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Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/23/2004 12:09:56 PM   
SlightlySub


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Status: offline 		A new sub friend told me that she gets orgasms going down on her lover. When I said I had never heard of this, she said I should ask more subs this question. So I would like to know if it is common for submissives to orgasm solely by pleasuring a lover with no reciprocal pleasuring going on.
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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/23/2004 12:58:54 PM   
EStrict


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Status: offline 		::laughing:: a former friend of mine once claimed to have the equivalent of a G-spot on the roof of her mouth. She insisted that she came continually from just the act of oral. Master said she gave the worst blow-job he ever had, as it was distracting her *shuddering* and moaning rather than concentrating on the job at hand..

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/23/2004 1:51:28 PM   
iwillserveu


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Status: offline 		I'm male. Sorry, my experience is irrelevant to your question. I have heard women say there are orgasms and there are ORGASMS. (Unfortunately I've only had "orgasms" or "ORGASMS" and can't point to this duality.)

I'm not sure but perhaps the difference comes into play here.

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/23/2004 1:53:51 PM   
iwillserveu


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Status: offline 		Sandy,

There is no such thing as a bad pizza, sundae, or blow job.

(BTW, this is the post I should have congratulsated you by replying to.)

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/23/2004 3:40:54 PM   
seattleminx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SlightlySub

A new sub friend told me that she gets orgasms going down on her lover. When I said I had never heard of this, she said I should ask more subs this question. So I would like to know if it is common for submissives to orgasm solely by pleasuring a lover with no reciprocal pleasuring going on.


Watching my partner/Domme writhe with pleasure when I go down on her is possibl eon of the most arousing things I do. It's not so much the phycial act, as much as her reaction to it.

And I agree with EStrict... its best to try not to let the pleasure distract you from the task at hand (so to speak).

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/23/2004 4:25:32 PM   
MistressKiss


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Status: offline 		The idea of pleasuring my lover can get me close to orgasm, but I still need a push of stimulation manually to go over the edge. Of course, there are many different types of orgasms for women (sorry guys), so it depends on your definition of cumming.




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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/23/2004 6:56:30 PM   
MizSuz


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Status: offline 		I am gifted with the ability to achieve orgasm without benefit of physical stimulation, although most often I am giving pain when it occurs. It TOTALLY rocks.

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/23/2004 10:28:43 PM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		iwill, maybe you have just been lucky, but trust me, there are bad blowjobs.

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/24/2004 9:44:42 AM   
sub4hire


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ORIGINAL: Estring

iwill, maybe you have just been lucky, but trust me, there are bad blowjobs.



I'm female and I know there are bad blowjobs. Many, many men over the years have told me that. Although most men won't tell the female doing it at the time. If ever.
So how do you know when you are bad?

Don't know.

My best orgasms are when touched in a non sexual way....

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/24/2004 12:01:28 PM   
SherriA


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ORIGINAL: MizSuz

I am gifted with the ability to achieve orgasm without benefit of physical stimulation, although most often I am giving pain when it occurs. It TOTALLY rocks.



It kinda sometimes maybe sorta rocks being the one with needles stuck through your nipples and a knife sheath clenched in your teeth to stifle the screams when it happens too :)

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/24/2004 12:36:33 PM   
MizSuz


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ORIGINAL: SherriA

It kinda sometimes maybe sorta rocks being the one with needles stuck through your nipples and a knife sheath clenched in your teeth to stifle the screams when it happens too :)



WUAAAAHAHAHAHAAAA

That sheath still has your teeth marks.

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/26/2004 6:47:21 AM   
londonswitch


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*cackle*

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/26/2004 6:48:51 AM   
londonswitch


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Status: offline 		I do it both when sub and domme.
Not when I was younger though. Took until 30 to be easily orgasmic like this.

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/26/2004 2:29:44 PM   
nysub29


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Status: offline 		Giving pain when having an orgasm maybe that's why football players are always patting each other on the behinds.

< Message edited by nysub29 -- 4/26/2004 2:32:51 PM >

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/26/2004 3:51:21 PM   
Rendclaw


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Status: offline 		I am pretty sure I am going to get put on for this, but to hell with it.

One of the submissives I play with regularly has orgasms when she is going down on me. Actually I enjoy the sensations of her moaning around me when that happens. I am always amazed by her focus, because all she does is slow her movements as the pleasure sweeps over her, and once it passes, she picks right back up again.

And yes, I agree that women have a plethora of types of orgasms. ::chuckles: I think I have only discovered two, maybe three kinds for myself. One thing that I enjoy doing is training my partners to have orgasms on command, at any time, whether play is going on or not.

Yes, yes, I know... thats a myth... I've heard that before... blahblahblah... All I can say in my defense is that it was worked with my playmates more often than it has failed. By a great degree.

As far as to answer the topic directly, since I have always been a pleasure and sexually-oriented dominant, very little pleases me more than a submissive or slave partner losing herself in the pleasure that she either is giving to me, I am giving to her, or both, to the point of total surrender of self.

That's what makes me fly.

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/26/2004 4:18:40 PM   
proudsub


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quote:

And yes, I agree that women have a plethora of types of orgasms. ::chuckles: I think I have only discovered two, maybe three kinds for myself. One thing that I enjoy doing is training my partners to have orgasms on command, at any time, whether play is going on or not.


I was just reading the profiles of some new members and there is a dom named medtron2 from Ohio that trains women to do just that. It's a very interesting profile. I wish i lived closer to him lol, could use that training.




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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/26/2004 9:56:41 PM   
juniorinswmo


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Status: offline 		i am male, and have achieved gloriously messy, fountainous orgasm at the moment my Mistress achieves Her Pleasure from my tongue; i have also spurted in similar fashion while being cropped, and while being paddled--both long into the session--and i believe Mistress was pleased at those times, too.

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 4/27/2004 6:17:38 AM   
sandiegoadult


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Status: offline 		I for one am exploring now exploring my submissive side. I can cum with very little stimulation by going down on a woman.

On the other side, I once dated a women who would have orgasms while she went down on me.

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 5/8/2004 12:40:48 AM   
MrMystique


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Status: offline 		very interesting responses. I too get very excited about bringing my lover to orgasm. However, I have not yet h ad an orgasm while doing so. I wish I could having read some of your responses.

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RE: Orgasms pleasuring your dom - 5/8/2004 1:02:23 AM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		I have owned two slaves that I trained to cum only on my command. They would cum on command at anytime and immediately. One of them would even cum from emails from me telling her to cum.
They described it as their bodies no longer responding to their desires, but to mine. Needless to say, it was very enjoyable to use them in this manner.

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