Thuddy VS Stingy.

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GddssBella -> Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 8:51:56 AM)
G'morning all: I get tired of all the bitch, moan, groan, whine threads. Seems like people have nothing better to debate. So, instead of following suit, I'll start a new topic. It's not much, but hey, it's better than another rant about emails, someone disappearing, not having expectations met, etc. Thuddy - Not my personal favorite. Tends to lull the subject into a completely non responsive state of space where he/she just zones. I like some feedback, damn it! snickers Stingy - Ahh, now we're getting somewhere. I'm all for getting my subject into space, but I want moans, groans, yips, yelps, whines, cries, tears, etc. Feeds the sadist within. I enjoy cruelty. In so many forms. Watching the subject get all fuzzy, then a sharp slap or crack and up comes those pleading eyes, begging. PURRS I prefer mixing the two for various results within a scene. In the end, we both get our ya-yas off that way. Okay folks, have at it! Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others... [:D] Bella edited for a typo

Silvermoon -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 9:04:54 AM)
Mmmm THUDDY, nothing like the lasting depth of a scene. Where hours later you can walk by and with a simple press of His thumb, instantly drop again! Stingy is ok but eventually you have to stop or break the skin and the sensations are momentary. Thuddy lasts for a while. grin Silver

becca333 -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 9:04:56 AM)
Sting is better than thud! Or, better yet, find those rare, lovely implements that give equal parts of both.

Mavis -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 9:23:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GddssBella Thuddy - Not my personal favorite. Tends to lull the subject into a completely non responsive state of space where he/she just zones. I like some feedback, damn it! snickers Wow, i love thuddy, but i find Master prefers stingy. i always thought it because He's a whip person and yadayada.. but wow. Thanks for that insight.. i can see how that's exactly right with me... i do zone quietly with thuddy. If allowed to continue going that way, i'll get to crawling to Your feeties and worshipful surrender, but rarely allowed to get that deep via the thuddy route. Must be because He's bored stiff? (or stiffless, as the case may be. lol) ::: runs off to ask about this.. :::

Sinergy -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 9:23:50 AM)
Hello A/all, I had an item made for weapons martial arts training about the size and shape of a police baton. It is split bamboo covered with suede. I decided a few years ago to pervert it, and apparently it gives the deepest and loveliest thuds according to those few I have used it on. If I hit too hard, it leaves enormous purple bruises, but since the martial arts tradition I used to teach deals with rubbing out bruises, this simply guilds the lily with more pain. Apparently, the subs I have used it on both love the pleasant thuddiness and compare it to being hit with a tree trunk when I decide to leave a mark. I also found that the most sting I was ever able to inflict was from a 3 foot piece of 1/2 inch PVC pipe I bought one day when I was out perverting Home Depot. What the one I am currently tormenting seems to really enjoy is a common soup wooden spoon. Seems depending on what part of the spoon I use I can get either thud or sting or an annoying tap tap tap sensation which she dislikes the most. Just me, etc. Sinergy

Rumtiger -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 9:26:11 AM)
stingy just frustrates the shit outta me, the pain is just centered around the top layers, I need something a little deeper, thuds are nice and fit me much better, because of my muscle tone I can actually withstand it a little longer.

zumala -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 9:34:04 AM)
I haven't much experience at all in these things, but I very much doubt I'd like stingy at all. Of course, I don't know what I want a bruised ass, either. Maybe I'm just a light-weight and like a little rather than a lot. Who knows? zuma

Emperor1956 -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 9:46:39 AM)
Thuddy, for Me. My favorite extreme toy is a razor strop. I love razor strops. I have new ones (just barely broken in) and a collection of 5-6 80+year old, supple, hand rubbed leather (or in the case of one rare beauty, horsehide). When you know how to use one on a defenseless backside, they give a range from stingy slap to the deepest, most lasting thud I can imagine giving (tho Sinergy's sueded bamboo does sound interesting). I just need to find a little painslut who can take a good long stropping...or maybe make someone into that little painslut (GRIN) ohhhh hooollly. yoo hooo... But I daydream. I also like some of the lighter toys that can make a repeated "tap tap tap" excruciating. A good wooden spoon works well. So does this nice little "lotion applicator" -- a hardwood disc with a handle, like a doll's hairbrush, with a soft foam pad on one side. Also the other day had some fun with a pumice stone set in a flat plastic handle...and a lovely, willing backside for a canvas. There I go daydreaming again. E.

OhReallyNow -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 10:41:02 AM)
*LOL well this slave dislikes pain, so she is all for anything that does not cause it [:o]* however, Master is very fond of whips and canes [:(], much like you, he likes to hear the 'owe', 'oh god please no more Master', 'oh my god master that hurt' kind of phrases that pop out of this slave's mouth at varying times. If he is feeling very sadistic [;)], he will tell this slave not to make a sound at all. *however, the smile in his voice, and the joy in his eyes when he holds this slave after, makes it all worth while [:D]*

MsKatHouston -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 10:46:10 AM)
awwwwww I have to choose just ONE? That would be very difficult for me to do, I really enjoy them both and I would say I use both on a fairly equal basis. I know that's cheating so I guess I will choose stingy because I love the ow's and the little dance on the tippy toes.

Lashra -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 11:49:48 AM)
Hmm I usually start off thuddy and then work into stingy...but my personal preference is for STINGY ftw! I love my braided cat for this it leaves such nice marks and the sound as it cuts thru the air is just exhilerating. ~Lashra

slaverubyred -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 11:57:50 AM)
Lol! The OP sounds far too much like my Master. Yum tho, W/we have a heavy dragon cane, a kooboo which is a fave with U/us both and the Evil Mr Whippy which Master loves and i love to hate. Mmmm! gotta love a cane! [:D]

Littlepita -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 12:33:20 PM)
Mmmmm YES!! Oh ok if I have to pick I will go with thuddy hands down. Almost like a deep tissue massage if done right. I love that!!

Mavis -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 12:44:20 PM)
ok, i checked this with Master. Yup. He's stopping my travel via the thuddies because He's wanting to see the more reactive side i display with stingy. Damn. Now that W/we've discussed it, might see a diff in "travel plans", but that's His choice not mine. So is it rude to ask, "is there a service top in the house please?"

ElektraUkM -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 12:46:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mavis quote: ORIGINAL: GddssBella Thuddy - Not my personal favorite. Tends to lull the subject into a completely non responsive state of space where he/she just zones. I like some feedback, damn it! snickers Wow, i love thuddy, but i find Master prefers stingy. i always thought it because He's a whip person and yadayada.. but wow. Thanks for that insight.. i can see how that's exactly right with me... i do zone quietly with thuddy. If allowed to continue going that way, i'll get to crawling to Your feeties and worshipful surrender, but rarely allowed to get that deep via the thuddy route. Must be because He's bored stiff? (or stiffless, as the case may be. lol) ::: runs off to ask about this.. ::: And another AHA from me too... I can 'settle down' to accept the thud, thud, thud... and 'zone'... and that is where I have wanted to be... accepting it... dealing with it... however much it hurts... Then when it STINGS... it brings me out... to shout, complain, flinch... jump a little. I don't want to do that because I feel I'm 'failing' by not accepting it, but complaining... and not only that, but I'm coming out of being 'there'... double bleh. But maybe that is what is intended..? And I don't know whether I would or could just push past the stinging into not noticing it again... and back into the 'zone'... or whether that wouldn't just result in injury (because isn't all the leaping about meant to protect from that?), but ... I just don't know... Puzzling now.

juliaoceania -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 12:47:26 PM)
I am a stingy lover, I love spoons, belts, his hand, looking forward to PVC pipe. I would love a rubber flogger. I am not crazy about tree branches

ElektraUkM -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 12:55:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania I am a stingy lover, I love spoons, belts, his hand, looking forward to PVC pipe. I would love a rubber flogger. I am not crazy about tree branches Hello... I'm just wondering... when you say you love the stingy... do you have the 'ouch! no!' reaction to it... or try to get past it into just obeying and being quiet..? Is it the 'ouch no!' thing that you love and he loves?

Sinergy -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 12:58:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania I am a stingy lover, I love spoons, belts, his hand, looking forward to PVC pipe. I would love a rubber flogger. I am not crazy about tree branches Was a face slap more of a sting or a thud? >:) Sinergy

submaleslaveuk -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 1:04:42 PM)
MMM How about a bit of both?? Start off with a thudder for a while before using a stinger for a short while as it will become unbearable or break the skin as mentioned already, before going back to the thudder??? Sounds like an idea to me!! Whatever You do GddssBella i am sure Your slave will learn to enjoy it ;) Take care submaleslaveuk darren xoxo

juliaoceania -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 1:08:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sinergy quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania I am a stingy lover, I love spoons, belts, his hand, looking forward to PVC pipe. I would love a rubber flogger. I am not crazy about tree branches Was a face slap more of a sting or a thud? >:) Sinergy \ Thankfully is was more of a sting, although if a dominant made a fist it might be more of a thud...WEG

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