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RE: What are you? - 9/27/2006 10:27:48 PM

shadevarr

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ORIGINAL: akisha

Intelligent, sweet, caring, affectionate, sadistic, controlling, strong, confident, not on an ego trip, willing to admit if He makes a mistake, honest, and he has to be a biter mmmmmmm hehe

Add in slightly unhinged and I'd be wondering which of my friends you've been talking to.

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RE: What are you? - 9/27/2006 10:40:12 PM

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Well I'm intelligent and more than a little twisted but not terribly sadistic. I'm looking for a ltr so emotional attachment is part of that and for me romance is part of that. I may buy a dozen roses for my lover but I'm likely to use 6 of them for whipping her.

What I truly don't get is if I send a woman an honest and polite message expressing that I have read her profile and find some aspects of it intriguing and would like to get to know her most of the time I don't even get a sorry not interested reply and most of the rest of the replies I do get back are claiming I'm a fake because I was polite to someone I've never communicated with before in my life.

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RE: What are you? - 9/27/2006 10:42:47 PM

losttreasure

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

What kind of dom/domme are you attracted to?

Kind? I don't think it's possible to categorize FirmHandKY... there are simply no others quite like him.

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RE: What are you? - 9/27/2006 10:57:34 PM

Lorelei115

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ORIGINAL: DomKen

What I truly don't get is if I send a woman an honest and polite message expressing that I have read her profile and find some aspects of it intriguing and would like to get to know her most of the time I don't even get a sorry not interested reply and most of the rest of the replies I do get back are claiming I'm a fake because I was polite to someone I've never communicated with before in my life.

Well I don't know about the second half of it but I can answer the first. Sometimes, no matter how polite, intriguing, and well written you are... We just don't have time!! I personally recieve upwards of 10 emails a day. A. Day. I cannot possibly give everyone who writes me the attention they deserve, even if they are serious seekers and not just the usual email fluff. I would spend all my time on collarme writing emails rather than posting MY fluff in the forums. ;) To be fair though, I DO post in my profile that if someone doesn't fit my requirements I will not respond, and that as much as I try to respond to everyone, I just can't.

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RE: What are you? - 9/27/2006 11:14:54 PM

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Mercnbeth, Congradulations on your marriage! May you have many years of happiness together!
As for me I'm very easy going and layed back with a good sense of humor but I can be controlling, commanding, sadistic, take pleasure from someone's pain and squirming. I enjoy inflicting pain if I know she gets off on it.
But, I'm also very protective and affectionate with my sub/slave.I like to cuddle up on the couch with a leash on her to watch a movie.
(If she can sit down!)
I like all aspects of bondage, like to try new things, toys, situations, etc, I love to tease and talk dirty during a scene.
One of my favorite objectification scenes is to have her tied over a table legs tied apart and gaged and with an isolation hood on her head for a couple of hours as a "sexy decoration" and give her a good crack across the ass when she can't see it comming.

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RE: What are you? - 9/27/2006 11:23:39 PM

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intelligent. caring..not just about me, but more in general about his world, environment, himself. possessive. creative. rough. confident. gentle. cruel. egoistic. consuming. ability to laugh. ability to be witty/sarcastic. eloquence. graceful.

romance comes in many flavors and shades. beating me senseless and my voice hoarse from screaming from pleasure/pain, and he already is ready with a cup of water before I even realize I need it. Somehow that feels romantic. I _know_ he's doing it because it suits his own purposes to make sure he can keep going, enjoying his toy..but he's incorporated me into himself. I am no longer separate, but His. That tiny gesture can break me down just as much as the sharp thwap of the cane, or the abrasive words.

the gracefulness of his hands as he makes a sandwich, or signs the receipt at the store, ... knowing that same hand is the hand that grips my jaw, or tugs my hair, or smacks my ass so forcefully. the intensity at which he reads a book, or studies the nutritional value on the side of a box, .. knowing that same mind is the one that constructs the devious tortures.

how does he tip when we go out? how does he treat the serving staff?

how in control is he of his own life? does he control his own fate or is he knocking about in the wind? does he follow a path, or make his own?

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RE: What are you? - 9/27/2006 11:37:02 PM

Frank01

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Intellectual, creative Sadist. Quirky sense of humor, VERY odd kinks. A tendency to push one in unexpected directions.

A nature that can be very compassionate-or reptile cold.

I tend to have very little patience with needy or nuerotic sorts. Which seems to rule out being pleased by a large percentage of subs........or whatever it is they identify as.

And if I had a keyboard button to permanently delete the castle realm site-I would have pushed it YESTERDAY.

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RE: What are you? - 9/27/2006 11:57:21 PM

Aslave4You06

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

I have a tat, leave marks after a 'scene', smile and giggle when I'm inflicting pain, enjoy humiliating play with my partner, and cried like a baby last Sunday when I married her. What does that make me? Dare I use the term?...
... "Real"?

Congrats!

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RE: What are you? - 9/28/2006 12:11:59 AM

MysticFireTopaz

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I am a romantic Domme and prefer romantic subs. I am seeking a long-term, committed Mistress/slave relationship, so the romance side is very important to Me. There is something about a male being willing to suffer at My hands to show his devotion to Me that I find very appealing, like I am his Queen and he is My knight.

Lady Topaz

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RE: What are you? - 9/28/2006 12:51:58 AM

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That was why Sinergy got an email back from me...lol... he actually asked me what I wanted to go to graduate school for...and while his profile was elegant and intelligent with a hint of romance... his email was friendly and not forceful at all

He is not the type that has tats, he is the type that knows what wine goes with what dessert. He knows a fish fork from a salad fork.... and yes this is incredibly sexy to me.

The traits you've expressed with regard to Sinergy are what I like in a woman. And..... if they can't tell me who Paul Wolfowitz is..... I don't wanna fuck em'

- R

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RE: What are you? - 9/28/2006 1:10:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: UtopianRanger
And..... if they can't tell me who Paul Wolfowitz is..... I don't wanna fuck em'
- R

Who's Paul Wolfowitz??? LMAO, M
*Just kidding*

< Message edited by BlkTallFullfig -- 9/28/2006 1:11:14 AM >

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RE: What are you? - 9/28/2006 1:45:52 AM

EvilGeoff

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68
What kind of dom/domme are you?

The kind who is "out".
The kind who supports the local BDSM community and the people in it.
The kind who supports the NCSF and it's mission.
The kind who has ink and sports an earring.
The kind who likes to hear whimpers and screams, who likes to make blood flow, the kind who likes to leave welts and bruises.
The kind who likes to go out for dinner and catch a movie.
The kind who likes to sit home on Friday nights and catch the new episodes of SG-1, Atlantis, Dr. Who and Battlestar Galactica.
The kind who plays with damn near anyone who wants to do a scene.
The kind who is employed, who pays his bills, who has two adult children and an ex-wife.
The kind who survived a heart attack and had a quadruple bypass.
The kind who tells funny stories and likes to listen to them.
The kind who, when he feels like it, will bring home flowers.
The kind who will cook dinner when he feels like it, will do dishes or laundry when it needs to be done rather than sit on his ass while slave is working as many, if not more hours than he is.
The kind who will be romantic when he feels like it, and you'll bloody well enjoy it, or you will bloody well make me believe you've enjoyed it.
The kind who inflicts pain as a reward, not a punishment. DISplease me and you'll find yourself assigned some sort of very unpleasant task, sent away for a specified time, ignored, or, if the offense warrants it, dismissed.

I am me, no more, no less. The av is only part of the picture, the words are only a part as well. It would take far more time, space and energy than I have to spend here, to present an accurate portrait of what kind of Dominant I am.

YIK,
- Geoff

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RE: What are you? - 9/28/2006 3:01:28 AM

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i tend to be attracted to strong-minded, assertive Women. That said, i am attracted to Women for their Feminity, and not for 'Butchness'. Powerful, assertive Women can be very feminine, though it is a hard balance to achieve. Not everyone has that 'special something', that unique combination. With regard to feminity, as someone who is deeply chivalrous, nothing could be more appropriate than for a coy and alluring Woman to comand respect and admiration by 'choice' and willing service rather than by force. Its not that i am against being put into place when i deserve it, just that there is more to it than that.

Respectfully,
althalus.

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RE: What are you? - 9/28/2006 3:41:16 AM

mons

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greetings

i am soft to to my skin is but i am kind domme but strict and yes folk a sadist a litte bit sometimes

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RE: What are you? - 9/28/2006 5:03:16 AM

SirLordTrainer

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Articulate, fair, safe, stern, some say a bit 'rough around the edges' I'd say a tad red around the neck line at times too!

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RE: What are you? - 9/28/2006 5:20:51 AM

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Wow, i have answered this one so often lately i think i'll keep this answer in Word from now on.

Give me a long haired, bearded, tattooed biker (with all that the word biker implies) with a shit eating grin, who smells of sweat and 50 weight every time.

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RE: What are you? - 9/28/2006 5:32:12 AM

topcat

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"I am a meat popsicle"

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RE: What are you? - 9/28/2006 5:37:23 AM

zenfull2

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Hmmmm good question. I suppose I need to answer from both sides of the fence since I kinda teeter-totter from side to side.

As a submissive, I seek a strong Dom/me who will not allow me to walk all over them. I do not want to "top from the bottom". I want to feel Owned, fully, completely, unmistakably Owned. I do not think I want a cruel Dominant, even though I do enjoy being flogged, spanked, tormented with a violent wand, clipped and many other deliciously painful things.. I do not find those things cruel, I see them as tools of the trade, things to help bring out the endorphines that I seek. I want a loving touch when all is said and done, I want that true caring Dominant to make sure that I am allright during the whole thing. Checking and guaging how I am without interupting my space (unless it seems such needs to be done) I want someone who is a Dominant of themselves so that they can truly bring me to the edge and push me just a little bit more each time!

As a Dominant, I am strict yet loving, strong yet soft.. I find that using a combination of both sides, Yin and Yang are parts of me no matter what. I guess that goes along with being a Libra. Seems everything I do in my life I teeter totter back and forth, constantly seeking the balance. I am strong enough to assure that I am not walked on, yet at the same time I am soft enough to allow my bottoming partners to know that I am there for them, understand them, and am attentive enough to assure that what happens to them is fulfilling and safe all at once.

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RE: What are you? - 9/28/2006 6:01:13 AM

Aileen68

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ORIGINAL: topcat

"I am a meat popsicle"

Hahahaha
Well that's a visual, isn't it?

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RE: What are you? - 9/28/2006 6:22:34 AM

twicehappy

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ORIGINAL: topcat

"I am a meat popsicle"

LMAO.....funny when i spy a good looking guy i've always referred to them as Meat on the Hoof.

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