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"no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 5:18:03 PM

mixielicous

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i noticed this was an intrest in the CM.com part of the site.

i clean my Masters house without Him having to ask, would this be no strings housework? or is it service maids who arent interested in sex?

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 5:31:44 PM

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That would be 'housework without expectation of a reward'. Sex is the obvious reward, but it generally means that that person is interested in pure service.

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 5:53:18 PM

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I would file it under where do I sign up? I've only had one boy the purely enjoyed seeing that my needs were met without regard to his own. Bad news is that he didn't feel the same devotion to things like truth and honesty. I'm sure his wife would have been suprised to know of his skill with hardwood floors.

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 6:23:33 PM

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I would file it under where do I sign up? I've only had one boy the purely enjoyed seeing that my needs were met without regard to his own. Bad news is that he didn't feel the same devotion to things like truth and honesty. I'm sure his wife would have been suprised to know of his skill with hardwood floors.

OMG..he cheated on thier FLOORS?

What IS the world coming to?

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 6:28:57 PM

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Well if you do it just as a nice thing to do, then it's just being nice and useful (IF he finds it useful to have you clean up- someone else's version of "cleaning" could be another's version of "putting crap where I can't find it and makes no sense to me")

If he doesn't have to ask because it's been set up as a general expectation of your service as a submissive under his authority to complete those duties, it's just you doing what you're supposed to do.

Services maids CAN also be interested in sex :) They just aren't performing service in order to receive sex.

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 6:34:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: mixielicous

i noticed this was an intrest in the CM.com part of the site.

i clean my Masters house without Him having to ask, would this be no strings housework? or is it service maids who arent interested in sex?

when this slave is at Master's house, she cleans it, she does his laundry, cooks his meals, does the dishes, serves the meals, does errands for him

she does all this not because Master has asked it of her or because Master expects it of her, but because it brings this slave pleasure to do so.

Does this slave get rewarded for doing such things? Of course she does. She gets the satisfaction of knowing that she has in some small way made things easier for Master while she is there; she get's the satisfaction of knowing that Master has clean clothes, food to eat, a clean house, and because she ran some errands, he now has extra time to spend with his slave

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 6:35:52 PM

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Well if you do it just as a nice thing to do, then it's just being nice and useful (IF he finds it useful to have you clean up- someone else's version of "cleaning" could be another's version of "putting crap where I can't find it and makes no sense to me")

You mean how I put things away for my Dom when I helped him move into his new apartment... In my defense, someone with two dressers full of just Tshirts should be accepting of underwear and socks in one of the bedside tables since there was no room anywhere else for them... but that is just me and in his opinion I was wrong...WEG

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 6:48:29 PM

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File "no strings housework" along with No calorie chocolate cake under "stuff we wish existed but simply does not."

Everything has a price.

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 7:27:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Well if you do it just as a nice thing to do, then it's just being nice and useful (IF he finds it useful to have you clean up- someone else's version of "cleaning" could be another's version of "putting crap where I can't find it and makes no sense to me")

You mean how I put things away for my Dom when I helped him move into his new apartment... In my defense, someone with two dressers full of just Tshirts should be accepting of underwear and socks in one of the bedside tables since there was no room anywhere else for them... but that is just me and in his opinion I was wrong...WEG

LOL, or the time I threw a bunch of towels in the washer since they were sitting there right by it, only to be told they were already clean and dry and I was supposed to fold them and put them away.

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 7:38:35 PM

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oh what great replies! lol

well i can now click on it.. if i hadnt already? cleaning His house and doing His laundry without asking was atually something i had to get Him used to. Now that He understands why i do it He appreciates it more, and i inadvertantly get rewarded.

i know there are some out there who say inadvertent or not it happens so blah blah you cant say you do it are out there, but meh.

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 7:42:07 PM

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File "no strings housework" along with No calorie chocolate cake under "stuff we wish existed but simply does not."

Everything has a price.

Smythe

Oh ye of little faith....not only do i consider myself a a "no strings housework slut" (hey...i like the way that sounds) for family, friends, and Partners, but i also chose it as an occupation, so i get paid to feed my compulsions as well . (double bonus

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Of course my business cards do not read: "Housework slut" but how cool if they did!. Maybe i should have some made just for my kinky friends...

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 7:48:33 PM

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no strings means they want nothing in return, nor expect nothing.

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 7:56:00 PM

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no strings means they want nothing in return, nor expect nothing.

this slave does not exactly disagree with what you have said; however she would like to point out that for herself ( and speaking only for herself ), this slave is extremely selfish in regards to what she receives in return. As she stated before, this slave receives immense enjoyment and pleasure in doing little things like housework for Master; in part because she knows it does please him. But in reality, by doing these things, this slave is able to free up Master's time; time which is then spent with his slave.

so, from this slave's perspective, it is purely selfish reasons. She wants to be rewarded with more time spent with Master

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 8:10:44 PM

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hehe well yeah we all want time with our One, but no strings attached means they do it with out expecting reward or anything extra. It's not no strings if you expect or hope to get something in the end:)

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 8:19:06 PM

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There are many many nice people in the world who do nice things for others, things to help ease burdens in others, things to make others smiles.

They are called nice people- and they come from all orientations.

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 8:21:34 PM

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Well if you do it just as a nice thing to do, then it's just being nice and useful (IF he finds it useful to have you clean up- someone else's version of "cleaning" could be another's version of "putting crap where I can't find it and makes no sense to me")

You mean how I put things away for my Dom when I helped him move into his new apartment... In my defense, someone with two dressers full of just Tshirts should be accepting of underwear and socks in one of the bedside tables since there was no room anywhere else for them... but that is just me and in his opinion I was wrong...WEG

OMG can I relate to this... LOL i was helping Master clean his apartment the last few days and moved a few things from one mess pile to another now keep in mind he didnt tell me where to put things so I was just cleaning and finding places for things... he didnt like the place that I found for his nipple clamps... Im not gunna add that I forgot (ok I hid them and then couldnt remeber where it was I had hidden them) where I had put them which didnt make him happy... No but really there was just some stuff there was no place to put and so when we were done (yes he helped he is such a good Master.. but then again neather of us really are into no strings house work) We had to find some of the stuff I had found new homes for and well i think that took longer then the actually cleaining did...

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/23/2006 11:14:23 PM

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this slave does not exactly disagree with what you have said; however she would like to point out that for herself ( and speaking only for herself ), this slave is extremely selfish in regards to what she receives in return. As she stated before, this slave receives immense enjoyment and pleasure in doing little things like housework for Master; in part because she knows it does please him. But in reality, by doing these things, this slave is able to free up Master's time; time which is then spent with his slave.

so, from this slave's perspective, it is purely selfish reasons. She wants to be rewarded with more time spent with Master

Oh really, now. Who is this slave you keep describing to us?

Is she the one from: "So this slave walks into a bar with a rabbi and a goat."?

And why isn't it doing T/this? I mean doesn't it want to be a True Slave?

I guess we can be grateful that none of these whatchamacallits are posting in pig latin or shizzlespeak yet. Pronoun Dysplasia is a tiresome enough thing to inflict on the readers of a message board.

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/24/2006 6:23:13 AM

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i have done "no strings" housework for Women many times. Sometimes i was given a reward, but most of the time i just went home after a day of menial cleaning and laundry. i went home disappointed but was back again when she would call.

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/24/2006 6:24:56 AM

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why must someone always rain on the parade??? ^^^^^^

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RE: "no strings housework" - 9/24/2006 7:05:04 AM

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Does it count if you are over at their house and you just get grossed out by the mess and start cleaning?
I've done that a few times.
I don't really think I was a 'nice person' for it, I just couldn't stand being in the mess. ;-)

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