can't quite grasp this slave/gor thing. like children playing cowboys and indians. bdsm should be a sensual mix of pain and pleasure. no one should give up their idenity.....lechat.
Here on the forums we love to discuss all aspects of life and the lifestyle! There are as many ways to do d/s and bdsm as there are people who participate, there is no right or wrong way only whats right for you.