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Slave needs re-focusing - 9/24/2006 11:50:54 PM

ajssub

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We are a married couple (living in Melb, but travel to Sydney a lot) we are both in the lifestyle and we are both very keen to move further into our relationship but I feel my slave / husband needs to re-focus on the true meaning of being a submissive. We are looking for a Mistress / Dom couple that may like to give us some ideas on this topic or direct us to a place we can go for a boot camp training programme that will ensure my slave comes back to me a new man.

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RE: Slave needs re-focusing - 9/24/2006 11:54:33 PM

Lordandmaster

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Yawn. The profile is the male's, and it doesn't say he's married or owned. In fact, it says he's actively looking for a mistress:

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I am very exp in serving, cooking, cleaning and treating a Mistress with care and love.
Mistress must be willing to take me on as her submissive to do as she likes and use me in a private scene.

I'd say you two need to straighten out what the hell you're looking for before anyone can give you advice about how to straighten out your man.

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RE: Slave needs re-focusing - 9/25/2006 12:05:59 AM

PrincessArriana

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GREAT ADVICE AJSSUB....LOL

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RE: Slave needs re-focusing - 9/25/2006 6:15:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ajssub

We are a married couple (living in Melb, but travel to Sydney a lot) we are both in the lifestyle and we are both very keen to move further into our relationship but I feel my slave / husband needs to re-focus on the true meaning of being a submissive. We are looking for a Mistress / Dom couple that may like to give us some ideas on this topic or direct us to a place we can go for a boot camp training programme that will ensure my slave comes back to me a new man.

Please be a little more original if you're going to come here and ask us for advice or direction and have a profile that totally doesn't match what you're saying. We get our chains yanked pretty frequently and usually don't buy into 2+2=7.

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RE: Slave needs re-focusing - 9/25/2006 6:32:47 AM

MstrssPassion

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I'd like to comment even though this is most likely a bogus post from a bogus profile...

Maybe the hubby gets it & the domme is the one that needs boot camp.

For goodness sake... if you can't whip him into shape on your own what makes you think you'd be able to do any better with one that has training? Training doesn't mean they are a programmed robot that will respond to you with the efficiency of a remote control. If you want a slave that is trained then learn what it takes to train one.

< Message edited by MstrssPassion -- 9/25/2006 6:33:24 AM >

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RE: Slave needs re-focusing - 9/25/2006 8:17:06 AM

MasterFireMaam

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Dispite the implied disception and desire for wanker material of this question, I'll have a go at a real answer.

We cannot expect outside influences to change who we are. A specific environment, like boot camp, can only offer a place to reinforce the changes we already want to make. We should look inside to see what issues are keeping us from being who we want to be.

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