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Lordandmaster -> RE: sub on heat (9/25/2006 12:48:13 AM)

"Sir, may I speak?"

"Yes, _____ (whatever he calls you)."

"Sir, your ______ (whatever you are instructed to call yourself) begs to be used one day soon as your sex slave.  She knows it is slutty to request this, sir, but she is only who she is, and she craves your dominance."

Maybe that'll work.  But do something like bathing him or cooking for him first.

quote:

ORIGINAL: gypsylee

but i can't help feeling like we should be at each other like dogs in heat... and well, i'm feeling a bit like a dog on heat ;) i'm certainly not shy when it comes to initiating sex in a vanilla situation (and usually i don't have any need to) but with Him i feel it's inappropriate to just go and 'maul' Him. i have done it before and i got a bit of a reprimand although He did admit to enjoying it ;) but now that He's moved in i feel like a virgin waiting for the right time to be deflowered!



gypsylee -> RE: sub on heat (9/25/2006 2:30:09 AM)

thank you Lordandmaster *giggles*

not quite how we do things but i certainly appreciate your suggestion. much better than suggesting He is nothing but a freeloading faker (grrr.)

i have shown Him this thread so He knows the score and i'm sure He will deal with it as He sees fit (god help me).

gypsy xxx








ayasha -> RE: sub on heat (9/25/2006 2:42:57 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: gypsylee

uh... sorry to disappoint but no.

*flares nostrils and takes a deep breath*

you dare to insinuate that He is posing as a Dom to freeload off me... do you think i am stupid?!! i really don't know if this is more of an insult to Him or to me.

how rude.

again, thanks to those who have given me constructive advice and even the naysayers who've taken the time to go into why they think this situation is silly.

but this kind of blatant suggestion makes me reluctant to put myself 'out there' with regard to my private affairs.

gypsy. 


you are awfully quick to take offense to this.  There is nothing wrong with the things one asked, as many, many in the lifestyle have been in that situation and most of them are not stupid.  one is glad that this is not your situation - best of luck to the both of you. 



Pimpernell -> RE: sub on heat (9/25/2006 3:43:18 AM)


Now unfamiliar situations can throw anyone off for a while.  He may have also romanticised the situation, so he is building it up too much in his mind. 

I believe the magic word is communication. 

Ask for his permission to relieve yourself until such time he is ready to use you.

quote:

ORIGINAL: ayasha

quote:

ORIGINAL: gypsylee

uh... sorry to disappoint but no.

*flares nostrils and takes a deep breath*

you dare to insinuate that He is posing as a Dom to freeload off me... do you think i am stupid?!! i really don't know if this is more of an insult to Him or to me.

how rude.

again, thanks to those who have given me constructive advice and even the naysayers who've taken the time to go into why they think this situation is silly.

but this kind of blatant suggestion makes me reluctant to put myself 'out there' with regard to my private affairs.

gypsy. 


you are awfully quick to take offense to this.  There is nothing wrong with the things one asked, as many, many in the lifestyle have been in that situation and most of them are not stupid.  one is glad that this is not your situation - best of luck to the both of you. 


Good on her for being "offended".  This is what you wrote:
quote:

ORIGINAL: ayasha
Let one guess:

1.  He has no money of his own to speak of
2.  You are working and paying all of the bills
3.  He is taking a 'bit' of time off before seeking another job
4.  He does little or nothing to help around the house
5.  It is nothing like he said it would be

Is this accurate?


How is that relevant to her original post?

Let me put it this way:
You hate kittens.
Is this accurate?



gypsylee -> RE: sub on heat (9/25/2006 4:22:36 AM)

thank you Pimpernell.



CrappyDom -> RE: sub on heat (9/25/2006 10:30:44 AM)

Have you checked his pulse?

If you were mine you would be posting in the health section asking how to keep your vaginal and anal walls from being sore.

'course thats just me.



MagiksSlave -> RE: sub on heat (9/25/2006 11:38:24 PM)

CP you always make me giggle I need to remeber to have nothing in  my mouth when I have seen youv posted!!!

Magik's slave



gypsylee -> RE: sub on heat (9/26/2006 12:41:50 AM)

hehehe ooooh yes He's got a pulse... in all the right places.

"If you were mine you would be posting in the health section asking how to keep your vaginal and anal walls from being sore. 'course thats just me. " -------> yeah but you're a CrappyDom (JOKE!!!)[sm=flowers.gif] 

hehe Magicks yeah i've been known to spray mouthfuls of coffee over my puter :)








Nimkii -> RE: sub on heat (9/26/2006 10:42:49 AM)

Perhaps He is just waiting. One never knows. I can see Myself holding off for a few days just to build  up the sexual energy. longest I would hold off is a week though, but thats just Me. I love to taunt and tease.



gypsylee -> RE: sub on heat (9/26/2006 3:55:38 PM)

hi Nimkii,

yes. He knows how to wait. [sm=rage.gif] tho am grateful i'm not at the mercy of CrappyDom atm cos i'm PMSing and i'd be sub-from-hell.

gypsy[sm=sodoff.gif] [sm=flying.gif]






shadevarr -> RE: sub on heat (9/26/2006 7:15:20 PM)

Gypsy, It seems like it might just be that he is a bit off his stride. Moving to a new city due to work can mess someone up and I think he may be withholding out of respect for you. I'd do the same thing because I do not want to come off as a freeloader in any regard and it is a bit awkward living under someone else's roof. If this is the situation, the best thing I can think of is to talk to him and give control over the household to him. Males like to be lord of the manor.



gypsylee -> RE: sub on heat (9/26/2006 7:57:19 PM)

i said He could take over the kitchen LOL... and He does have the "Master" bedroom. really, the only room he can't have is the bathroom. He can have a drawer. i think i should shut up now.

thanks shadevarr :)



Iskander -> RE: sub on heat (9/26/2006 11:35:50 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ayasha

Let one guess:

1.  He has no money of his own to speak of
2.  You are working and paying all of the bills
3.  He is taking a 'bit' of time off before seeking another job
4.  He does little or nothing to help around the house
5.  It is nothing like he said it would be

Is this accurate? 


No, this is not accurate. So I suggest if you have no valid input to a topic or as in this case a question, then keep it to your own pessimistic brain...

You say you're being trained in the *true* art of M/s, havn't you been taught yet that a slave 'has no opinions' other than those of her Master? Have you not been taught to be respectful to others?
Perhaps your Master isn't as *true* as he's let you believe?!

Is this accurate?

Appologies to your Master for this analogy, I know nothing about him,  thus am in no condition to make judgement calls.  The last paragraph is simply a way of showing you how your comment came across at this end, not a statement of (assumed) fact.

Iskander...






Iskander -> RE: sub on heat (9/27/2006 12:04:55 AM)

To all others, thank you for being supportive to gl with words of encouragement, even the ones that were wary, but at least had the decency to not judge.

Some of you have been pretty close to the mark. :)
Moving interstate into a home that is not ones own does seem to create waves in the power dynamics, something i have not experienced before..
So aside from getting a feel for the vibe of new surroundings, the daily routine, there have been a few other reasons (some also mentioned by people) I chose to wait a little. In anycase, she'll get what she deserves before long... [sm=crop.gif]

Well met, and looking forward to getting to know you all better.

Iskander...



Iskander -> RE: sub on heat (9/27/2006 12:21:33 AM)

Shadevarr, Lord of the Manor.. lol.. Amusing thought.
That will happen in time, no doubt, (aside from the interior decorating part which I suck at), I think that should be a natural process, like how one doesn't start as a general, but works up through the ranks, handiong over power is a bit too political for my tastes, and heck, whens a politician ever done anything good? ;)

For now I'm happy with a draw in the bathroom, a Study and the kitchen, coz I do love to cook..

Iskander...



ExSteelAgain -> RE: sub on heat (9/27/2006 12:52:29 AM)

This thread sort of had an unusual happy ending. I feel warm and fuzzy.



gypsylee -> RE: sub on heat (9/27/2006 12:54:22 AM)

BOOYAKASHA! respekt.

*hides under the bed*

[sm=brush.gif]



MzMinx -> RE: sub on heat (9/27/2006 9:02:48 AM)

welcome to Melbourne Iskander... its a great city full of great people  *smiles at waves to gypsylee*.. there is quite a thriveing public bdsm community here if you desire to explore it and gypsy  doesnt already know about it

feel free to email on the  collarme.com side ... or ask here  and I will get you some links

*warm smile*

Mz Minx




Iskander -> RE: sub on heat (9/27/2006 6:46:18 PM)

Thanks MzMinx,
It's good to be back in a big city (Sydney's my hometown), and I know a little about melb, have a few friends here, but none that are really into the 'scene'. When gl came to visit me in the Mount, we did a bit of searching online, but there's nothing like some good personal references to avoid having to weed through the chaff...

Iskander...



MzMinx -> RE: sub on heat (9/27/2006 7:30:41 PM)

Hmmm  I am also  originaly  from sydney *smiles* .. but been here about 15 years  now

If you enjoy nightclubs, Abode  has been going for a while  (its in st kilda) ...  and has several nights a month with different themes  ... Chains  is held monthly in collingwood and  is an open play party/club with a munch before hand in the cafe downstairs ...  Hush Now is very much   begginers/brand new peoples club ..

and there are  couple of munches   one in williamstown .. and  a few discussion goups around the place

but their is an australian email list ....you can subscribe here  http://tertius.net.au/mailman/listinfo/ausbdsm


where most events around the country are listed as well as a small amount of discussion


as well as  online calenders ... http://aussieadultgroups.com/vicbdsm/month.php 

*warm smile*



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