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mons -> respect to you all (9/20/2006 2:39:30 AM)

greetings doms masters and all
 
when i first came to understand my being  a domme and knowing and understanding my need to dominant white males. i learn so much at first i was scare of my feelings and what i could do i had a sister who was a domme she would tell me stories of her session and some of the men she enjoy. i told her finnaly i had the smae feeling and i want to explore them more. i did and i learn from mistakes. i learn as a dominant person i did not know all so i did something i did not know i could do i spoke with a master sometime ago and asked him to be a mentor this was years ago and he taught me what to look for what to be carefu; of how to train a submissive i learn so much from him and one thing i learn was if i can not control my angry or emotions i can not control another. what he taught me was so great i can with knowledge train another and keep control of me.
 
now why am i writng this here it is because when i first came into the lifestlye i had a scarely ideal of what master and doms were i thought all of you abuse the ones you control. this is because before i know what i was i thought i was submissive and ran into some bad dommes lucky i did not meet them but oh the email i would get scar eme silly they were mean email and forcing me to be someone i was not sure i wanted to be. one person help me get into a speacil chat room, and for this he said i do not understand even to this day what it mean " he had my heart first " he would scream on the im i was his and no one would have me but him you see also he was a black dom. i was abuse many many time over by black males sexual and beated raped so i did not want him at all. i find it is not that i do not like black male it is sexual i do not want them to touch me. so he went off it scare me sometime later i found the domme chat room a light went off in my head and i know where i belomg. it was strang to finally see what and who i became.
 
now i have learn from cm that many many of the master, doms are wonderful kind strong men who will take charge and do what is right when it comes to your slave or submissive . i have change my mind and know i have found out you as a group are great i have respect for you. your gentleman you skills are know and you submissive prasie you all of the time this is long i am sorry but i want to say it is great to see master and doms who are the kind i wish i had meant when i was in that chat room lol gentleman i may be someone different
 
now i wrote a post in the gbds in to my horror i had people laughing and teasing ans being  mean. i am dyslexic i have a major learning disorder i hope at least some may be able to read this i hope , i again i do respect you all you show what men from long ago were men
 
take care
 
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Rule -> RE: respect to you all (9/20/2006 3:04:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mons
now i wrote a post in the gbds in to my horror i had people laughing and teasing ans being  mean. i am dyslexic i have a major learning disorder i hope at least some may be able to read this i hope

I could read it. Perhaps it would be easier to read if it was in a normal font instead of cursive, green and bold.
 
I am still considering whether to block someone who writes in a horrendous brown and bold.
 
As for men from long ago, I suspect they were the same as those of today.



mons -> RE: respect to you all (9/20/2006 3:59:53 AM)

gretings
 
i turn to well i hope this is better. willl do i glad you could read it but did you understand it
 
mons[8|]



Lashra -> RE: respect to you all (9/20/2006 5:09:58 AM)

Mons, I understood every word of it[:D] I think its easier for me because I have a Father who is German and his writing in english isn't always the best so I've learnt to be patient and decipher lol.

There are some good Mistresses/Masters out there and there are some darned bad ones too. The bad ones usually have major self esteem issues or some sort of psychological disorder and the best thing to do is recognize this (if you can) and get the heck away from them.

A sub/slave just has to have an idea of what type of a person it is they are looking for and know enough about themselves to find someone who will fit them, much like a puzzle piece. The screening process is paramount and it takes time to properly screen someone.

I am happy that you were able to discover your calling to be a Domme, I personally can't imagine being any other way. It is just who I am.

Good luck,
~Lashra



mons -> RE: respect to you all (9/21/2006 1:49:19 AM)

greetings
 
lashar i am glad you could read this.
 
i wonder if i insult someone here at this master forum i am not a submissive so i have nothing to gain but saying something i feel is true but i guess maybe it is different here no one asnwer post? was it something wrong i said you are all i thought very nice and mannerable but if you do not wish to anwer this i understand take care. i was not ass kissing maybe that will get somone to says a simple ok that was nice.
mons
 
mons



UnvailedPurpose -> RE: respect to you all (9/21/2006 2:25:12 AM)

Mom’s, anyone desirous of deciphering what you are typing can do so. If there were one who was flawless, I strongly suspect he or she would not embrace the ignorance of arrogance and/or find fault. Revel in who and what you are, what you have made of yourself and what you will be.



mons -> RE: respect to you all (9/21/2006 3:13:06 AM)

greeting unvailedpurpose
 
i am very dyslexic i think maybe that was it i do not see what is written wrong so i am at fault but i try to write i thank you i will become better even more
 
mons



NastyDaddy -> RE: respect to you all (9/21/2006 3:17:34 AM)

Mons, the most important person mentioned in this thread is you dear, you have learned who you really are and that is a beautiful thing to discover about one's self. Your friends here have come to realize you have the disorder and please forgive those who cannot see beyond that part of you at first.

Don't let any shallow replys to your posts affect you at all because they do not understand yet.  After they realize their own errors in judgement, those people will see you for the beautiful person you really are and we see you as, and not merely a condition you struggle with. You are a welcome and loved member of collarme to those who've come to know you. Do not allow those who don't know you yet to ever make you feel any less than your friends know you are... you are indeed very special and always will be for overcoming the life's difficulties you have faced, and most of all for that big beautiful pure golden angelic heart which beats so strongly inside you.

In my eyes you are a true champion and I for one hold very much respect and admiration for you, as do so many others here. 



LadyHugs -> RE: respect to you all (9/21/2006 7:40:23 AM)

Dear mons, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Mons dear-- dyslexia is a pain in the boxer shorts/panties (which ever one wears) but, that does not change the character of the spirit of intent.
 
I'm glad that you have found who and what you are.  We all have a calling and when it is done with kindness, compassion and good efforts along the way, those who interact with you will indeed appreciate it.
 
For every idiot, mean spirited, triffling and cruel sorts out there, it just shows how there is a difference and there is a clear line of what is out in the community to choose to be, which most tend to stay on the safe, sane, loving souls and spirits.
 
Stay true to yourself and create within your own mind, soul/spirit and behaviors and words, as to create the dominant and or submissive you wish to be.  That is how one earns their credibility and reputation.
 
You have my respect mons.  Please make sure you respect yourself equally.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
 
 



diamonddreamlove -> RE: respect to you all (9/21/2006 8:13:24 PM)

Mons yep it is hard to understand everything You write at first but it is well worth the effort for me to take the time and when i don't at first understand i keep reading the post until i do.  You offer great advice and it would be sad to not have Your input.  Don't stop posting!  Keep sharing Your wonderful knowledge even if some folks are rather mean.  One of the things i enjoy about Your posts is the helpful input shared in a loving caring manner.  There are more here at cm that are kind than there are that are mean, atleast that has been my experience.

diamond 



MistressSavage -> RE: respect to you all (9/21/2006 9:30:11 PM)

I too am dyslexic,  my feeling on it is if people are going to be jerks they aren't worth my time.  Just my 2 cents :)  I don't think SavageEu minds either, since he is patient enough to chat with me when he isn't home.

Mistress Tricia



Missokyst -> RE: respect to you all (9/21/2006 10:43:14 PM)

I am dyslexic too.  Its  B*tch when trying to find a location!  Best thing to do is give yourself a little extra time, and keep your composure.
Kyst

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ORIGINAL: MistressSavage

I too am dyslexic,  my feeling on it is if people are going to be jerks they aren't worth my time.  Just my 2 cents :)  I don't think SavageEu minds either, since he is patient enough to chat with me when he isn't home.

Mistress Tricia




mons -> RE: respect to you all (9/21/2006 11:55:10 PM)

greetings
 
you all have made me cry i am overwhelm with the kindness you shown all of you i can see i did so bad in school i could not do the work but i can read so well and understand so many huge words i want so to show many how smart i am but i see you all know it aready, i had a father who hated me becasue i did not understand math, fool was my name but i have overcome that when i first came here you and ironbear help me write better someone of the dommes even slowly told me what to do this is a place where i have found friends and they taught me how to write, my nepwhew retaught me how to do math. yes it hurt me when someon is so mean but i do not care at times nasyt daddy if i were a submiossive i would want you i did not have a daddy but i ama domme lol i do thank you so you have made me cry so hard yes i am domme but my inner child is like this are teacher who help me. but as a child i was beaten but teachers so hard for not knowing someothing i did not understand.
 
you my fellow friend and you are i reach into my heart to thank you all i will never forget this reply you all sent  [image]http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/1/1_4_139.gif[/image] <<< me


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tonyanderson -> RE: respect to you all (9/24/2006 8:52:13 PM)

hello
Am freddi will love to meet a caring some one.if you care and mind to know more about me you can mail me [email protected] love to you yeah



mons -> RE: respect to you all (9/25/2006 3:00:02 AM)

tony ''

why thank you i only know how to have you writ me first thank you

take care
mons



MagiksSlave -> RE: respect to you all (9/25/2006 11:34:20 PM)

Mons Ma'am... lemme just say I have read a lot of your posts you are always kind and gentle and respecfull... My spelling sucks too from dyslxia so I have learned to read and re read when something is hard for me but i would never ever say anything to you and dont think anyone ever should!!! to me it is importent what you are saying now how it is beeing said I have great respect for you Miss not only for what you say but that you have the curage with your disability to come here and say it... sorry if anything I said was disrespecfulll in anyway Im not so good at getting my point across some times eather...

Magik's slave



Voltare -> RE: respect to you all (9/26/2006 1:11:49 PM)


Mons,

Thank you for the kind words.  You've always shown that you have a good heart, and I know how difficult it can be trying to find your place in this world.

Remember that Dominants are people too.  We started at the beginning, just like everyone else.  We all had to ask the stupid, hard, or painful questions, and we pile up the mistakes by the foot. 

I suggest you find a female friend who is also Dominant, and see if she can 'show you the ropes' a bit.  Finding a mentor will make your transition MUCH easier.

Also, don't be afraid to just be yourself.  All people have dominance and submission inside.  Every Dom has to pay their taxes, stop at a red light, and wait in line at the grocery store.  Most submissives still have to raise children, housebreak the dog, or announce that the bathroom is "OCCUPIED".  Being in a Dominant or submissive role is a question of taking on the responsibilities of that role.  You don't have to be perfect, powerful, or godlike.  Just be yourself.



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