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Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 9:33:41 AM   
skalover


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Status: offline 		Hypothetical questions are always fun, they make you think. (or at least I think so)

What would you do if your son or daughter on their eighteenth birthday came up to you and asked if they could submit to you temporarily (non sexually of course) and eventually find him/her a dominant.
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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 9:35:02 AM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		i never learned to speak hypothetical...LOL

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 9:59:02 AM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		I thought last week's set of answers, which included one about a 19 y.o. looking for 24/7 TPE getting mixed up with one or more people who really are old enough to be her father/mother, and what bit of nastiness could be got up to there.

Oh, well.

If we have to talk about 'this' question.

Nearly 100% of WIITWD is, if not sexual, then 'sensual' in nature.  If you remove this from the equation, the not-minor-who-thinks-they-are-submissive gets in this sort of situation.

Go do your homework.  Go rake the leaves.  Go wash the car.  You know, the life of a not-minor up until then.  What's the difference?

And if they want to explore further with someone else, and take it to a more sensual level?

Go find somewhere else to live.

Simple.

Now, back to the other, less hypothetical question......

Jeff

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 10:02:42 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: skalover

Hypothetical questions are always fun, they make you think. (or at least I think so)

What would you do if your son or daughter on their eighteenth birthday came up to you and asked if they could submit to you temporarily (non sexually of course) and eventually find him/her a dominant.

I'd say no. 

Frankly I'd be freaked out if my 18 year old progeny didn't feel they had the mature and sensible judgement to be able to court for themselves and wonder where on earth I had gone so wrong and begin working on that issue first and foremost.

But if they just came to me and outed themselves as being in the scene, we'd laugh mightily and I'd make damn sure we'd have open lines of communication to share and learn and I'd get them all the resources I could.

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 10:05:40 AM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		My son wanted to be of service to me as a teenager and listen to everything I say? It does not make rational sense to me, it just doesn't compute that he would not have his own life and defining himself AWAY from me. After all I am raising him to be an independent adult, not someone else's submissive... if he chooses this, well that is up to him.

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 10:45:40 AM   
sublizzie


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Status: offline 		Since both of my progeny are Dommes, it would have totally blown my mind for them to ask to submit to me. Not going to happen.

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 10:48:42 AM   
LTRsubNW


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quote:

ORIGINAL: skalover

Hypothetical questions are always fun, they make you think. (or at least I think so)

What would you do if your son or daughter on their eighteenth birthday came up to you and asked if they could submit to you temporarily (non sexually of course) and eventually find him/her a dominant.


(HUH?????)

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 11:50:24 AM   
KnightofMists


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Status: offline 		Hypothetical questions are indeed interesting... if they have any realistic application or possibility.

I see neither in this one

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 12:33:08 PM   
Rule


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ORIGINAL: skalover
What would you do if your son or daughter on their eighteenth birthday came up to you and asked if they could submit to you temporarily (non sexually of course) and eventually find him/her a dominant.

Let me guess. This is not a hypothetical question, but it concerns 19 years old skalover. Right? It is your second try already. It is a big scary world out there with a lot of weird and crazy doms. Right? But you want, need to submit. Right? And daddy and mommy are safe. Right? So if you submit to them and they get you a safe dom, it will be all right, not so?
 
Indeed, that is one way to go about it, skalover. Talk to your parents and ask them to counsel you or to take care of you.
 
The other way is not to rely on CM to get you a dom. I suppose that you already must have received lots of mails from men that you consider freaks and who scare you. (On the other hand it is my impression that several men on the message boards may be freaks, but that they also are decent persons.)
 
The other way to go is to access that tremendous spiritual power that I assume is characteristic of every sub. Feel your nature, feel your specific need for a suitable dom, desire to meet such a dom, and the universe will arrange for you to "accidentally" meet such a dom. (Be sure to recognize this moment and to ask for his name and address!)
 
As for me: if I had any money and did not suffer from this daily herpes simplex infection (mostly quiet, but always active) I would claim you for my own. You can do better, I am sure.
 

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 12:40:55 PM   
tade


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Status: offline 		I can't imagine my son being submissive at all. We often joke that it needs to be in our will's that when we are both gone that he will be told where our whips and what-have you are. Those things are heirloom quality.

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 1:32:36 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		I would be incredibly creeped out. I'd hope that my future kids would be comfortable enough to come to me with questions, but to actually ask me to dominante them? Maybe it's that BDSM is tied up inexhorably with my sexuality, but that would freak me out.

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 2:30:43 PM   
NastyDaddy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: skalover

Hypothetical questions are always fun, they make you think. (or at least I think so)

What would you do if your son or daughter on their eighteenth birthday came up to you and asked if they could submit to you temporarily (non sexually of course) and eventually find him/her a dominant.

Very easy.... for example, I would:

1.  Financially dominate their ass and start charging them RENT...
2.  Set their HOURS to be what Daddy wants, instead of what they want... 
3.  Inform them WHEN they are ALLOWED to go anywhere...
4.  Approve/disapprove their ATTIRE worn at home, and in public...
5.  Issue clear and concise INSTRUCTIONS to them all the time...
6.  CONTROL their activities (internet access, telephone use, television, etc)...
7.  Make them WORK or go to college, one or the other...
8.  MEET their friends and approve/dissaprove of them...
9.  EXPECT positive behavior and ahievements from them...
10. Not TOLERATE any whining, daydreaming, or fucking off...

That would do for a good start... then we' go from there.  

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 3:06:58 PM   
LTRsubNW


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quote:

ORIGINAL: NastyDaddy

quote:

ORIGINAL: skalover

Hypothetical questions are always fun, they make you think. (or at least I think so)

What would you do if your son or daughter on their eighteenth birthday came up to you and asked if they could submit to you temporarily (non sexually of course) and eventually find him/her a dominant.

Very easy.... for example, I would:

1.  Financially dominate their ass and start charging them RENT...
2.  Set their HOURS to be what Daddy wants, instead of what they want... 
3.  Inform them WHEN they are ALLOWED to go anywhere...
4.  Approve/disapprove their ATTIRE worn at home, and in public...
5.  Issue clear and concise INSTRUCTIONS to them all the time...
6.  CONTROL their activities (internet access, telephone use, television, etc)...
7.  Make them WORK or go to college, one or the other...
8.  MEET their friends and approve/dissaprove of them...
9.  EXPECT positive behavior and ahievements from them...
10. Not TOLERATE any whining, daydreaming, or fucking off...

That would do for a good start... then we' go from there.  


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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 3:20:34 PM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		I'd ask where they learned of this to begin with. I'd find he/she a group that EDUCATES as their primary focus..then when they feel comfortable, they can do what they do there.  I would not be in the equation other than connection for education.


< Message edited by LotusSong -- 9/16/2006 3:21:37 PM >

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 4:17:14 PM   
sublizzie


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Status: offline 		Which is exactly what I did with mine. I think it's called good parenting to educate your progeny or at least point them in the right direction.

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 8:33:00 PM   
OhReallyNow


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quote:

ORIGINAL: skalover

Hypothetical questions are always fun, they make you think. (or at least I think so)

What would you do if your son or daughter on their eighteenth birthday came up to you and asked if they could submit to you temporarily (non sexually of course) and eventually find him/her a dominant.

this slave would tell them to go clean their bedroom

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/16/2006 9:10:16 PM   
Rule


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Status: offline 		I would tell her to clean a small part of my bedroom. (I must get myself a sub - or two. Three subs would get three small parts of my bedroom cleaned per day.  No, I need more, and slaves as well. Menial tasks and sexual gratification after all are not the only purposes for them. There is also such a thing as world conquest.  )

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/17/2006 2:43:54 AM   
Wolfie648


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quote:

ORIGINAL: skalover

Hypothetical questions are always fun, they make you think. (or at least I think so)

What would you do if your son or daughter on their eighteenth birthday came up to you and asked if they could submit to you temporarily (non sexually of course) and eventually find him/her a dominant.


I'd say you were the FBI trolling.

D (owner of j).

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RE: Hypothetical - 9/17/2006 6:18:16 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: NastyDaddy

Very easy.... for example, I would:

1.  Financially dominate their ass and start charging them RENT...
2.  Set their HOURS to be what Daddy wants, instead of what they want... 
3.  Inform them WHEN they are ALLOWED to go anywhere...
4.  Approve/disapprove their ATTIRE worn at home, and in public...
5.  Issue clear and concise INSTRUCTIONS to them all the time...
6.  CONTROL their activities (internet access, telephone use, television, etc)...
7.  Make them WORK or go to college, one or the other...
8.  MEET their friends and approve/dissaprove of them...
9.  EXPECT positive behavior and ahievements from them...
10. Not TOLERATE any whining, daydreaming, or fucking off...

That would do for a good start... then we' go from there.  


That pretty much sums up what I was thinking. Obviously neither of mine have much submissive in them since I was only nominally successful after they reached age 12.

Me, "Clean your room today after school, I want it done before I get home from work" yeahhhhh riiiiiiiiiiiiight.
Me, "Be home by 12" slinking in at 12:30.
Me, "Is your homework finished?"   kid,  "uh? yeahhhh duhhh Mom" 
Me, "Don't talk to me like that!"................. Next day, phone call from teacher....homework was NOT done.
(back to Dominant 101 for me)

And damn if they weren't the sassiest, most (what is that term...SAM?) sort I have ever seen!
AND lawd knows you better not slap that sassy kid in the chops for mouthing off! Even if he is standing 6 inches taller than you, it's child abuse.
Nope, no submissives there.


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