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The best - 9/26/2006 10:29:05 AM

PONYSEEKER

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Okay, I know everyone wants to talk about how bad it can be... but just how good has it ever been for you. What is the best your Dom can do? Have you had that one special day where life was perfect? If so what did you guys do?

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RE: The best - 9/26/2006 11:24:11 AM

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The day we met was pretty perfect, although there was a day when we went apartment hunting that for some reason just underscored how peaceful it feels to be in his company. I never had that before with anyone else, just that sense of peace that all is right in the world just to be sharing it with him... Yes, that day was up there in perfection.. And a view of the Pacific Ocean while you share that moment is pretty cool.

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RE: The best - 9/26/2006 2:03:33 PM

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Well this may sound like a line but every time i see him it makes my day perfect. We may just talk, kiss and cuddle or we may scene. It does not matter as long as we are together that is all that i need.

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RE: The best - 9/26/2006 6:28:28 PM

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It's been almost 7 months since we moved in together and honestly everyday has been wonderful. Today was a biggie because I started college and will now be gone for a good part of the day. We have been practically inseparable and we both felt the absence of the other strongly. But, we will adjust and being together will be all the more sweet.

Our first meeting was a perfect day. The day he collared me in our living room was a perfect day. Sitting together in Starbucks is always perfect. I simply adore him and find it such a blessing to be able to be his submissive.

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RE: The best - 9/26/2006 8:23:32 PM

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I have tons of wonderful memories or memorable days, but there's one in particular that puts a smile on my face. The day we were celebrating our 1 year anniversary since we started our relationship in a shity bar downtown drinking a pitcher of beer. Then walking on the park, viewing a full moon, both a little buzzed but happy to be together. I remember telling him how much I wanted to get married with him right there, right that moment (I was the kind of girl that denied the possibility of getting married EVER her whole life). It felt so good and so appropiate that we both loose a few tears of happiness.

I know, it's kinda vanilla and corny, but it felt soooo good, I'll never forget it.

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RE: The best - 9/27/2006 6:21:59 AM

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i can't pinpoint a day. For me it has come in moments. There have been countless (not exagerating, i really couldn't possibly count them) moments of bliss with Him.

Sometimes, in fact often times, i feel it when He simply reaches over and places His hand on me. He may hold my hand or simply place his hand on my thigh or my arm or my head... When He does this it never fails to fill me with a peaceful stillness that is like the image of a lake at dawn so perfectly still that i looks like glass and embodies serenity.

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RE: The best - 9/27/2006 6:26:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PONYSEEKER

Okay, I know everyone wants to talk about how bad it can be... but just how good has it ever been for you. What is the best your Dom can do? Have you had that one special day where life was perfect? If so what did you guys do?

every day for this slave is special. Granted, sometimes she is frustrated or upset over some trivial happening, but that does not take away from the fact that she views each day as a miracle in her own life.

Master and his property do not need to do 'something special' for a day to be perfect. Everyday in his company, every minute spent speaking with him makes this slave's life perfect

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RE: The best - 9/27/2006 8:22:52 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pqwinny

i can't pinpoint a day. For me it has come in moments. There have been countless (not exagerating, i really couldn't possibly count them) moments of bliss with Him.

Sometimes, in fact often times, i feel it when He simply reaches over and places His hand on me. He may hold my hand or simply place his hand on my thigh or my arm or my head... When He does this it never fails to fill me with a peaceful stillness that is like the image of a lake at dawn so perfectly still that i looks like glass and embodies serenity.

I agree it comes down to moments, like the one I described above was the first time I realized how at peace I am with him. His presense is peaceful in my life, and I do not think anyone else has ever made me feel that way.

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RE: The best - 9/27/2006 8:58:18 AM

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A day when a girl finally manged to serve with excellence. My needs were met and anticipated to perfection-as desired. She did not hover, seeking approval-did what was desired almost without being noticed. And at the end of it all, thanked me for giving the opportunity to learn-rather than whining I had not paid attention to her.

That was truly sublime.

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RE: The best - 9/27/2006 9:57:33 AM

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Sappy as it sounds, the day that he proposed to me was one of the most amazing days we spent together.

We had a bunch of errands to run during the day, but right as the sun was going down, we went for a walk in the arboretum of the college we attended. We walked around for a while, then sat down under a sycamore tree and watched the owls come out, and he asked if I wanted to do this for the rest of our lives.

Was pretty wonderful.

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RE: The best - 9/27/2006 3:18:33 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PONYSEEKER

Okay, I know everyone wants to talk about how bad it can be... but just how good has it ever been for you. What is the best your Dom can do? Have you had that one special day where life was perfect? If so what did you guys do?

There has been so many beautiful days in our relationship together that I could not possibly give a "best" out of them. Perhaps it's easier to make a list:
- Our first date, which was so completely vanilla and sweet, where I melted for him right then and there, and had a sense of joy and happiness I had never had before.
- The first time he told me, in the most wonderfully charmingly awkward way, that he was afraid that he was in love with me, and I told him that I loved him too.
- The night he called me from work at 2am, telling me to meet him at 3am on a pedestrian bridge wearing only a coat with nothing underneath, and he photographed me nude there under the city skyline when no one was around. I never felt so beautiful.
- The day when we were laying in bed together talking about our fantasies (at this point, BDSM had never been brought up), and I told him my desire to submit to him, which he welcomed and I became owned by him that night. I was so frightened to bring it up, and he made it safe and showed me how much he appreciated that I wanted to give him my self in submission to him.
- The first time he had me kneel before him as we sat and listened to the radio, when he stroked my hair softly and told me how much he loved me.
- The days he gives me orders on what to do when he is gone, and I love that he thinks of how to use my service to him, how he shows me what it is that pleases him for me to do and directs me to do it.
- When he began training me to be the best submissive to him that I could be, and each continuing day of that training.
- Every day holds something special- be it a glance that says more than words ever could, a caress, a kiss, holding me against him when he comes home, or laying in bed each night, nearly asleep, when he places his hand over me to make me feel owned even in my dreams. I always know my place under his hand, and under his direction, and that makes every day and moment special. I see no other world than under that hand, no other place but kneeling at his feet, and I am greatful for the chance to be there.

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RE: The best - 9/27/2006 10:28:05 PM

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After almost 8 years, I never thought I'd be as happy with him today as I was at the beginning...

Most recently my favorite memory is being snowed in our motorhome (Sept 18) while camping (-10 C outside, furnace running all the time), sipping hot chocolate, playing board games... Looking out at the fading sun and seeing a deer wander through our campground... The knowing look and smile.

I am always lost in him. He is my world, he is my breath.

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RE: The best - 9/28/2006 10:48:49 PM

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Almost every day is like that for me lately. Gorgeous weather, perfect relationship, fun job, good new friends. But the BEST thing Mistress could do is understand me, love me, cuddle me, and control me completely and fully. There are times when she MAY need to FORCE me back into a more low headspace when I become stubborn.

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RE: The best - 9/29/2006 2:11:40 PM

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I dont ask for much in this life. So every time I see my other I think its perfect. Really. Im so blessed.

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RE: The best - 9/30/2006 9:50:12 AM

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This past year has been a rocky road for me...the only thing that has remained constant is his belief in me and my trust in him. Ever day i wake up with this knowlege is a perfect day...and each day is more perfect than the day before. Knowing this is only the tip of the iceburg makes tomorrow and the day after even more perfect.

Damn it makes me realize how perfectly perfect life can be and how trivial moments of imperfection really are.

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RE: The best - 9/30/2006 10:22:16 AM

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The day my boyfriend agreed to offically become my dominant was pretty good. We discussed it at length and decided that things really wouldn't change between us. He's very picky about me maintaining my independence as well as being his submissive. Mindless girls bore him.

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