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Am I too nasty for your love?

Love sexual juices, smells, and tastes…rimming my loved one is awesome

68% (71)

Enjoy oral sex right out of the shower…I’ll touch your anus; maybe

25% (26)

I’ll perform oral (genital only) sex if pressured but prefer fingers

0% (1)

I prefer using condoms and keeping ‘stuff’ where it belongs

5% (6)

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/16/2006 5:32:43 PM

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I'll take this from the broader view. As a leader, you have to know that the people following you will respect you because you have a tangible stake in the result.

If a dom points to something that has an intrinsic discomfort level and says 'Here. Take care of this yourself.', then he is, naturally doing his domly duty. But in a very minimal sense.

On the other hand, if the dom leads by example, helps with the application, assists with whatever psychological qualms are being encountered, and makes the event special, albeit potentially humiliating (and there's nothing really wrong with that, either), then that is the sort of leader a follower is going to want to follow.

It also has been noted numerous times on these pages that a dominant's limits should exceed that of the submissive. So, I ensure that my taboos encompass yours. But I don't want the thread to become about that.

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/16/2006 5:39:11 PM

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hmmmmmmmmmm... Thank you, ...I think!

LOL The deal is, for all my 'nastiness' I'm actually fairly shy, I think. Not unusual, probably, but I dont' like to have attention drawn to myself; 'spreading' bits is hard for me!

And...I'm really private. While I like to pee outside, I don't want somebody watching. While I might like the humiliation of using a litter box...I'd about die if somebody watched me using it ('my Dom' included!)

Of course, He'd have the last word...but...gee...surely most let a girl 'purge' in private?

bear (who is, perhaps, not nearly as nasty as she thought! LOL)

PS... Okay... where ARE the rest of you people on this!!!???

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/16/2006 5:59:31 PM

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First off - definitely a number one. I absolutely love every aspect when it is about my partner. Me? Perhaps i'm the odd woman out but i have no desire for oral sex or rimming being performed on myself. None.

As for the other question posed - i'm with you, Bearlee. (Which reminds me that compatibility is a wonderful thing!) I'll also add i feel the same way about putting on makeup, doing my hair, plucking my eyebrows. I like being a girl. I don't necessarily like the idea of partaking in any of this while my Master watches. I just want to...emerge.....ready. Hope this makes some sense.

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/16/2006 6:12:42 PM

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i would have to say you missed one for sure. i love anal sex, have no problem with rimming.. but generally do prefer for Him to be clean. Overly sweaty, dirty sexual areas generally have a pungeant odor and with my sensitive nose, it can be overpowering to the point of making me physically ill.

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/16/2006 6:28:15 PM

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LOL... makes perfect sense to me, chameleon!

...pay no attention to the person behind the mirrors? <grinz>

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/16/2006 10:07:16 PM

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Can't answer using the poll answers.

I love oral sex, and love rimming, but hate bodily fluids. I deal with bodily fluids because I enjoy the acts that produce them. ~shrug~

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/16/2006 11:02:03 PM

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i chose #2. Anything that starts with "bath" is fine by me. Or rather, anything that is within 90 mins of a bath. After that, i start getting really creeped out by the effing voices yelling "Unclean! unclean! " in my ear. I don't have that same standard for the Him.. i can comfortably be intimate with Him up to 4 or 5 hours after a shower. That is an outside lim though.

Ok, i confess. i am a Virgo. i cannot share forks and spoons or drink after anyone not in my immediate family either... meaning i gave birth to you, or You fathered my kids. My mother and sisters would be too far removed. lol.

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/16/2006 11:39:20 PM

perverseangelic

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mavis

Ok, i confess. i am a Virgo. i cannot share forks and spoons or drink after anyone not in my immediate family either... meaning i gave birth to you, or You fathered my kids. My mother and sisters would be too far removed. lol.

*grin* I'm a Virgo too. :) Granted, I don't put much faith in astrology, given that I always run into this kind of juxtaposition.

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/17/2006 1:34:02 AM

diamonddreamlove

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AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA and proud of it the invite from my Dom. And He doesn't seem to think i am one bit too nasty lol.

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/17/2006 6:04:37 AM

Bearlee

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mavis

i chose #2. Anything that starts with "bath" is fine by me. Or rather, anything that is within 90 mins of a bath. After that, i start getting really creeped out by the effing voices yelling "Unclean! unclean! " in my ear. I don't have that same standard for the Him.. i can comfortably be intimate with Him up to 4 or 5 hours after a shower. ...

WOW...I know exactly how you feel! I'm pretty much the same way and if I can't take an actual bath before he wants me...I'd at least try for a 'submarine shower'. I've been with guys who insist I'm sweet tasting and will just go there anytime; and it almost mortifies me! But, it's sexy as hell, too; go figure. One of the hotest things for me is a guy who likes to go down on me after he's just cum there. OMG Anyway, yeah...He's got a whole different standard in my book; I even like the scent of him better after a couple hours. <shrugs> Maybe I'm weird, too.

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/17/2006 6:19:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee

WOW...I know exactly how you feel! I'm pretty much the same way and if I can't take an actual bath before he wants me...I'd at least try for a 'submarine shower'. I've been with guys who insist I'm sweet tasting and will just go there anytime; and it almost mortifies me! But, it's sexy as hell, too; go figure. One of the hotest things for me is a guy who likes to go down on me after he's just cum there. OMG Anyway, yeah...He's got a whole different standard in my book; I even like the scent of him better after a couple hours. <shrugs> Maybe I'm weird, too.

Well, now that we've established I'm the unofficial filthmonger in the crowd, let me suggest this.

You have your squicks, and it's all right to have them. But when you encounter someone who effortlessly tosses them aside with some devil-may-care attitude, then it becomes sexy.

(Trust issues aside,) how is this any different from encountering someone who can walk in, take a grip of your hair to get your attention, and claim 'You're mine now.'? You get caught up in the force of his nature and bearly have a chance to mutter 'Whatever you wish.'.

But isn't that what you want? Someone to expose your weaknesses and self-doubts, and show you that they needn't be considerations in the bigger picture? Someone who embraces you (even the squicky parts) and takes responsibility for all of that?

Just a thought for a Sunday morning.

Jeff

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/17/2006 6:24:35 AM

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Is it hot in here...?

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/17/2006 6:40:02 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee

hmmmmmmmmmm... Thank you, ...I think!

LOL The deal is, for all my 'nastiness' I'm actually fairly shy, I think. Not unusual, probably, but I dont' like to have attention drawn to myself; 'spreading' bits is hard for me!

And...I'm really private. While I like to pee outside, I don't want somebody watching. While I might like the humiliation of using a litter box...I'd about die if somebody watched me using it ('my Dom' included!)

Of course, He'd have the last word...but...gee...surely most let a girl 'purge' in private?

bear (who is, perhaps, not nearly as nasty as she thought! LOL)

PS... Okay... where ARE the rest of you people on this!!!???

I'm an A......kind of...only with my Master. I hadn't thought about it in *cold* terms..... only in terms of utter intimacy.

I'd LIKE to pee, poo, deal with sanitary wear privately......I can't envisage ever being comfy with these activities being witnessed by my Master, even though I accept it.

He's infuriating, sitting there, glancing at his watch occasionally as I TRY and try to *go*.......trying to use the moment that he turns his back to wash his hands to squeeze a wee out...the annoying moment when he turns back again, JUST as that point is reached, only for it to stop again...Bah!

I can't tell you how much I appreciate peeing all alone these days. I'm really aware of it..it feels such a luxury!

agirl

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/17/2006 6:49:01 AM

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I understand completely! I always try to pee quietly when 'he' is around! Crud, it's impossible; yanno? My father must have had the same problem, I remember he either turned on the water or flushed just as he started! LOL That flushing trick doesn't work for me though...cuz then I just have to flush again for da tissue that follows! I HATE wasting water... <sigh> Such a complicated creature I can be! LOL

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/17/2006 6:53:35 AM

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....lol...sometimes I try to sneak upstairs, while he's occupied, only to hear the words......* And don't even THINK of popping in the bathroom* I hate that man.

agirl

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/17/2006 8:22:34 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee
I even like the scent of him better after a couple hours. <shrugs> Maybe I'm weird, too.

Like you, I enjoy the scent (and flavor - of all things) of his actual body, rather than of soap. :)

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/17/2006 8:28:22 AM

Bearlee

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ROFLMAO...

I know ya do NOT... neener neener neener!

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/17/2006 8:57:56 AM

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Ok not much 'icks' me out but the thought of an enema has just put me off my very British cream tea and i'm not happy lol. It's not natural ya know

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/17/2006 9:01:48 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrjx

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee

WOW...I know exactly how you feel! I'm pretty much the same way and if I can't take an actual bath before he wants me...I'd at least try for a 'submarine shower'. I've been with guys who insist I'm sweet tasting and will just go there anytime; and it almost mortifies me! But, it's sexy as hell, too; go figure. One of the hotest things for me is a guy who likes to go down on me after he's just cum there. OMG Anyway, yeah...He's got a whole different standard in my book; I even like the scent of him better after a couple hours. <shrugs> Maybe I'm weird, too.

Well, now that we've established I'm the unofficial filthmonger in the crowd, let me suggest this.

You have your squicks, and it's all right to have them. But when you encounter someone who effortlessly tosses them aside with some devil-may-care attitude, then it becomes sexy.

(Trust issues aside,) how is this any different from encountering someone who can walk in, take a grip of your hair to get your attention, and claim 'You're mine now.'? You get caught up in the force of his nature and bearly have a chance to mutter 'Whatever you wish.'.

But isn't that what you want? Someone to expose your weaknesses and self-doubts, and show you that they needn't be considerations in the bigger picture? Someone who embraces you (even the squicky parts) and takes responsibility for all of that?

Just a thought for a Sunday morning.

Jeff

I keep reading this over and over, Yes its what I want..LOL

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RE: Am I too nasty for your love? - 9/17/2006 9:09:38 AM

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its truly natural an i just love it make mine super size #1 lol i just had to get in on this poll cheers

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