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RE: My profile sucks, any advice - 9/25/2006 6:57:49 PM

LTRsubNW

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ORIGINAL: QuietControler

Hi,
I was hoping some of you would be kind enough to peek at my profile and give me some advice on how to make it better.
I am not good at writing this stuff and haven't been getting any bites.

I have tough skin and won't write you a nasty e-mail if you give me a negative comment.

I appreciate the help,
Bill

I don't need to look at your profile.

I asked this same advice some months back.

Be you.

No one else.

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RE: My profile sucks, any advice - 9/25/2006 6:58:01 PM

KatyLied

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That Dom will be forever known as the non-Dada.

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RE: My profile sucks, any advice - 9/25/2006 7:02:51 PM

TNstepsout

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Not much else to add since everyone has covered so much, the one thing that stood out to me was beginning with "looking for someone who can host". This just REEKS of someone looking for a F*** Buddy. If you meet the woman of your dreams, will you give her the boot just because she also has children in her home? Is it ALL about the play and sex? I would take this out completely. No one wants to feel like they are being selected or rejected based on their housing situation.

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RE: My profile sucks, any advice - 9/25/2006 7:03:19 PM

juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

That Dom will be forever known as the non-Dada.

OMG you make me laugh

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RE: My profile sucks, any advice - 9/26/2006 9:01:48 AM

QuietControler

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Many thanks to you for all of you input. Even some of the sarcasm was entertaining.

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RE: My profile sucks, any advice - 9/26/2006 9:07:15 AM

MisPandora

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Get a fake pic (a hot one) and tell lies about urself

I'm personally a sucker for the guy who picks the photos from the cards at Spencers and then claims he's got 20 years of experience, trained as an Old Guard Master and has a 9 inch cock. That's hot, even for an old domina like me LOL

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RE: My profile sucks, any advice - 9/26/2006 9:27:15 AM

MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

That Dom will be forever known as the non-Dada.

*bonks you on the head* NOT THE DADA!!!

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RE: My profile sucks, any advice - 9/26/2006 9:35:34 AM

juliaoceania

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

That Dom will be forever known as the non-Dada.

*bonks you on the head* NOT THE DADA!!!

Ha Ha

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RE: My profile sucks, any advice - 9/26/2006 7:54:58 PM

TemptingNviceSub

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Well by the time I saw this thread profile was down ..sooo..I am thinking you are working upon it...sounds as if you got some good info...best of luck..Tempting

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RE: My profile sucks, any advice - 12/10/2006 4:01:07 AM

PoeticJustice

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I did not read your profile and I am sure it is personally a non concern on your part as a male to male

I did read the offers of sincere help , charming ways to address that your profile really is bad , well really bad seems to be a compliment so basically sucked and as counterproductive as one can be to help you find a quote “host” as one said that was all you seem to need. I was impressed at your personal issues people seem to accept as genuine, from what I read as one detailed line per line, all I could say is ARE YOU KIDDING ME
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The need for help is two fold here , your profile was not getting you the host responses you thought would be so easy on bondage format, so you tried an blatant appeal to the forum for attention, either way not important to me , I am just pleased and kudos to those who tried to improve your profile, the way I see it is most just tried to help you sincerely and in doing so they cover the true you with words that sugar coated the way you think.

If I had any say I would force you to keep the first profile because it is you and your words and thoughts, what the others have done is maybe put a sheep cover over a hungry wolf. But who knows and I give stars to people for coming to the aid of someone.

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RE: My profile sucks, any advice - 12/10/2006 4:03:12 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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My profile sucks more. Don't worry it will evolve as you do also.

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RE: My profile sucks, any advice - 12/10/2006 4:06:21 AM

imtempting

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I agree with what you said about an attempt to just get noticed.

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RE: My profile sucks, any advice - 12/10/2006 4:11:49 AM

canyouguess

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Paint a picture of who you are, what you seek, possibly where you have been in your journey. Be genuine and honest, because if a relationship results you will always be who you are, even with the passage of time. I wish you well.

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