beginning. Which was hard, really hard for me to do, coz whilst he said all that, all i heard was......"Ive got no fucking idea how to dom you, can you come up with something for me?" so submitting anyhow, was tricky.

Good luck
little1

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