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Amaros -> RE: "No-sex bdsm" (subtitled "Get Off My Back" Rant) (9/20/2006 8:54:36 AM)
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Personally, I'm more sensitive to the opposite - i.e., rants about people here "just looking to get laid", etc, without understanding the underlying dynamic, blah, blah, but for alot of people, that is part of it, they do want to get laid, I'm one of them, and along the way I've lerned a lot about the D/s dynamic that I hadn't considered deeply enough - I do have a very strong libido, and I don't think it's all that healthy to go to any great extremes to rein it in, I just look for partners who have a libido that matches mine.
I also enjoy watching it, and talking about it, and otherwise enjoying it in all sorts of indirectly sexual ways, and I have no problem whatsoever with anybody that doesn't want to have sex, cause it's all sex (as they say in airframes).
Sex, you see, is a form of social intercourse, stating the obvious perhaps, but worth repeating with all the obsession and marketing involved in it, orgasms, ED, youth, beauty, blah, blah - you can be social without the intercourse, but it's nearly impossible to have the intercourse without the social - so really the social does supercede the intercourse, and that's why it's not "all about" sex, the sex just happens to be really, really good too...
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