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slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/20/2006 5:44:09 PM   
mixielicous


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Status: offline 		recently i have developed a fantasy of hurting other females for my Master. she would have black hair, blue eyes and fair skin like Him. Thin and curvey like me. i dont want to touch her sexually, i am not into girls. But the idea of hurting her while Master watches gets me really randy. This is prolly something that will never happen b/c He doesnt like to share, but its still fun to think about, hurting girls like He gets to.

Do any of you ever have ... i wouldnt call it topping fantasies but you prolly know what i mean.



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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/20/2006 6:07:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can't reply to the issue specifically for somewhat obvious reasons (being a top myself), but I was curious.....

What makes you so sure he wouldn't let you have this wish?  It's definitely, from a male standpoint, a fairly hot fantasy.  Just the way you worded it.

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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/20/2006 6:13:51 PM   
mixielicous


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Status: offline 		well i have brought up various other matters where He would have to "share" and in His eyes, if the other party gains pleasure [which obviously this mystery girl must enjoy s/m to get it w/o any sex] then, that results in sharing. its hard to explain.

also, i did tell Him about this fantasy of mine. He isnt into girl on girl in any way. And when i told Him, i got pretty much no respose other than 'why would you want someone else in our bed'

/shrug

maybe in 10 years. lol.

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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/20/2006 6:21:51 PM   
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quote:

i wouldnt call it topping fantasies but you prolly know what i mean.


I think we should officially call it:  top-willing!




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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/20/2006 6:36:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mixielicous

He isnt into girl on girl in any way. And when i told Him, i got pretty much no respose other than 'why would you want someone else in our bed'



I see a couple of possibilities, although one definitely impacts your relationship a little more directly.

a) Partner 'C' is chosen, you 'beat', and 'gift' her to him to do whatever
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b) Involve another Maledom/femsub couple who are aware and agree to what would happen.  You 'beat', her dom/Master does whatever afterwards.

Just a thought or two.

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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/20/2006 6:39:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have the desire to watch another female be topped at a club, but not do it or watch Daddy top another... so I guess the answer would be "no". I think many submissives have topping fantasies, I know my best friend does.

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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/20/2006 7:39:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nice fantasy

A Question: Do you think that you are more prone to entertain this fantasy precisely because your Dom is so singleminded about you? Do you think that if he was more of a poly Dom that you might not feel as comfortable bringing another woman into the mix?

LAsub

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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/20/2006 7:43:53 PM   
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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/20/2006 7:46:20 PM   
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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/20/2006 11:08:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mixielicous

well i have brought up various other matters where He would have to "share" and in His eyes, if the other party gains pleasure [which obviously this mystery girl must enjoy s/m to get it w/o any sex] then, that results in sharing. its hard to explain.

also, i did tell Him about this fantasy of mine. He isnt into girl on girl in any way. And when i told Him, i got pretty much no respose other than 'why would you want someone else in our bed'



this one doesn't get it - why can't you flog/cane/whip her without it leading to sex?  sheeeesh, many of us don't have sex with those that we play with! 

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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/21/2006 3:22:23 AM   
mixielicous


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ORIGINAL: LASub4Real

Nice fantasy

A Question: Do you think that you are more prone to entertain this fantasy precisely because your Dom is so singleminded about you? Do you think that if he was more of a poly Dom that you might not feel as comfortable bringing another woman into the mix?

LAsub


thats a good way to look at it

/ponders

i cant say for sure. i would never be involved with a poly dom, as monogomy is my thing [hence me not wanting any sexual discourse]



and JULIA- Him topping her i dont think would be involved either. we are deeply in love hence the sharing issues.

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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/21/2006 3:24:00 AM   
mixielicous


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i may have worded it wrong, but there would be NO sex involved, just ...

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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/21/2006 5:06:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yes, i have this fantasy from time to time....that's as far as it goes though.

Happy Thursday!

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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/21/2006 7:02:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have a little sadism in me.  I think it's the option of a vicarious thrill of doing unto others those painful things that I like done unto me.  However, since I'm not really a top, and certainly not a Dom -- I'll sometimes whip somebody for demonstrations purposes and I don't get much out of just that -- it would really only work it I was doing it for my Domina.  Being the evil scientist's lacky works just fine for me.


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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/21/2006 9:15:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mixielicous

recently i have developed a fantasy of hurting other females for my Master. she would have black hair, blue eyes and fair skin like Him. Thin and curvey like me. i dont want to touch her sexually, i am not into girls. But the idea of hurting her while Master watches gets me really randy. This is prolly something that will never happen b/c He doesnt like to share, but its still fun to think about, hurting girls like He gets to.

Do any of you ever have ... i wouldnt call it topping fantasies but you prolly know what i mean.




i have similar fantasies and thoughts.  It is fun to muse upon the visuals and the sensations i enjoy while i imagine.  Kind of like closet dominance to a point. LOL!  Master has this one subbie friend whose ass i always manage to slap as she walks by, just because...and her reaction simply amuses me, i guess it depends on the personality of the person i am around too.  There are just those folks whose ass i enjoy slapping.  i do occasionally play on the Top side, but i know that deep down, i would find it hard to stay in the Top position for any length of time. It is just not who i am.  i think that sub/dom tendencies are in each of us to a point, and there is nothing wrong with having those fantasies, it is fun to explore all sides of us, outside of the labels we choose for ourselves.

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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/21/2006 1:14:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Interesting Fantasy do you think you want to have another feel what your Master does to you?  I have never had this particular one (even though i have had others)  My Master is more sensual thar sadistic he does not like to cause me pain so maybe that is why.  Who knoes maybe one day you Master will condiser this.

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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/21/2006 1:34:27 PM   
mixielicous


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i want to do it to a girl who enjoys s/m

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Interesting Fantasy do you think you want to have another feel what your Master does to you?  I have never had this particular one (even though i have had others)  My Master is more sensual thar sadistic he does not like to cause me pain so maybe that is why.  Who knoes maybe one day you Master will condiser this.

Matt's littleone


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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/21/2006 1:45:36 PM   
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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/21/2006 3:06:16 PM   
mixielicous


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ORIGINAL: mstrjx

(So what about another likeminded couple?)


i know He will not bend on sharing

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RE: slave fantasy of inflicting pain - 9/21/2006 3:45:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mixielicous


quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrjx

(So what about another likeminded couple?)


i know He will not bend on sharing


I'm trying hard to understand, but need a little more clarification.

I think it is the 'sharing' I don't understand.

As I see it, there is you and your Master, and another couple.  The two men have agreed that you will 'play' with another woman.  No sex, just you causing her pain.  You enjoy it, presumably she enjoys it, and the men enjoy watching.

They go home, or you go home, or you each go home from some neutral third location, and you become couples again and have sex and stuff, with your own partner.

Where is the sharing?

If I need to shut up and go away, just tell me.  I'm really just trying to help.

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