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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/27/2006 1:18:49 PM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		I think that this is a phony post. How can anyone work their way up to look at your chin???

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/27/2006 1:22:06 PM   
WhyteRavenne


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ORIGINAL: MASTERRocker

"Ladysian,

I gave myself a lecture today "   does that mean you talk to yourself....?  just wondering......


Don't we all?  Isn't that what our thoughts are?  'Course, sometimes mine get all pissy with and just leave... 

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/27/2006 1:33:59 PM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		Hi. I looked at your profile, and don't see anything wrong with it either. Like the others had said. you should not let anyone mess with your brain or personality.

I wear Mary Janes at work and get some stairs, but I don't care what anyone else thinks. I am HAPPY doing my little thing, and I don't care what anyone else cares, except fpr my loved one.

Don't Worry, be HAPPY, BalletBob

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/27/2006 4:08:10 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		Not from what I can see in the pictures you have posted....the subbie who wrote that is good for one thing....forgetting

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/28/2006 12:36:37 PM   
Amaros


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Status: offline 		My honest opinion? Yer a Phat, sexy bitch, you don't even wanna know what I'm thinkin' about doing to ya - if you ever decide to switch teams, look me up!

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/28/2006 12:44:00 PM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		I think the OPoster is getting just what she wanted- us all to check out her profile
and tell her how good looking she is.
I doubt for a second she was at all concerened about some dumb insult
( if there was one at all)

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/28/2006 1:02:15 PM   
LordODiscipline


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Status: offline 		I am not even looking - and, why would you care what someone that crass thinks about you.
 
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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 9/28/2006 1:11:38 PM   
Bearlee


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My honest opinion?  It's not nice to advertise on this board... 

Pro Domme, indeed; nice try though...

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 10/1/2006 5:09:16 PM   
patina


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Status: offline 		Forget the moron,  I had some jerk write me that I needed to go on a diet and lose weight, I answered him with I had just lost 100 lbs.  I  just hadn't taken any new pic yet,   now go drown yourself. I then blocked him.  I have had many guys contact me and tell me they thought I was very nice looking.  The Dom I have contracted with now is delighted with my body.  So to each their own.  Some like tiny tiny partners, others like them to be plump, others want only the extreme chubby, and some want what is termed just right.  You will find someone who will want a set type too and each of you will be happy, do not let others mess it up just delete them. 


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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 10/1/2006 5:13:29 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		You just need a thicker skin when it comes to dealing with the ones who resort to grade-school insults.  My normal response is if you dont like my pictures, I am sure you can troll about for better wank material elsewhere.  If their opinions actually mattered to me, I would have asked for them.  Some of the subbies on here get a kick out of seeing if they can get a riled up reaction from a Domme.  There are male doms and other femdommes that do the same.  If I get random unsolicited opinions, or suggestions, I ust say thanks, but since I am ot asking, I dont need to hear it.

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 10/1/2006 5:23:32 PM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		there's nothing wrong with the way You look, Ma'am. You are attractive (it's the 'Pro' part that keeps me away, Ma'am)


< Message edited by michaelGA2 -- 10/1/2006 5:25:39 PM >

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 10/1/2006 5:45:06 PM   
littlesarbonn


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Status: offline 		Having looked at your profile pictures, I say that you should just ignore what the person said. Some people are more interested in insulting people than in actually communicating with them. I'm generally not a person who pays all that attention to someone's looks as the main attribute behind what I'd be seeking, so with that said, I found your pictures very nice and found no reason to believe an insult was warranted.

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 10/1/2006 9:52:55 PM   
Cardius


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Status: offline 		I've been reading through the replies to your post and I'm surprised that no one mentioned that you had to be told you were insulted.  Nice of someone to care enough to tell you that you were insulted.  (Chuckles)

You can really only be insulted if you take offense.  If it didn't bother you don't fret it.  If upon reflection you do worry about it strive to fix it. 

On a personal note if all he is looking at is a picture he has not seen the true you.  Beauty is not neccesarily just skin deep and ugly goes to the bone.  I see a real beauty. 

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 10/1/2006 10:04:32 PM   
marieToo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling

I think the OPoster is getting just what she wanted- us all to check out her profile
and tell her how good looking she is.
I doubt for a second she was at all concerened about some dumb insult
( if there was one at all)


I agree.  And look at them all playing into it...especially Amaros and MichaelGA. lmaooo . <eyeroll> 

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 10/1/2006 11:06:51 PM   
GentleDom3


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Status: offline 		I agree i mean first off you don't look that way to me, and to me it's not even would a submissive say that... it goes to the heart of human decency.  If your not into someone i don't care if you Master or Slave Top or Bottom, do it with class an kindness an be a human being.  It really is just that simple.

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 10/1/2006 11:35:25 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Honestly--your pics are too dark and pixelated.  Get a high-resolution digital camera (or else make some high-res scans from 35 mm prints) and let's see some better pictures.

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 10/2/2006 1:18:43 AM   
LASub4Real


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ladysian

As part of my previous post "can someone explain this to me?" I told that I was personally insulted by a subbie
So please can I ask you all to look at my pictures on my profile and give me an honest opinion of my appearance?
The exact line of the insult went "you have more chins than than a chinese telephone book" can you tell me if this is true?

Ladysian


And what was he doing reading a through a freakin' chinese phone book? That line is so old it's pathetic. Believe me, he just heard it (back in the 1982) and decided to drop it in because it's the only thing rattling around between his ears. If he wants to insult you, at least he should be original! And besides you looook Maaavelous!!!

LAsub

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 10/2/2006 4:06:00 AM   
EvilGeoff


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Status: offline 		Having a spot of insecurity, are we?

In any case, you don't have multiple chins visible in your photographs.

You are, judging strictly by your post count and Date Joined information, relatively new to Collarme.  You will find that there are LOTS of asshat HNG's around, who have nothing better to do than spew insulting emails left and right to people they don't know, have no intention of knowing, and wouldn't know if they jumped up and bit them on the arse...

It may have been the first time, sweety, but if you hang around Collarme for any length of time, it surely won't be the last.  OH!  And don't be surprised if you do reply, that you find the wanker has blocked your email.  Don't give these cretins a second thought.  Delete and move on.

YIK,
- Geoff

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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 10/2/2006 4:32:39 AM   
Nikolette


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Status: offline 		Honestly? An honest opinion? I don't think you're gorgeous from your pictures, but you don't look awful in them. I actually can't tell what you look like very well. You COULD be gorgeous, but really I can't tell.

Something of interest- did this person happen to provide a picture of THEMSELVES? If not I doubt its because they are a top CEO of a major company or a famous movie star, in fact I bet its because they're an ugly fuck. Not to mention probably racist with their Chinese comments.

Ultimately everyone here as told you what I'll tell you- it doesn't matter.

I've gotten thousands and thousands of emails since I put my profile up on collarme. 99% of them are people expressing pleasure in the way I look, I've only ever gotten two emails that were hateful in nature. I bet its EXACTLY the same for you. Did that person think you looked ugly? Maybe, or maybe he just wanted to entertain himself. Either way it shouldn't be that important to you. Keep in mind that you are Domme... and in my (clearly biased opinion) Dommes are well sought out, empowered beauties (generalization obviously not everyone in any particular group is great). This is a seller's market on subs both professionally and personally- don't let one idiot bring you down. Everyone has a low self esteem day, but make sure your next one isn't caused by someone who probably wants you to shit on his face.



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RE: can i get an honest opinion? - 10/2/2006 4:47:38 AM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		Many will mock you when the think they don't have a chance in Hell in being yours.

With pics alone, you are curvacious, dangerous, strong willed, and fun. All in all you may look a tad over intimidating for some. The message came from a spammer who only likes to piss on peoples parade. Just block and delete. Sending a reply with rage and how you can kick is ass will just lead to his excitment. He knows he can't handle you and resents it.  

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