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Having a D/s Relationship with the traditional vanilla ... - 9/23/2006 10:29:45 PM

LordBizwahsgirl

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Hello,

Heres a question for any one that wishes to answer it.
Okay some one has a girlfrined/boyfriend or some thing along those lines (depending on your sexual orientation) but they have a D/s relationship is it still vanilla?
[D/s is alot more than sex its about a commitment and having a special bond between two people.]

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RE: Having a D/s Relationship with the traditional vani... - 9/23/2006 10:35:14 PM

DiurnalVampire

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My relationship with my boy is mostdefinately not vanilla, although it does have that apearance when we are out and about. We have very vanilla things we do together, and we have vanilla friends we do them with, but the D/s dynamic is always there. He never forgets his place, stil opens doors and such when we are together regardless of the situation. He doesnt need to be wearing his collar to remember he is collared, and acts appropriately. In the privacy our own time, we have a proper D/s relationship. It fows together seemlessly... for us at least.

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RE: Having a D/s Relationship with the traditional vani... - 9/24/2006 3:26:25 AM

ThunderousOne

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Every D/s or M/s 24/7 has lots of vanilla in life...not the lifestyle or the bond between the two...

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RE: Having a D/s Relationship with the traditional vani... - 9/24/2006 8:00:01 AM

SirLordTrainer

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Welcome to the forums.. your question would fit better in the general proper area though..

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