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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/18/2006 5:07:36 PM   
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True but sometimes to find the proverbial needle we must search the haystack

that may be, but perhaps you are looking too hard and too fast for the one needle that is needed
 
Actually, looking through the haystack wouldn't be an problem for them, It's having to search the entire Country, decide on the correct state, narrow it down to the county, locate the farm and then deciding which is the correct haystack that seems to be the issue. Then even if this is possible, if a potential is actually found, odds are pretty lame to get them to leave their safe haven in the pasture to show up for a casual no-strings visit. A needle I could find with a magnet...what they are talking about is much more intense.

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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/18/2006 5:26:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OhReallyNow

that may be, but perhaps you are looking too hard and too fast for the one needle that is needed 


Jewel has been looking for four years and has tried a few who did not work out; i have been looking for her for 6 months or so. We are going about it slowly but surely. It has been  out there on the boards more on my part as i contact males and am left going "huh?" to some of their needs and come to the boards looking for answers.
 
We really have no choice but to search how we do, if you do a search on Liberty Indiana you will only find our little poly family listed, for that matter the town's general consensus is we are also the token bikers here.
 
As for searching for specifics, i think we all do that. The one we find must fit into and compliment our family so yes; we are fairly specific in our search.
 
 

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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/18/2006 5:35:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		ok here is a thought i keep hearing you guys argue how hard it is....how impossible the odds are....how disapointing the candidates are....
 
what would happen if you started to experiance it as obtainable, easy and fun?
 
"change the way you look at things and the things you look at change"     ~some one wiser then me
 
"argue for your limitations and they are yours" ~ another person wiser then me

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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/18/2006 5:48:09 PM   
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ok here is a thought i keep hearing you guys argue how hard it is....how impossible the odds are....how disapointing the candidates are....
 
what would happen if you started to experiance it as obtainable, easy and fun?
 
"change the way you look at things and the things you look at change"     ~some one wiser then me
 
"argue for your limitations and they are yours" ~ another person wiser then me


Been there... done that. Actually, did that last week. This week... actually, today, he emailed me to tell me how sorry he was about the lies and deception and that I deserved better. Ok, that small jesture gave me a tiny glimmer of hope... not the lies and deception... the apology. I'm true to my Sagitarius nature... I am the eternal optimist. If I were asked on a lie detector if I thought unicorns were real I could probably pass with a yes.
 
This thread started out as tongue in cheek but the reality of it all is that twicehappy took it on herself to do some searching for me.. to weed out the players, liars and fakes because she just couldn't deal with me being heart broken anymore. That's amazing of her. She started this thread in an attempt to cheer me up. And I'm sorry if it comes across as someone that is all consumed with finding the perfect male sub/slave. I appreciate all of the positive input from everyone but lets take it like the joke it was meant to be. I'm all about Karma and fate.. what will be will be and I'm quite content to let it run it's course.
 
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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/18/2006 5:52:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

what would happen if you started to experiance it as obtainable, easy and fun?


Lol, we would keep the one who fit the best.......grins.
 
And i would not have to ask." why do male subbies________?"
 
Sweetheart, we know what you are saying and we love your posts (and pssstttt...i will try CL) but i often do get frustrated even trying to understand some of them, not all. I have received great replies from some, made friends with a few and more than you would think do take the time to say thank you but no, which thoughtfulness i really appreciate.
 
I think my greatest frustration is i am sitting here looking at this woman who is so very beautiful inside as well as out and has so much to offer the correct male sub/slave and i watch them abuse her trust, treat her like an emotionless automaton and well...let me put this bluntly.... (Pardon my French here)  It pisses me the fuck off!
 
I love her, i know here intrinsic value both as a human being and a domme, i am very aware of the tenderness of her heart; she may be the Domme and i may be the slave but much like a mama lion guarding her cubs do not hurt what i love!
 
 

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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/18/2006 6:57:22 PM   
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Twicehappy's search for the stable male subbie.
 
A few weeks ago LA said I needed my own column on the subject so here it is.
 
Now I am not searching for a stable of subbies, nor a swarm of SAMs , nor a school of switches, nor a covey of cross dressers , nor a flock of forced fems , nor a colony of cyber cocks, nor a herd of humiliate me's , nor a den of do me's, nor a mass of marrieds , nor a squad of sociopaths.
 
 (Not that we have anything against any of these, we have many friends who fit these categories)
 
I am simply searching for one stable subbie.
 
He can be slightly twisted; we would prefer that he is.
 
He can be semi sarcastic, we enjoy sarcasm as humor.
 
He needs to be piquantly perverted as are we.
 
I would say the first and most important thing he needs to be capable of is to simply show up.
 
He needs to be from the USA, not Turkey or Greece or Timbuktu.
 
It cannot be you David as (cute as you are) under any name, unless you show up on the doorstep prepared to suffer severely for your sins. (Dommes do talk dear.)
 
I have shopped at Wal-Mart, Kmart, Supersubbiemart, biker bashes, a mass of munches, a plethora of play groups, yard sales and flea markets.
 
I have gone on unicorn hunts, subbie snipe hunts, hell I have even tried mass mailings for masochistic men.
 
So, my question of the day is…..Where do I look now?
 
To the male subbies out there what are you looking for?
 
What is it that you need, where are you hiding?
 
Hmmmmm……anybody know where they hold regular slave auctions and if you do are they returnable for cash or a store credit?
 
Any of you who have been frustrated in your own search feel free to vent here or add advice as well.
 
 
 


What you seek you will not find.  Zen Koan.

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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/18/2006 7:14:05 PM   
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What you seek you will not find.  Zen Koan.
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So I should be looking for uptight, unavailable, ambivalent, fear of intimacy having men, and that way I won't find them?  
I'm sorry babes, but that doesn't make sense to moi (could just be me though).   The only reason I haven't married yet another wrong man is because I'm active in deciding who I am looking for.    M

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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/18/2006 7:16:56 PM   
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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/18/2006 7:26:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
That statement can be read more than even two ways
I agree...  Was trying to be funny.  
Although it's true that I waste less time on what I don't want by being more active in my search, than passively found.   M

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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/18/2006 7:27:38 PM   
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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/18/2006 7:32:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
I am dense sometimes...lol
No way will I agree with that about you!
Sorry Twice on the sidetrack to the thread.    M

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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/19/2006 4:08:14 AM   
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What you seek you will not find.  Zen Koan.


Who seeks shall find.      Sophocles

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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/19/2006 4:12:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

I'm sorry babes, but that doesn't make sense to moi (could just be me though).   The only reason I haven't married yet another wrong man is because I'm active in deciding who I am looking for.


BTF, all here know you understand the frustration of seeking the right one, the disappointments, the ones who appear to be perfect only to have them turn out to be not exactly as one thought.
 
I agree with your sentiments here, keep seeking proactively until you find the right one; which is what we are also doing.
 

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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/21/2006 4:57:35 AM   
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RE: twicehappy's new column. - 9/21/2006 6:56:09 AM   
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Ever notice when You're not looking, You get about 5494673 emails a day, but when You are...

nuttin'.


Absolutely!! The same thing happens when you state you are looking for females only.... every male out there will contact you. It's almost like they want to try and change your mind only so that if it happens they can say... opps, sorry, I'm not interested.... lol
 
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