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LadyTantalize -> RE: Color of collars? (1/14/2005 1:29:21 PM)
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Just a comment on My opinion of collars....
I do enjoy the use of a "collar of consideration" and these are usually some type of blue, as well training collars, personal submissive collars, a slave collar (locking, of course - metal or black leather), dress and formal collars, to more necklace-types which can be worn for vanilla occassions, and I've even had one in a "collar of protection". I enjoy the special sentiment of giving collars as much as one enjoys wearing a collar given in emotion. Yet, while I want to show My feelings toward a submissive, I am not likely to jump and give a locking slave collar to one so early on in a relationship but why deny the kind sentiment and joy of sharing a collar with a new submissive.
Much like various forms of rings to show affection, devotion, love and commitment, etc., like a sweetheart ring, a promise ring, an engagement, and a wedding ring, I view collars much in the same light. For Me, they are merely sweet symbols of the current status of our relationship to be given and worn purely for the sake of enjoyment by the parties involved in the relationship, and not in any effort to claim ownership or declare status to others outside the relationship.
To each their own, truly!! Collars are only but what we make them, after all, and are simply symbols of emotion and commitment of whatever degree!
Great thread going here!!!!
Wishes for a lovely evening to A/all,
Lady T.
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