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playmate?? - 9/15/2006 11:20:53 AM

Master96

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I came across a female-sub profile. She is looking for a “playmate”.

I’m curious why a female-sub would play with another sub.

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 11:24:10 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Master96

I came across a female-sub profile. She is looking for a “playmate”.

I’m curious why a female-sub would play with another sub.

Thanks,
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this slave could think of many reasons why

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 11:24:17 AM

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Was she unowned? Perhaps she is bisexual with other subs

If owned or seeing someone perhaps she wants a playmate to play with in front of a dom

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 11:24:31 AM

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Probably more emotionally fulfilling than playing with wannabe Doms.

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 11:27:10 AM

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because she is horny and she can??

because her dom is actually wanting another sub but if they put it that way they will get alot of "ewww"?

because .. I dunno.. why dont you ask her?

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 11:30:08 AM

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You ask why...I ask why not.

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 11:33:27 AM

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quote:

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You ask why...I ask why not.

That is priceless

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 11:35:35 AM

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yeah, Confucius aint got shit on me.

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 11:36:05 AM

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Well,

She is owned. And I didn’t message her because she said in her profile “NO MEN”

What makes me ask this? hummmm…

Do dominant couples play with each other?
I understand there are homosexual people, but being a sub and attracted to a sub? Is that possible?

Or being a switch between an Owner and sister?

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 11:43:35 AM

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quote:

I understand there are homosexual people, but being a sub and attracted to sub? Is that possible?

Yes it is, I am pretty straight minded. If my Dom wanted me to play with another female it wouild have to be another submissive at this point. I have a hard limit about being dominated by another woman. I would play with another sub if he wanted this.. he doesn't. I am more aroused by the thought of submissiveness in action than I am about dominance in action when it comes to fantasies. I am aroused by being submissive, and I am aroused by other women being so, not dominant women, not submissive men.

I do not know if that makes sense or not.... let me explain it this way... watching a woman being dominant does nothing for me sexually, watching another female be submissive does arouse me

Watching a dominant man being dominant makes me hot as hell.. watching a submissive man does nothing for me.

I am thinking about pornography I have viewed BTW

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 11:44:07 AM

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Any combination fo sexual orientation, gender and kink orientation is possible. If it's a couple made of the same kink orientation, they are usually poly or switch with each other, or both.

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 11:51:54 AM

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I also have to ask....why not?
Subs don't always have to be dominated.
Perhaps her Dom has given her permission to seek out a sub for fun. Perhaps he is involved; perhaps not.

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 11:52:27 AM

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Thanks juliaoceania and Master Fire.

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 11:55:43 AM

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.......seek out a sub for fun.......

Fun for him or her? And i'm not asking about the fun to obey her owner whatever he asks.

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 12:04:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Master96

Well,

She is owned. And I didn’t message her because she said in her profile “NO MEN”

What makes me ask this? hummmm…

Do dominant couples play with each other?
I understand there are homosexual people, but being a sub and attracted to a sub? Is that possible?

Or being a switch between an Owner and sister?

Master96,

She probably wants another sub to engage in bisexual activities either in front of her Owner or perhaps not and with his permission. Some Owners are very good about giving their subs what they need.

Yes Dominants do play together, alot of Dominants like to bottom occasionally. Notice I said bottom and not submit, there is a difference. I will bottom sometimes and have my sub do it, of course I'm telling him how I want it done the entire time. But it is understood that I am always in control, even if I'm tied up. Thats power baby!

Of course a sub can be attracted to another sub, there are sub/sub couples of differing genders, some are same gender it just depends upon the couple. There are also Dom/Domme couples, there are many different combinations in the BDSM world and if it works for the people involved so be it.

Switch between Owner and sister. I am assuming that you mean a sister as in another sub. Sure why not? the switch can beat both their asses and then bend over to get hers whipped, as long as everyone is having fun and its consensual why not?

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 12:08:20 PM

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I was thinking that perhaps her Dom has given her permission to play with other subs. For her, it may not have anything to do with him, except for the fact that he wants her to experience it.

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 12:16:16 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I also have to ask....why not?
Subs don't always have to be dominated.
Perhaps her Dom has given her permission to seek out a sub for fun. Perhaps he is involved; perhaps not.

Exactly katylied.

my Sir had given me permission to have a playmate because He knew it would make me happy. He thought i was deserving of that permission. There are more things to do with a playmate than just have intimate moments.

With no disrespect to you Master96, you make it sound like something horrific. I'm willing to bet there's more of that going on than people realize.

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RE: playmate?? - 9/15/2006 4:07:54 PM

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Because some of us are bi and enjoy being with subs of the same sex occasionaly. as lovers.

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RE: playmate?? - 9/16/2006 9:56:20 AM

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Thanks everyone.

Yes Lashra, I meant a sister as in another sub.
And no disrespect in what you said Aslave4You06.

It is just a new thing I know in BDSM. It is interesting though. And I wanted to know it good : )

Thanks again,
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RE: playmate?? - 9/16/2006 1:18:40 PM

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i'm bi. If i have intimate fun with another female, it'll be in a nilla way. Completely devoid of power exchange. If i were seeking in the arena, i would say another sub, so there would be no mistake about the expectation to "submit" to someone aside from my Dom or Master.

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