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LadyHugs -> RE: submissive, slave or masochist wanted (9/18/2006 7:50:01 AM)

Dear amlonging, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
I can relate to the words written; .."Sadist seeking a real submissive/slave."  It gets boring hitting on a blow up doll or dress form. [Chuckles]  As long as they're not on life support, there is hope they're really 'there.' [Chuckles]
 
Real is indeed a over used word, to identify someone as an individual who does not stay within the safety behind the monitor but, who actively participates.  As with the case with me, I do have a life independent of the computer and, I do actively scene and participate in Leather events in the local area.  There are others on this list that I know are real as I've seen them with my own eyes.  However, it is important to add, that there are those who do want so much to become participants but, have little chance of participating for one reason or another; which doesn't make them any lesser or less real than you and I.
 
As far as seeking others, we all seek.  We're unique individuals indeed and we are not cookie cutter sorts, which our lives created the ingredients that made us into the recipe we are today. 
 
Some men do attract my Sadist side, to which I do get my thrills in so many way.  Some men attract the lady within.  Some men attract the military protocols, discipline and overall mystic within me, where my leadership skills have a chance to flex.  Some men and women do pull other aspects out but, most everybody has my affection with a lot of hugs.  When we (in general terms) partner with another individual, it is in the hopes to compliment our 'dish' per se.  This will permit that energy exchange, the relationship and the state of bliss. 
 
This holds true with slaves, submissives, bottoms and or masochists.  They come in so many flavors, to which they may have a splash of masochism and the main ingredient is service and every variety that one can imagine.  It is just a matter of finding the right compliment to what exists within ones self.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration and a bit of wit,
Lady Hugs
 



slaverubyred -> RE: submissive, slave or masochist wanted (9/18/2006 12:14:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Ladyofthemanor

First off i am a slave..i have no wants, desires, or needs other then that of my Masters.  i am also a big time masochist.  My Master is a Sadist, and i am his Masochist, but my Master not only gets off on seeing his property suffer, but also seeing his property organsming from the suffering he is inflicting. i am a well rounded slave, i get pleasure from not only suffering but serving my Master, and being a slave.  Under the line of "true" i think the only message there is this...A true slave/sub is one that gather pleasure from serving her Dom/Master.  i have come across a lot of subs/slaves that state, well it didn't bother me what he did to me..LOL....but asked if the sub/slave enjoyed it, or got enjoyment because her Dom/Master enjoyed it..the answer is, i am not sure.  Like a said a true sub/slave gets enjoyment from serving her Dom/Master no matter what type of service. 

just my 2 cents
slavelilly





what she said 110% [:D]



Tamerofwild1s -> RE: submissive, slave or masochist wanted (9/18/2006 1:33:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

If he is a dominant sadist he might be looking for a submissive masochist


4 words which in actuality are states of mind and each how true you are in the following julia have their own perticular levels based on the owner of the title

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As a sadist he might not care if the submissive is a masochist as long as she is willing to submit to the pain, in  fact he may not want a masochist at all.

I take people at their word for knowing what it is they want. I certainly do not know based upon a few words.


some Doms will also tend to assume a sub or slave will accept pain there for making her a bit of a masochist to some degree. but your ever so correct yet again . we cannot assume based on a few words to know the person telling the need.
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I made this comment on another thread... all slaves are submissives, but not all submissives are slaves. I do not remember where I first read that, but it makes sense. I can be a submissive with one dom and another might master me.. it depends on the needs within two people and their dynamic

There is a difference between all those terms.. the person with the ad probably has something specific in mind and will act according to that and not my definitions or yours... just thought I would point it out... not all define the differences the same

Yes LA is an extremely wise lady

On Edit, you issue was with the word "real" .. I think i am having trouble reading today so I am going to log off...lol

He still defines whats real to him I suppose, and when  I was looking those were keywords to weed people out.


how exceptionally correct . I have stated many times . there is a difference between sub and slave . its the level she choose to submit .... but the slave is still a submissive and none the better or worse just as Dominants have levels of thier domination and none the better in status.
 
and in all honesty if the person has a pulse and a breath . they must be real and not a figment created by the numbers 101101101
 
but yet again just my opinion <insert synergy words here>



ishalover -> RE: submissive, slave or masochist wanted (9/19/2006 12:21:32 AM)

hi am isha from west africa now but i have seve some master since i was in the state but now i am in wesrt africa



ishalover -> RE: submissive, slave or masochist wanted (9/19/2006 12:27:12 AM)

hi am isha kerently in ghana now i was in state befor iand  came to the africa he got some company working wheiht and all of sading he hard a call that hes son is sick and was going and comr back for about four mounth no soo i need some master to work



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