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ORIGINAL: NockieVixx

I get very close to achieving orgasm when I'm pleasing my lover. It's his reactions to what I'm doing and feeling him in the act that does it for me, not actually DOING it to him. *

And on the orgasm by command? My master is a trained hypnotist: He gave me an instant orgasm command years back, but He learned the hard way it's not a good idea to give that command starting sex. I highly recommend it. Instant orgasms are fun ... and they can change the subject pretty fast in conversations, too!**

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ORIGINAL: sub4hire

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ORIGINAL: SlightlySub:

a new sub friend told me that she has orgasms going down on her lover.  When I said I had never heard of this, she said I should ask more subs this question.  So I would like to know if this is common for submissives to orgasm solely by pleasuring a lover with no reciprocal pleasure going on.

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ORIGINAL: sub4hire

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ORIGINAL: Estring

iwill, maybe you have just been lucky, but trust me, there are bad blowjobs. [:D]

I'm female and I know there are bad blowjobs. Many, many men over the years have told me that. Although most men won't tell the female doing it at the time. If ever.
So how do you know when you are bad?

Don't know.

My best orgasms are when touched in a non sexual way....

I will answer both here:  First, i too, have incredible orgasms when going down on Master.  They are yummy.  At first i thought i was nuts, but they are all too real.  :)

Second, i know for a fact, there are such things as bad blow jobs, because people i know have been told. haha  Hopefully, for their Masters' sake, they are better now.