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Does this ever happen to you? - 9/16/2006 7:00:05 PM

Steelriven

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Ok, this question is directed mostly at age players, ABies, and people who regress during their "play, scene."

Have you ever had those times where it just hits you? A sudden rush of regression, or a feeling of submission? I.E. when you're sick, or feeling hurt? Or is it as simple as hearing a certain phraze and it can just hit?

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RE: Does this ever happen to you? - 9/16/2006 7:24:13 PM

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I don't consider myself an age player, so I'm not sure if I should be answering this, but there are specific activities, and even positions, that seem to cause me to spontaneously regress. Its not a 'role play' because there's no conscious intent, nor is it planned. Its like real without being really real. So, to answer your question, yeah.

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RE: Does this ever happen to you? - 9/16/2006 7:25:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Steelriven

Ok, this question is directed mostly at age players, ABies, and people who regress during their "play, scene."

Have you ever had those times where it just hits you? A sudden rush of regression, or a feeling of submission? I.E. when you're sick, or feeling hurt? Or is it as simple as hearing a certain phraze and it can just hit?

this slave is not exactly sure what you are asking. For herself, submission does not just 'hit', it is ongoing and ever-present.

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RE: Does this ever happen to you? - 9/17/2006 8:42:05 AM

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hum. for me it depends on the person. i tend to always keep myself half aware half little. but if i'm really comfortable with someone the little is in more control than my aware self. i remember discussing ageplay with a fellow person once and he described it as 'little space'. i like it because then i think it's easier for others that don't quite understand it to get a basic understanding of what it is.

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RE: Does this ever happen to you? - 9/17/2006 10:20:56 AM

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Isn't there certain levels of submission? Are there times where you have felt a deeper level of submission than in general?

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ORIGINAL: Steelriven

Ok, this question is directed mostly at age players, ABies, and people who regress during their "play, scene."

Have you ever had those times where it just hits you? A sudden rush of regression, or a feeling of submission? I.E. when you're sick, or feeling hurt? Or is it as simple as hearing a certain phraze and it can just hit?

this slave is not exactly sure what you are asking. For herself, submission does not just 'hit', it is ongoing and ever-present.

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RE: Does this ever happen to you? - 9/17/2006 10:21:50 AM

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I'm not a submissive or into age play,I do believe any type of session/scene can
enable you to "slip away" into those feelings of belonging,being understood,etc.

From My point of view being a Domme I can see it "hit" them if you will,a look comes over their face and their body relaxes.It becomes apparant their place is here and they embrace it. For some it doesnt "hit" them til they leave,the car ride home they have to pull over to take a moment to think about how they feel.

To Me that is the defining moment of why I do what I do.The fact My submissives are learning about themselves is what I live for.

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RE: Does this ever happen to you? - 9/17/2006 10:26:59 AM

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I've never been comfortable with using the term, "little space." Why? because to me regression is a much better word. It's what actually happens. And I don't think I should have to use a different word because others would understand it easier.

If they are curious, they ask. And I explain it. However regression and submission can be very similar. Hmm...

Have you ever had something trigger you into regression? You stubbed your toe on something, and just for some reason you instantly regressed? Even on a low level?

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hum. for me it depends on the person. i tend to always keep myself half aware half little. but if i'm really comfortable with someone the little is in more control than my aware self. i remember discussing ageplay with a fellow person once and he described it as 'little space'. i like it because then i think it's easier for others that don't quite understand it to get a basic understanding of what it is.

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RE: Does this ever happen to you? - 9/17/2006 10:33:17 AM

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toatlly understandable. but when i communicate with anyone and i know i am into something others don't, be it religiously, entertainment wise, or whatever i like using anologies to put it in perspective so that person can have a broad understanding or similiar ground of what i'm talking about. hum, well in your example the only thing that i'm triggered with is pain and a what can i do to make it stop reaction.lol, i guess the closest i can relate to with that is being around people with certain auras/feels of their self. i think for people who really are something they just come off as that way without even saying it. so if i come across someone that has a child or parenting persona in public i would have to restrain myself from naturally regressing/going little.

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ORIGINAL: Steelriven

I've never been comfortable with using the term, "little space." Why? because to me regression is a much better word. It's what actually happens. And I don't think I should have to use a different word because others would understand it easier.

If they are curious, they ask. And I explain it. However regression and submission can be very similar. Hmm...

Have you ever had something trigger you into regression? You stubbed your toe on something, and just for some reason you instantly regressed? Even on a low level?

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ORIGINAL: jesskitty

hum. for me it depends on the person. i tend to always keep myself half aware half little. but if i'm really comfortable with someone the little is in more control than my aware self. i remember discussing ageplay with a fellow person once and he described it as 'little space'. i like it because then i think it's easier for others that don't quite understand it to get a basic understanding of what it is.

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RE: Does this ever happen to you? - 9/17/2006 10:48:56 AM

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Isn't there certain levels of submission? Are there times where you have felt a deeper level of submission than in general?

of course there is
for example, the peace that this slave receives from seeing to the needs of her family is in no way equal to the peace and joy that she receives when seeing to the needs of Master.

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RE: Does this ever happen to you? - 9/17/2006 12:49:41 PM

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Remembering once giving a 'spanking' over the lap like one does a young person, though this was NO child ... the look that came over their face was ... inspiring and it taught the slave to truly understand themselve enough to free themselves to the experience. I'm not sure you would call that regression either ... simply ... inspiring. Everyone has a child inside. Some simply free themselves to feel that free again and totally taken care of ... trusting.

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RE: Does this ever happen to you? - 9/17/2006 1:19:09 PM

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I am always silly, playful and "girlish". I don't regress so much as I always keep one foot in a childish mode. When challenged by a very dominant personality, especially one that is extremely overbearing and pushy I can become "little" in a sort of compliant and insecure way. I hate it.

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RE: Does this ever happen to you? - 9/17/2006 1:39:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: Steelriven

Ok, this question is directed mostly at age players, ABies, and people who regress during their "play, scene."

Have you ever had those times where it just hits you? A sudden rush of regression, or a feeling of submission? I.E. when you're sick, or feeling hurt? Or is it as simple as hearing a certain phraze and it can just hit?

well i dont really fit into any of those catagories, but there are moments when i all of a sudden just drop and i'm like in "little girl" space. Certian things, certian ppl. Like i've a friend who that whenever i talk to them, they always greet me with "hello kelly belly" And if i'm in a good mood and stuff, it drops me.

Sometimes its just being open and close with some one - today i was on the phone.. being all open and close and granted i was sorta already "there" but i asked them if i told them i was going to start making pictures for them. Which isnt like odd for others, but for me.. its not something i admit doing. LOL

Generally, i cant put my finger on what puts me in that space. I just go there, randomly. I think its when you hit a level of openness

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RE: Does this ever happen to you? - 9/17/2006 1:56:48 PM

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hi, although i only occasionally age play i do find myself getting '"little" alot of times.It generally happens when i'm sick or something like that (like you mentioned) but, also since i'm in a Daddy/l-girl relationship (not age play based) i find myslef getting more innocent and with it more mentally and emotionally young. i don't baby talk, although my speech gets softer and sweeter. One thing that always brings it on is when my Daddy/Master is kind of scolding me or trying to get my attention and he begins the sentence with "young lady..." but also when he tickles me or kisses me etc. These things make me get little as well as just being in his presence, i am more submissive,softer,sweeter, "littler".
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