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Looking for some psychological babble - 9/23/2006 7:40:30 AM

FeelinTheHeat

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This is sub infyniti, the subbie part of " feelin the heat". Feelin quizzical this morning. There are times that I wonder why certain things make me tick.... So without really knowing me, i am asking those out there if they possibly feel the same..... things i love are humiliating, forced sex..
such as face slapping, hair pulling, forced oral sex ( even though in the back of my mind, i love performing oral sex) anal sex.. being told i am a slut, a cunt... having Master over me in bed and forcing his cock and balls in my mouth, his making me lick his ass...and with all this in our relationship, i still fantasize about more... i want him to force me to crawl for him, i think about my saying something wrong and his putting soap in my mouth and making me kneel there until he tells me to rinse... on occasion he has peed on me in the shower... usually just randomly when we are showering, but i would love to be told to kneel in the shower and have him pee all over me, starting at the top of my head... then making me stay there till he comes back and tells me to shower. I want to kiss his feet, toes..
We have been together for a long time and these feelings are new or more so just coming out in me and i really just don't want to surprise him with all of them at once...
I guess i am wondering if lots of submissives feel this way, and though we do some of the things listed above... how can i get things to move into a more kinky manner?
Thanks in advance....
sub infyniti

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RE: Looking for some psychological babble - 9/23/2006 8:32:28 AM

MrDiscipline44

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Simple..........talk to him. If need be, ask for permission to talk candidly to him.

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RE: Looking for some psychological babble - 9/23/2006 9:37:15 AM

Amaros

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You are getting some humiliation, but you crave more - that is the question?

My only caveat here would be safe, sane, consensual - I could be induced to most of it, watersports, humiliation, objectification, etc. - you'd have to do some fast talking to get me into scat, or any sort of heavy torture that might result in physical damage. Nor would I be inclined to do any sort of humiliation/objectification within earshot of my children, lest I influence them in unpredictable ways.

Other than that, my guess is that this is a species of sub-frenzy, you are getting deeper into subspace, and I see no reason not to indulge it, with the caveat that it may subside in time, and you need to be sure and keep the lines of communication open.

You also might want to ease up if it appears to be affecting the rest of your life in negative ways.

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RE: Looking for some psychological babble - 9/23/2006 9:43:35 AM

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If the question is why do you crave it, it'll take a bit longer to answer, and I'm in some extreme pain, have trouble sitting for long - back spasms, you perverts - but I'm game if you're up for some bio-psychology and sociology.

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RE: Looking for some psychological babble - 9/23/2006 11:20:24 AM

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It all has to do with evolution, and the reality that humans have
three brains. The archipallium, the paleomammalian brain and
the neoopallium.    There is an evolutionary advantage to mating
with an alpha male or female, so the reptilian brain, the
archipallium craves to be the kind of person the alpha male
or female desires.   The neopallium developed much latter
and can't understand the tastes of the archipallium.

It was advantagous for females who were captured, raped
and taken as slaves to fall in love their conquerer rather than
fall on the sword and not give any pleasure to someone who
had just slaughtered her whole family.   Her life might depend
on her ability to convince the guy who was raping her to take
her with him, and that she would serve him for as long as
he lived.

Women were material possessions. Those that accepted
their fate llived and had many chidlren, those that didn't
had a much harder time and often perished.   To a lesser
degree men were also taken as slaves.

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RE: Looking for some psychological babble - 9/23/2006 1:52:35 PM

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