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the power of Voice - 9/18/2006 2:24:20 PM

Mavis

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In the stingy or thuddy thread, One of the posters mentioned Voice as the best toy to take a girl to space.. i so concur i thought it might warrent another thread. (Tamerofwild1s comment)

i also find voice to be the quickest way to hit all my sexual buttons as well.

ANYthing done full facing front isn't near as good as when done from behind with that whisper in your ear. Play with my nipples? ok. cool. But slide up behind me, and touch them ever so lightly while making any comment in my ear.. it goes right from ear to point of touch to the point of eurghmmm..

Anybody else want to discuss the delights of using or responding to the voices?

(Not "the voices told me to stay home and clean my guns today")

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RE: the power of Voice - 9/18/2006 2:47:50 PM

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Recently I had a very interesting experience online with a submissive friend and the use of my voice. We regularly voice on yahoo, and it was very apparent by her own addmission that she was very sexually aroused by my voice. One night we were discussing the intricasies of Sado/masichism and it was my contention that pain and torture first began in the mind and was most powerful there. It was also my contention that torture comes in many forms including the with holding of that which one so deeply desires. My friend was adament that for a masochist, the with holding of pain was a total waist of time and that for her she would simply become bored with a Sadist that practiced such things. So, to prove my point, and because she kept begging me to voice with her (we had been using text up to that point), I told her that I would voice with her for one minute, then I would not voice with her the rest of the night (it was early in the evening). Not only this, but I also forbade her from pleasuring or touching herself in any way, or using any device or implement to do so. And I also forbade her from going to bed early or taking anything that would induce sleep. When it came time for her to go to bed, which was a few hours later, the girl was half out of her mind and totally helpless to do anything about it. Upon talking to her the next morning, her comment was that she almost hated me for what I had done to her. She said she had not slept at all because of the urge to pleasure herself and that I was cruel for doing it. Yet she felt a much deeper connection and a submission to me that she had never felt with any other Dominant. On my end, I also felt a sense of power and control over her that I had not sensed up to that point. Now all I have to do is mention "voice torture", and the girl becomes an instant mass of guivering submission. I believe that in many ways, the human voice can be the most powerful tool in Dominance and control, especially for women as I have found that they are more responsive to the voice much more deeply than men.

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RE: the power of Voice - 9/18/2006 2:51:01 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mavis

ANYthing done full facing front isn't near as good as when done from behind with that whisper in your ear. Play with my nipples? ok. cool. But slide up behind me, and touch them ever so lightly while making any comment in my ear.. it goes right from ear to point of touch to the point of eurghmmm..

Anybody else want to discuss the delights of using or responding to the voices?

Words are the clothes of verbal expression. Voice is the quality and thread count of those clothes.

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RE: the power of Voice - 9/18/2006 2:58:54 PM

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My boy tends to have much better and deeper responses to vocal commands than to touching. A big part of that I am sure is that the majority of our interaction until recently has been on the phone. However, I have found that it is very easy to pull him, and many of the other boys and girls I have worked with in the past, into subspace by speaking to them. And so I'm told, its a far more powerful effect then its a promise, not just a fantasy. My boy's main trigger is when we speak about our future together. It used to be when I was going to collar him. Now that he recieved his collar this week, he all but purrs listening to me talk about what is to be expected once he moves into my home after graduation. It doesnt have to be sexual talk, at all. It just has to be about us, and what he will become when he is mine full time.

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RE: the power of Voice - 9/18/2006 3:00:09 PM

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His voice, and the tones used, can lift me or flatten me, depending on his purpose and what he thinks I need. When I miss him, I sometimes call his voicemail just to hear him (I'm allowed to do that, lol). The last time I did that, I left a message saying, "You either need a longer greeting or it needs to instruct me to do something!"

I love his voice. The very first time I heard it, it captured me.

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RE: the power of Voice - 9/18/2006 4:03:41 PM

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The voice, the hands, the eyes, the hair grab= things almost universally adored by subs the world over, and things which are far too often put into bad poetry by said subs

http://www.collarchat.com/m_515776/mpage_1/key_voice/tm.htm#515810
voice pitch in dominant males

http://www.collarchat.com/m_375177/mpage_2/key_voice/tm.htm#376901
tone of voice

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RE: the power of Voice - 9/18/2006 4:21:32 PM

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I used to go to political chat and talk with activists and others that were nominally interested in politics quite a bit when I was in college and working on term papers. There was a gentleman that was very active in the peace movement that I began to develop a crush on. He was old enough to be my father and I had no idea what he looked like, but oh, the sound of his voice put me in a dreamy infatuated kinda la la land. I had him on my friend's list, so I would look for him to be online before going into chat where we would spend hours. I could listen to him talk forever. I had no idea he was a dom, and I had looked into BDSM because of my fantasies, but I had no idea what D/s was.

We began to get to know one another and then he taught this novice a lot about herself. The sound of his voice put me in a sorta subspace. When we went into real life that effect was still there. I have never met anyone who had a voice that could make me respond like this, almost hypnotic. I am glad I was able to experience it even though this person broke my heart in two. His voice made me respond to commands in a way that I never knew was possible.

I do not think this will ever happen again, and I am not looking for it or desiring it. The beauty of life and power exchange, no two are exactly alike, and each dynamic has its own personal 'syngery'. I do not miss that hypnotic presense in my life anymore.

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