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RE: Talking Vs Corporal Punishment - 1/14/2007 5:48:13 AM

sklavenhexe

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My question is how many subs want the talk and how many would prefer the corporal punishment.

there is never a time that this one would like to be beat, spanked, or have the belt taken to her ass, and she sure hates the lectures, the rants and the raggings that go one for minutes and then some at times... when a slave has done something extremely awful the ranting can got on for what seems like days and it is almost like living in hell... but slave could take either of thosr things over all day every day to be put away from her Master; or like now when there is only one slave in Master's life having him demand she serve him in that "demanding tone" like she hadn't a clue what was expected of her in the first place and then when she is done with whatever it is then she gets the look from him that you are done now get out of my face.

this girl made a ton of mistakes in her first year of training and got her voice taken away from her, got put away from her Master got many different things that hurt worse than her Master's words or belt.

Being put away from him was a worse punishment because then ALL she had to do was think about what she did wrong, and his disappointment and feel the pain in her heart and the heavy feeling in her stomach.

when they rant and rave they get over it, when they beat your ass for doing the stupid things you do they get over it.... when they don't talk to you or put you away from them they get over it but you don't... you dwell and dwell and feel and feel.

so back to the question... this one would rather be beat and have it done with.

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RE: Talking Vs Corporal Punishment - 1/14/2007 9:44:11 AM

Celeste43

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I prefer never to disappoint him however as long as he's just exasperated, annoyed or other lesser emotions then I'd pick either. I need occasionally to be reminded of my place. And a minor lecture, like the one I got last night when I asked him to do something that had I thought about it ahead of time I would have realized he wouldn't approve of was fine. Makes me snuggle up to him afterwards and be more desperate for his touch.

True disappointing, no thanks. Reminder of my place which I need occasionally, any way he chooses. He's been known to spank, lecture or tickle. Whatever gets the point across.

And I say no all the time. No I can't do that I have an appointment this morning, no I don't have the ingredients for waffles, no there is no ice cream. Sometimes even "No, I don't feel enotionally up to play could you just hold me instead?" It's all just information being passed up to him do he can decide what to do with it.

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RE: Talking Vs Corporal Punishment - 1/14/2007 10:10:55 AM

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As a general rule I prefer not making Sir unhappy so that he would feel a need to punish me. Since the punishments he has used on me fit nicely with what I have done wrong, he has only used corporal punishment once; pain for pain. Also if there is a need for punishment he has always talked to me about it at some point. I dare say he would not have spanked me for telling him no.

What you are talking about reminds me of when I am feeling miserable about myself or my life’s circumstances where I would want to transfer what I feel on the inside to the outside as a release. I hope, if the need arises, I would be able to tell him so he could help me with that; that way we could both enjoy it. : )

Be well,

< Message edited by KeirasSecret -- 1/14/2007 10:15:49 AM >

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RE: Talking Vs Corporal Punishment - 1/14/2007 12:52:52 PM

andreaC

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I would definately talk with Master compare to corporal punishment even though it hurts alot to know i have disappointed him. For what i experienced not long ago, disappointing him was like all of me was breaking up in pieces.

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RE: Talking Vs Corporal Punishment - 1/14/2007 5:03:01 PM

slavemaia

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It's an interesting phenomena to me how very sad i feel when i disappoint Master. i welcome His corporal punishment by the time it comes. It's not because i like it at all, but it ends the horrible feelings within me. Master does both - He talks first, explaining what i've done. Sometimes He dismisses it without corporal punishment, veiwing it more as training and something i'm learning, rather than something He feels warrants punishment. Sometimes He'll ask questions and require a clear response during corporal punishment, to reinforce His point. i'm happy to say that i am requiring less and less punishment these days. *smiles*

In terms of my preference - i don't like either. But if i were to be punished without discussing it and i didn't understand why i was being punished, i'd be very confused and stressed.

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