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mstrjx -> RE: Casual sex versus Casual D/s and/or BDSM (9/28/2006 4:02:46 AM)
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ORIGINAL: toservez
None of you do play parties?
I used to be active in my community, but it was generally between relationships. Most of the submissive partners I had, except for the first, did not want to have anything to do with meeting other people in the Lifestyle. Most of my activity was while single.
What I would see at play parties was that usually the people who were playing were already couples. The difference between their playing at home and at the parties is that there were people around, and it didn't bother them.
There was one group I was a part of that 'featured' one couple whose play level was at a much higher level than the rest. They had no trouble playing 'hard' in front of others. At some point, and I can't actually recall how, I was asked to participate. Sometimes in conjunction with her Master, at others while he was taking a break. From then on, when there were parties I would be asked to 'assist' this same couple. I suppose that during those hours I was part of the 'family'. I never had any communication with them except for the parties.
Through people seeing me with them, I would also be asked to 'demonstrate' with other single, submissive women, usually involving electrical play, but my involvement with them was kept strictly to the party.
If I were to become involved in the community again, it would start out the same way. I would just 'be there'. I don't do the Dom 'rooster' thing very well. I don't try to garner attention. Eventually, it just finds me.
One perspective.
Jeff
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