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a So. Ohio newbie - 9/18/2006 7:44:55 PM

patina

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Hello everyone:

I am really surprised at how many people have already contacted me. It has been very nice and encourging.

I was introduced to this lifestyle by a group of people and I have enjoyed it.

I am a naturally submissive gal in that I feel great pleasure in pleasing the man I am with. Be it cooking, cleaning, entertaining, or pleasuring. To me it matters more if he is pleased than if I am.

However I am strongwilled, and very independent and can not be forced to do what I do not want to do. Or I will run or fight, or both.

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RE: a So. Ohio newbie - 9/19/2006 5:40:26 AM

SirLordTrainer

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Welcome aboard patina, this is a great forum for learning. The more you learn, the less youll be grabbin for that shotgun. ;)

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RE: a So. Ohio newbie - 9/19/2006 11:15:15 PM

patina

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Hi

I understand what you are saying that is why I am glad to have found a site with people to help me understand the lifestyle better and to make better choices in who I pick to be a conpanion. I do not say Master as that has to wait till we both choose to accept that commitment.

The man I met had lied to me on everything about who he was. We had discussed the do's and don't, hitting, slapping,and causing pain was not to be done. But the first day with me he started to hit me I reminded him of our agreement, he said he liked to cause pain it made him feel good. I told him to quit, he did then and said he was sorry he just got carried away. I told him if he did so again I would defend myself, he just smiled.   The next day he started again I told him to quit he laughed and said "make me". I keep a shotgun beside my bed at all times. I nudged it, and it fell into my hands I lifted it up and smiled and he backed up with his hands in the air.    I learned a valuable lesson with that experience. I normally go very slow, but was in a bad frame of mind due to family problems and didn't think straight. I will never do so again I will recall this experience.
Thank you for your remarks and time.

Patina

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RE: a So. Ohio newbie - 9/20/2006 4:52:01 AM

SirLordTrainer

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ORIGINAL: patina

Hi

I understand what you are saying that is why I am glad to have found a site with people to help me understand the lifestyle better and to make better choices in who I pick to be a conpanion. I do not say Master as that has to wait till we both choose to accept that commitment.

The man I met had lied to me on everything about who he was. We had discussed the do's and don't, hitting, slapping,and causing pain was not to be done. But the first day with me he started to hit me I reminded him of our agreement, he said he liked to cause pain it made him feel good. I told him to quit, he did then and said he was sorry he just got carried away. I told him if he did so again I would defend myself, he just smiled.   The next day he started again I told him to quit he laughed and said "make me". I keep a shotgun beside my bed at all times. I nudged it, and it fell into my hands I lifted it up and smiled and he backed up with his hands in the air.    I learned a valuable lesson with that experience. I normally go very slow, but was in a bad frame of mind due to family problems and didn't think straight. I will never do so again I will recall this experience.
Thank you for your remarks and time.

Patina