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subsa -> party advice for newbies...just do it! (9/18/2006 3:14:54 PM)
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this week-end Master and i attended our first play party (actually it was a camp-out). you know how most of the time us newbies are told to get involved and go to the local scene parties? well, it's probably the best piece of advice you can get. i was really nervous to go; i almost backed out at the last minute. but once i got there it was just as natural as breathing. everyone was so open and accepting. most made a point to come over and introduce themselves. i've been reading for months (both books and on line) but reading is nothing like interactive learning. that's not to say that i actually participated in anything very edgy. i did play oiled twister and wrestling...we did some mild spanking, clip play etc.... but that seemed to be okay with everyone; there was no pressure to perform. i was afraid that there would be an unspoken sentiment that observing only would be akin to being a gawky tourist. but i didn't feel that way at all. Master and i had agreed that we would mostly observe for our first time ( that was to follow the second piece of advice us newbies get: go slow). for someone else maybe that would be going too slow but for me it was good.
there were some really good, impromtu demos (electrical play, single tail etc..) and everyone was very approachable and willing to answer questions. i was surprised how some things that (from reading) i thought would be uncomfortable for me to watch, much less participate in, were actually very stimulating.
so, to all the newbies out there, from a newbie...just do it! i'm sure you won't regret it.
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