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sister husband - 9/22/2006 2:38:22 AM

mons

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greetings to all

i have a problem i have a twin and has a boyfriend they have married he is more like a dom isee and it is okay with me. so some things were not okay with my twin i have dolls house games and i did work for 14 years with the liitle ones so they would come to do homeowrk and thing well my sister did not like ti at all. she told her husband he call me and just made me cry. well then he came out and i thought everything was ok it wasn't. my twin after they told me i would live with them in a house all of it changed when he came i can say he hates me. i feel so damn mad he was the only black male i trusted who would not do things to me. so now they will move he told my twin he wants to move some miles away so i can not walk there i use a cane i injure my ankle i clipped the bone and so i have to use it. so i am upset and he knows i am a domme i thought he like me and he tells her what do and teaching her things like how to read and write she is like me but she can crave a doll out of wood. lol we both are something is wrong but we are gifted in artist ways. what my question is and oh i ask him your dominant and he looked at me mean and said yes. well i think this is why he does not like me i am strong woman i say what is on my mind. do you think this is why he and he said he did not want me over there he has not spoken to me in two years just now the other day he said something like hi.

i am deeply hurt by this way he acts i wanted a brother someone i could talk to and just be the on black male i could trust and love, but it did not happen for me i told my twin when we are around poeple how will he act pretend that he spoke to me and likes me. then she said the other day please make it easy for me to leave i never said anything i want this to happen they belong to each other. i have sleep apena very very bad i use a capa machine i something fall asleep and i for reasons i do not know i can not move i have asked her to just handed me my mask i will put it on she will not do it never i wake choking . i feel her husband is making her change so much. i ask her does he spank you she scream turn red and was upset with me i know he is a dom and maybe the thought of me as strong emotional as him is making him mad? I am deeply hurt by all of this he does not want me near him. i found out later i like to hug and i thought he thought as me as a sister i hug me many times my twin later told me he hated it. thanks for any rpely

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RE: sister husband - 9/22/2006 3:54:22 AM

LadyEllen

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Hi Mons

Definitely the right place - I'd have put it here, and I'm always right, after all!

Its often difficult when someone new comes into a family - all kinds of new relationships have to be formed, and existing relationships often have to change, so it could just be that your twin's man is not very skilled in integrating like that. Given the other dynamics involved though, I think there is probably more to it than that.

If you're identical twins, well that is going to be difficult for him for a start I would think. If he's used to being a certain way with your twin, and then he sees you and you look alike to her but obviously are a very different person, he could feel quite threatened I should imagine and at best uncomfortable with you. There's nothing wrong with you of course that makes him feel that way, its all in his own head.

Then there is the factor that people do change when they form a close relationship with a partner. They become the focus of their world, and obviously this is going to impact on your relationship with your twin. Sometimes the partner can be strong enough to make the other person change a lot. I recall my ex sister-in-law when we were at school together - a nicer girl you couldnt find, and one of my friends - but when she married she became very different in a very negative manner, very competitive, very snobbish and aloof, which seemed to be because she had married this rich guy and was now better than the rest of us. That was a few years ago now, and I havent spoken to her in at least five years, she's lost contact with her parents and is rapidly running out of friends as they are all getting sick of her attitude. Like the guy you describe, she is one of those who is nice as pie to everyone, but then talks behind backs to say how shit everyone is.

On the other hand, this guy could just be one of those jerks we encounter in life. If your twin has asked you to make it easy for her to leave him, then I see that as very significant. I've heard there is a strong bond between twins, but I also know a fair few twins who have married and are happy with their partners, so if she is asking you to help in getting away from him then that means to me that she is not happy, and that this whole situation needs to be made much clearer by her to you - without him being around. If she is in problems, then I know you will help her - but bear in mind that if this guy is the jerk I'm assuming he might be, then he is not likely to sit back and let her go. Be prepared in this case for a long struggle, and dont be afraid to get the police involved if he has been abusive or starts making threats.

I hope this helps
E

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RE: sister husband - 9/22/2006 3:58:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: AmericanMaster

Dear Mons,

I take it that you are dyslexic and so your writting may appear unintelligable and somewhat rambling to many readers.

You say you have a twin sister. Most twin sisters,especially if identical, think and act the same way.

You say that you are a domme,but what experience do you have? Your profile states very little.

It may well be that you could be much happier has a submissive woman or even a slave woman. Even if you are a sadist. Giving and recieving pain; suckling your masters genitals; doing the housework and attending to the catering; engaging in frequent copulation; accompanying your master everywhere socially; Accepting his love and protection; having him support you; all those things would be positive and would enhance yourself considerably.

How in hell is this supposed to be helpful I wonder?

If you'd taken any time to read this, you might have been able to post something above this level of rank ignorance perhaps, but as it is you didnt do the first and then failed to do the second.

This is a plea for help and advice from someone having problems - if you posted a personal problem and someone wrote in with the sort of "help" and "advice" you just did, I'm sure you'd be well pleased?

Grow up
E

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RE: sister husband - 9/22/2006 5:11:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: AmericanMaster

Dear Mons,

I take it that you are dyslexic and so your writting may appear unintelligable and somewhat rambling to many readers.

You say you have a twin sister. Most twin sisters,especially if identical, think and act the same way.

You say that you are a domme,but what experience do you have? Your profile states very little.

It may well be that you could be much happier has a submissive woman or even a slave woman. Even if you are a sadist. Giving and recieving pain; suckling your masters genitals; doing the housework and attending to the catering; engaging in frequent copulation; accompanying your master everywhere socially; Accepting his love and protection; having him support you; all those things would be positive and would enhance yourself considerably.

AmericanMaster a leopard can't change its spots so a naturally Alpha female cannot change hers. This isn't helpful at all but an attempt to sway a woman to give up what she is naturally for an artificial coating that some male would find attractive. <rolls eyes>. Why don't you "become" a sub male and buy a french maids outfit and do some housework?

Onto the post...

Mons, some men have problems with women who express themselves freely and that can think on their own. It is called "insecurity". I've noted that alot of those knuckle dragging types if they can't use some sort of force to make you into what they want, they will just get angry and try to hurt you in some fashion. Or they just go silent and basically run with their tail between their legs. The best thing to do is NOT backdown and just be yourself. If he can't deal with a strong woman that is HIS problem, not yours.

Good luck,
~Lashra

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RE: sister husband - 9/23/2006 9:03:54 AM

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This is very weird. The post from American Master (which I agree with Lady E. and Lashra is essentially a useless come on) doesn't show up in my thread! I only know about it because of the quotes of it from Lady E. and Lashra in their posts. There isn't even a "place marker" showing where a mod deleted the post. Is it possible to post something that only certain identified genders or affiliations can read?

I would like to reply to mons' original post as well, but I first wanted to figure out if I'm only seeing part of the thread.

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RE: sister husband - 9/23/2006 9:07:25 AM

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Hi Emperor

I have no idea why you cant see it, but anyway, here it is (hopefully!) below;

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ORIGINAL: mons

greetings to all

i have a problem i have a twin and has a boyfriend they have married he is more like a dom isee and it is okay with me. so some things were not okay with my twin i have dolls house games and i did work for 14 years with the liitle ones so they would come to do homeowrk and thing well my sister did not like ti at all. she told her husband he call me and just made me cry. well then he came out and i thought everything was ok it wasn't. my twin after they told me i would live with them in a house all of it changed when he came i can say he hates me. i feel so damn mad he was the only black male i trusted who would not do things to me. so now they will move he told my twin he wants to move some miles away so i can not walk there i use a cane i injure my ankle i clipped the bone and so i have to use it. so i am upset and he knows i am a domme i thought he like me and he tells her what do and teaching her things like how to read and write she is like me but she can crave a doll out of wood. lol we both are something is wrong but we are gifted in artist ways. what my question is and oh i ask him your dominant and he looked at me mean and said yes. well i think this is why he does not like me i am strong woman i say what is on my mind. do you think this is why he and he said he did not want me over there he has not spoken to me in two years just now the other day he said something like hi.

i am deeply hurt by this way he acts i wanted a brother someone i could talk to and just be the on black male i could trust and love, but it did not happen for me i told my twin when we are around poeple how will he act pretend that he spoke to me and likes me. then she said the other day please make it easy for me to leave i never said anything i want this to happen they belong to each other. i have sleep apena very very bad i use a capa machine i something fall asleep and i for reasons i do not know i can not move i have asked her to just handed me my mask i will put it on she will not do it never i wake choking . i feel her husband is making her change so much. i ask her does he spank you she scream turn red and was upset with me i know he is a dom and maybe the thought of me as strong emotional as him is making him mad? I am deeply hurt by all of this he does not want me near him. i found out later i like to hug and i thought he thought as me as a sister i hug me many times my twin later told me he hated it. thanks for any rpely

(i hope this was written so you can understand )

mons ( was this the right place?)

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RE: sister husband - 9/23/2006 9:10:16 AM

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Sorry Emperor! Now I know what you mean (I thought you couldnt see Mons' post!) - I cant see AM's post either, except where Lashra and I have quoted it! I take it that its been pulled - but in any case, it is in full in the quotes we made.

E

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