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subchris04 -> a little appreciation (1/14/2005 5:10:57 AM)

To all the Doms, Dommes, Master, Mistress or whatever title you wish to be called. I see alot of submissive coming on here and making nonsense posts critising spelling and grammer, or something inmature like that. Well for one I would never come on here and say anything negitive about a Dominant, if my Mistress found out I'd be in so much trouble. But I want to say thank you. Sometimes your debates get a little heated and I am way to nervous to ask any questions. But something I have relized in the last few days is it is alot harder than I thought to being a good Dominant. My Mistress has had tremendous patience for me but I know it is not easy. Like it is not easy being a new sub or slave and changing what you know and how you lived for so many years. With being a Dominant there has to be patience and a lot of learning a sub or slave. Everyone is entitiled to their own way of doing things and I will admit not everything is for me. But for a Dominant to take a sub or slave and to make them theirs and to mold them into what they want to be is a tremedous task. One that should not be appreciated. I don't think it is right for someone to come on here and critize another just because they don't use correct spelling or grammer, mine is horrible as well. A person is not how they can spell but who they are and how they treat others. So I just want to say give a little appreciation to the Dominants out there that work so hard to mold their subs the way they like them and who take the time to help those who have questions.
slave chris



onceburned -> RE: a little appreciation (1/14/2005 5:34:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: subchris04
So I just want to say give a little appreciation to the Dominants out there that work so hard to mold their subs the way they like them and who take the time to help those who have questions.
slave chris


I agree. Somebody should give them a back massage or something.



cynnacent1 -> RE: a little appreciation (1/14/2005 5:35:32 AM)

In that there is already a new and active thread addressing the topic of spelling and grammar in another section of the forum, ( http://www.collarme.com/forum/I_submit_myself_to_proper_grammar/m_59482/tm.htm ), i won't offer my comments on the subject here.

Regarding your comments to the subject of the efforts involving Doms/Dommes who work so hard to mold their subs/slaves into a suited representation of what it is they desire, i'll say that the work, or effort put forth is generally mutual to both the Dom/Domme & their sub/slave. i'd have to think that if the work required in molding and/or changing the mind set of the sub/slave in question is SO extreme that it should be recognized as having a whole LOT of work & effort involved, then perhaps the Dom/Domme & their sub/slave are not well suited to each other.

IMO, learning the preferences, likes & dislikes, and rules of the Dom/Domme are one thing, and a sub/slave who is so unsuited as to require molding them into representing an entirely different person than who they are upon entering the relationship, is another. When a Dom/Domme & their sub/slave are well suited (having compatability & similar expectations, desires within the relationship etc ect) it won't be regarded as WORK.

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So I just want to say give a little appreciation to the Dominants out there that work so hard to mold their subs the way they like them and who take the time to help those who have questions.
Of course, and in doing so perhaps some gratitude will also be expressed to the submissives, slaves, and switches as well. EVERYONE here is helpful in offering their opinions, advice & in answering questions.
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I agree. Somebody should give them a back massage or something

Where shall we ALL form the line for those much deserved massages?[;)]
Takes a number, stands at the front of the line and waits patiently.[sm=tongue.gif]

¸,ø¤º°cynnacent°º¤ø,¸ (proudly owned by, and devoted to INSIDEYOURMIND)



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: a little appreciation (1/14/2005 6:35:03 AM)

Thanks subchris,
I haven't read a lot of the "ask a sub/slave" threads, but hope they don't get the frequent attempts at spanking from others who think "life should be exactly so...(whatever the f*** they envision a Dom/me should be); in any event, I'll say thank you for being gracious and apreciative. M



MaitresseEden -> RE: a little appreciation (1/14/2005 1:14:50 PM)

Did I hear "Massages" mentioned?... Where do I line up. I'd just about kill for a decent foot/back massage. In keeping with the subject thanks for your words of apprieciation subchris. It is always refreshing to see those who are able to understand the big picture.

Ms. Eden





ProScatman -> RE: a little appreciation (1/17/2005 7:21:12 AM)


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ORIGINAL: subchris04

To all the Doms, Dommes, Master, Mistress or whatever title you wish to be called. I see alot of submissive coming on here and making nonsense posts critising spelling and grammer, or something inmature like that. Well for one I would never come on here and say anything negitive about a Dominant, if my Mistress found out I'd be in so much trouble. But I want to say thank you. Sometimes your debates get a little heated and I am way to nervous to ask any questions. But something I have relized in the last few days is it is alot harder than I thought to being a good Dominant. My Mistress has had tremendous patience for me but I know it is not easy. Like it is not easy being a new sub or slave and changing what you know and how you lived for so many years. With being a Dominant there has to be patience and a lot of learning a sub or slave. Everyone is entitiled to their own way of doing things and I will admit not everything is for me. But for a Dominant to take a sub or slave and to make them theirs and to mold them into what they want to be is a tremedous task. One that should not be appreciated. I don't think it is right for someone to come on here and critize another just because they don't use correct spelling or grammer, mine is horrible as well. A person is not how they can spell but who they are and how they treat others. So I just want to say give a little appreciation to the Dominants out there that work so hard to mold their subs the way they like them and who take the time to help those who have questions.
slave chris

I will be the first one to admit to being a learner here about those things I know not much about, and more than willing to share what do know. One of the first things I learned at Ashland University was to never tell or imply someone is stupid! To put someone down because they may not have an education, or use bad grammer is a no no. I sometimes let my grammer slip too! Fortunately for me I've had a lot of help from Dommes' and other slaves. Personally, as long as I can get the idea of what's being asked--i don't care if someone uses phonetics to communicate with me. Lets try not to pick pepper out of fly shit here, ok?



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