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How should I reply - 9/21/2006 2:56:00 AM

eosubmissive

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My potential Mistress asked me to write this: I would like you to sit down and compose an e-mail, describing in FULL detail what it is that you would like to do for me, if I decide to allow you to be mine. This should include things that are off limits for you..(I can be nice..a little...) And..anything that you would like me to consider affording you the opportunity to experience.
i need some help in this matter as i don't know how to respond!

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RE: How should I reply - 9/21/2006 4:52:47 AM

mstrjx

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In short.....

The first part talks about your submission. Your 'place' is to serve her and anticipate 'her' needs. What do you think they are? What service do you see providing to her to make her life or time with you better? In essence, specifically why bother with 'you', as there are probably others wanting to be in that position.

The second part speaks about limits. What, physically or emotionally, does she need to stay away from. Bear in mind that if your list is lengthy, for whatever the reason, she might not feel that the two of you are a good fit. That's all right; you have the same opportunity to select a Mistress who will respect your limitations.

The last part is allowing you to speak about what you wish done to you. However, you need to understand that what pleasures you derive here (based upon what you have done for her in the first part) could be none or all or something in between. Essentially, thanks for the list but I'm going to do things how I see fit. Which, of course is part of the definition of being dominant. Their needs and pleasures come first. If your needs are being met, then you should be thankful for the rest.

Good luck.
Jeff

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