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azalea -> RE: Why do people fear posting/showing a photo on collarme.com? (1/16/2005 6:29:15 PM)

I post pictures as does my Dom because we are not too concerned who knows our lifestyle. Both our previous jobs were aware to some degree of our involvement with BDSM. Both sets of parents and siblings either know or have an inkling about us. I do understand the caution that others display, but for me, it is not a consideration.



sub4hire -> RE: Why do people fear posting/showing a photo on collarme.com? (1/16/2005 7:10:01 PM)

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That brings up a question--is there sort of an unspoken code of honor among those that attend munches and play parties, that they don't talk to others about whom they saw there?


There is no honor. It is a basic rule that you should not talk about who or what happened at a munch. Although, that doesn't mean some won't talk. I mean as a host of a munch what are we to do to them? First we would have to track them down somehow. Which there would really be no way of being able to. Then, even if we did what would we do? Smack their hands?
They would probably like that.
So, there is no absolute when you go to a munch or party. You just have to hope people follow the rules.



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Why do people fear posting/showing a photo on collarme.com? (1/16/2005 7:18:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: angelinafemdom

Why do people fear showing a photo on collarme.com? It is a risk that may not be worth taking in the long run.

I look very little like my current photos; [image]local://upfiles/57307/20CC3D90EA0E4164B04410D68C239791.jpg[/image]

People fear posting pic because of the story you told, and the story MizSuz said, and the story Sarbonn told... Because there are mean and rotten people who may prey on information which makes you vulnerable.

I'm not very secretive online, but definitely like my life as my business, and hate uninvited opinions; certainly wouldn't want to jeopardize my work/way of life because of what I do in the privacy of my own home; this incidentaly is an issue I'm trying to reconcile with before going to public affairs (how does one know one can trust the people present? M



servantnj -> RE: Why do people fear posting/showing a photo on collarme.com? (1/17/2005 10:49:10 AM)

i dont have fear of posting a photo, well, at least not to people who contact me with such request. But on the other hand, i would love to see less pictures, becouse some are just simple unatractive (not a person, but picture, as presentation of what, in their mind is best about them). Here is something i dont understand, and hopefully someone can explain to me. If one is looking for a lifetime partner, why doesn't the same person invest little bit more interest and energy of presenting themselves with right picture. I find hard to belive that someone can fell in love ( or lust, or whatever) just by looking at image of penis.



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