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MASTERRocker -> Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 5:53:18 PM)

Is it possible?




Aileen68 -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 5:54:02 PM)

No.




MasterC46910 -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 5:54:24 PM)

As in partners to each other or as partners with subs or slaves?




MASTERRocker -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 5:56:16 PM)

To each other     a union




justheather -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 5:57:53 PM)

Many people experience D/s within the context of a healthy romantic partnership. I just read in the Positive Experiences section a post from a woman who is the s in a D/s relationship of nine years, growing out of a twenty five year marriage.

My relationship with my Daddy is the most healthy, fulfilling and intimate romantic partnership Ive ever been in, and D/s is most definitely at the core of our relationship.

I don't know how common or rare it is, but yes, I believe that a Dom/me can make a good romantic partner, if that type of relationship is what he or she desires.




justheather -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 5:59:14 PM)

Oh I see what you mean now, you posted again while I was typing.

Yes, I also think they can be good partners to one another as long as they do what all good partners do and that is build on trust and communication.




RosaB -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 5:59:23 PM)

Ask the Wizard.  Seriously though, of course its possible.  Where's LA when you need her?  Links please.  [:)]


Rosa




diamonddreamlove -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 6:00:16 PM)

I consider myself in a partnership with my Dom.  He has His job and i have mine and with either of us failing to do our jobs the partnership will fail.  It is not an equal partnership.  His percentage lol is much higher by oh i don't know about 99.99%.  But i still have a job to do and so does He and the rewards are very wonderful.  It is just like the small corporation i own the entirely now because of my husbands death but while he was a live i still owned a higher percentage than he did and therefore the final decisions were mine to make.  Did not mean i didn't listen when he spoke or that i did not share my reasoning for the final decision.  




MasterC46910 -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 6:03:59 PM)

Yes, it is possible.  There are a few Dom/Domme couples around. 




Cloudz -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 6:07:55 PM)

Absolutely....and it requires the same type of patience, communication, and understanding as any other healthy realtionship.




DreamyLadySnow -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 6:09:29 PM)

Absolutely.
Why not?




KatyLied -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 6:09:46 PM)

Anything is possible.

I am curious as to how they function within a power exchange.  Who is the ultimate authority in the relationship?  Is it all equally divided? 




MasterFireMaam -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 6:09:54 PM)

Yes. This is where we get the term "Dominant Couple".

Master Fire




Lashra -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 6:35:41 PM)

Why wouldn't it be? Of course they can there are many Dom/Domme couples just as there are sub/sub and switch/switch and everything in between. It just depends upon the persons in the relationship and how they have things worked out between them. Communication is the key to any relationship and so must it be with the Dom/Domme's.

~Lashra




Lashra -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 6:37:26 PM)

Usually yes it is, they each handle whatever they are best at. Although in some I've seen where one was in charge of the other. It just depends on the people involved.

~Lashra




Lordandmaster -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 6:42:17 PM)

I'm sure it's possible.  I've known dommes that I'd probably get along with, but I've never had anything like a romantic relationship with a domme.  (I've had one or two relationships with women that OTHER people thought were dommes, but they really weren't.)




SadistCpl4fslv -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 7:05:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

No.


And you say this as just your opinion not knowing if it has ever happened and not thinking that it could or a blanket statement that comes from ignorance?  Gee......guess we have just been living a fantasy for the past 7 years of our marriage, along with my father-in-law and his wife.




Silvermoon -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 7:09:06 PM)

No? you mean I've been living a false hood all this time and no one told me? Damn!




Silvermoon -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 7:14:09 PM)

Wow you know...I think this is the first time I've seen so many agreed on responses...especially to a thread I thought would have quite the opposite. I am humbled..and proud!

*smiles*
Silver




marieToo -> RE: Can Dom's and Domme's become good partners.....? (9/27/2006 7:53:17 PM)

Fast Reply:

I think it can and does work.  I've seen it.  But in order to be fulfilled long term,  I would think they would have to bring a submissive party into their relationship.




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