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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/18/2006 7:02:15 AM

Tamerofwild1s

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I have often said . tho I am complex Iam still simple in nature .... so if I come home from work and my home is clean and I have a nice home cooked meal . that means huge things to me

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/18/2006 7:23:57 AM

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I find a hot cup of coffee at the bed side for when I wake. That act alone can speak volumes. Means they have taken the time to learn my morning routine and have just learned to have things ready as apposed to having to ask or remind what needs to be done

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/18/2006 2:05:03 PM

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Very strange little things i've never encountered in a male before.. although i heard they existed.. He took me aside at a public place once and said "listen to these lyrics".. singing them softly to me. Who pays attention to background music? and stops the discussion to share a moment? <HeartMelt>

Sends me burned CDs of music that is important to Him.. songs that remind Him of topics W/we share, the music is one thing, but it's the tidbits of self that are revealed along with them.. "This makes Me think about such and such.." He always relates to something that effects me personally, playing spotlight on my soul.

i like that the mushy side is tempered with the internal bastard.. balance like that stokes me up. <giggles>

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/18/2006 2:27:22 PM

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Hello A/all,

I was with somebody for a while when i was getting up at 4am to go to work. I bought a little cup warmer next to the bed. And in the mornings I would leave a cup of coffee for her when she woke up 2 hours after I had gone to work.

Sometimes I would buy flowers for her on the way home.

I would at times call her and ask her to get ready to go out, and then surprise her with a night at Disneyland, or dancing, or at a Comedy and Magic Club.

Take her out to dinner and order her the Cioppino and have a nice Chianti with it.

She said to me one time that she loved the Chronicles of Narnia when she was a child. One morning she woke up and the book I bought her was sitting on her pillow next to her with a red rose as a bookmark, and I was gone to work. I received a wonderful phone call in the sexiest and most loving voice at work thanking me for giving her that.

I am one of those twisted freaks in life that notices things. She would change her hair and I would compliment her on it. She would clean the house and I would thank her for doing it.

The list goes on. Being one of those weird noticing things types of people, I see what she goes ooo and aah at. I hear what she says. I remember it, and surprise her with it days or weeks or years later.

I refuse to spend my time here in some sort of psychotic quid pro quo fantasy. I do these things for her because she does many things, in her own way, for me. I have been in relationships where it went way too long with her doing nothing to put the relationship there, and I was nice about expressing what I needed, but I was firm when my needs were not met and I reached the limit I had set and ended it.

Just me, etc.

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/18/2006 2:27:45 PM

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Thanks to all who left posts in this thread...so glad I chose this one to read first thing in my morning.

*huggles to Bearlee* Thank you for starting this.

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/18/2006 3:54:27 PM

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We take showers together as much as possible. It's fun and silly and a nice break in the day or a wonderful start to a day. Sometimes it's sensual. Then there are times when it's just relaxing and me getting washed all over with a firm but gentle touch from the tip of my nose down to my toes.

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/18/2006 5:43:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: smilezz
Thorns does many things for me, but there is nothing that He could buy me, take me anyhere, that compares to just being in His presence.

~smilezz~

I have to agree with that. There is nothing like being in my Lord's presence.

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/18/2006 5:48:48 PM

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When He wakes up every morning at 5 am with me.. even tho He doesn't have to get up till 8am.. to stand on the balcony in any weather.. and wait till the bus comes to pick me up for work.. with a quick call as i'm getting on the busy 'love you babygirl'.. it starts my morning.. every morning..

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/18/2006 6:14:09 PM

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My relationship is still very new, but so far a few things have really made me melt...Sometimes he comes up to me at random moments, yanks my hair back, and gives me a deep, passionate, possessive kiss. Sometimes he leans over and for no reason, bites me hard on my neck (the last time, he bit hard enough to break the skin, and it was woooonderful.)

Also, when we're watching movies in his bedroom, he just lets me lie down, stretched out beside him on the bed, and cuddles my head against his chest while stroking my hair. It's been years since I was with anyone who would just cuddle and watch movies with me.

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