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MomentsofHistory -> night time securing... What do you do? (9/27/2006 6:15:00 PM)

I'm very curious what methods or ways submissives/slaves find comfortable for night time... I am exploring different ways of comfortably and safely keeping a submissive in bondage overnight without health or comfort issues... Any ideas or suggestions would be great! No need to include any rope ideas, ropes is out... Cheers!



pleazuredpain -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (9/27/2006 6:19:45 PM)

She needs enough chain to move.  She should have a way to get out of it in case of an emergency.  Line the cuffss, shackles with fur so she does not get cut.  Give her something to pee in if that is your thing.  See her in the morning!




Midearthtrainer -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (9/27/2006 6:57:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: pleazuredpain

She needs enough chain to move.  She should have a way to get out of it in case of an emergency.  Line the cuffss, shackles with fur so she does not get cut.  Give her something to pee in if that is your thing.  See her in the morning!



There are two ways to do that chain:
       1. Make the chain strong enough to take all your strength and then some.
       2. Make the chain a very light chain, that she could break it easily, if it came to that.
Always have a key ready....Can be as simple as keeping a spare key in a sealed envelope on the headboard. Keep One key always on you, another someplace else in the house.
Having the chain light enough that she could break it, also reinforces the mindset. Having the sealed envelope within reach does the same thing.
Using a light chain, you can use a long gold or silver chain; wrapping the chain around the ankle and locking it in place; thus making it unique to your relationship(sans the shackle).



MasterFireMaam -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (9/27/2006 7:28:56 PM)

I used to put a submissive in a body bag (the kinky kind, not the morgue kind) overnight. When he didn't sleep with me, he slept on the bed in the guest room and we had a baby monitor in case he had trouble.

Master Fire



joyinslavery -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (9/27/2006 9:26:24 PM)

Yes, sleepsacks can be good but they are difficult or impossible for the sub to get out of by themselves so that might be a consideration.  I've always liked wrist/ankle cuffs.  The wider the better and padded or lined.  Of course there is always the simplicity of securing the ankles together and then the wrists together in front that allows limited use of the hands if needed and wouldn't stop me from at least being able to get on my feet if I had too for an emergency (I've become quite skilled at hopping).  With the hands secured in front, they can be tied, strapped, whathaveyou to a collar to permit some movement while still preventing any unauthorized 'use' during the night. 



SpoiledDomme4you -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (9/27/2006 9:38:55 PM)

I have a thinner leather cuff for the ankle attached to a chain on the foot of the bed. There are surgical scissors close by in case of an emergency. There is a chamber pot for bathroom use near the bed. No clanking of the chain is allowed when using pot. I wake up, unlock, then go back to bed til he is supposed to wake me. I hold the only keys to all of my locks. The scissors are always handy if I am not around.



mystictryst -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (9/27/2006 10:15:20 PM)

A 50 pound dog on one side and an 11 pound cat on the other. I never move because the furry ones keep me safely and securely pinned in bed all night. :D

I personally could not stand being restricted in my sleep. I'm a wriggley worm and would never ever get any sleep if I was tied to/in something! Good luck.



behindmirrors -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (9/28/2006 11:48:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MomentsofHistory

I'm very curious what methods or ways submissives/slaves find comfortable for night time... I am exploring different ways of comfortably and safely keeping a submissive in bondage overnight without health or comfort issues... Any ideas or suggestions would be great! No need to include any rope ideas, ropes is out... Cheers!


My Dom doesn't secure me with the "acouturements" of bondage- I sleep beside him on the bed and he keeps a hand on top of me all night. I feel sufficiently owned and safe, and can still get up when I need to for work without really waking him. It works for us more than tying me up would given our different schedules- it would be a hassle for him to get up at 6 am to untie me after he's worked the night shift! It's a thought, anyway.

behindmirrors.



littleone35 -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (9/28/2006 2:21:44 PM)

The only way i have even been secured at night is wrapped tightly in Masters arms.  For me that is a wonderful way to be secured and makes me feel very secure and loved as well.

Matt's littleone



shadevarr -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (9/28/2006 2:31:16 PM)

Only time I've even restrained someone overnight was as punishment and she was chained to the toilet in my bedroom. I am a very light sleeper so just calling my name would have sprung me out of bed in an emergency.



MomentsofHistory -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (9/28/2006 4:34:34 PM)

Thanks for the ideas all of you, please keep pouring them in, I'm very safety conscious, so the key in the sealed envelope is a great tip...



LadyHugs -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (9/28/2006 5:54:33 PM)

Dear MomentofHistory, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Night time security when sleeping.  Ah, the good old days.
 
1.  Have a box under the mattress that creates the bed frame, with little doors that open and close.  When a slave isn't sleeping under the bed, it can serve as extra storage.  Have a hawk bell that rings when the door is disturbed.
 
2.  Use horse/pony hobbles, which are found already fleece lined on nylon or leather hobbles and take tube of fleese (Halter tubes) and line them; buckle in and then connect to the bed, toilet or other device.
 
3.   Closets come in handy.  Would have a flashlight, a box of kitty litter for needed body relief, and hang a bell on the knobs where the closet is disturbed--you're aware.
 
4.  Get over sized long johns; the old fashioned one with the trap door on the beee-hind.  Sew the ankle and wrist cuffs closed but, have a "D" ring or "O" ring sewn into them as to make a 4 point bondage connection point.  Taking a standard leather belt, they can be either chained, roped or other belts connect to the rings and or be 'posted' out in a horizontal "X."  Can cross over chest and have an opposing bondage but, if they rolled over they could and roll back again.
 
5.   Get a burlap grain sack (horse/cattle grain) and have the slave's legs in the sack and cinch at the waist.  Can make a hole under the crotch area, as to chastity belt them in or waist chain the sack on.
 
These are just a few things right off the top of my head, other than chain and cuffs, locked to some bed.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs


 
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RedSavageSlave -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (9/28/2006 7:43:42 PM)

I have been caged overnight but he learned the first night NOT to lock the darned thing.. not if he wants to sleep through the night anyway..I generally gotta get up and pee at some point.



Arastella -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (9/28/2006 10:52:04 PM)

Its an interesting concept and I kinda want Mistress to have me either restrained to sleep or caged.  I like the idea as a completion to saying, right before you go to bed, I OWN YOU.



slavejali -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (9/29/2006 1:02:19 AM)

Master has cuffs he puts on me sometimes, they are attached to about a 2-3 foot rope which is attached to the bed. The cuffs are soft and are fastened with velcro. I would have no problem at all undoing them.....but that isn't the point huh [:)]



slavekaida -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (10/2/2006 2:17:45 PM)

As a slave to a Master a number of years ago, I always had to wear his collar. When we went to bed, he used a simple chain to attach my collar, that was around my neck to the bed. The chain was long enough for me to sleep very comfortably, and it had a clasp on it, so that I could take it off if I needed to. I was allowed for two reason, one I had to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night and two, if there was an emergency.

I always felt more secure and very special when I was chained to the bed. I've never really slept as good, except when I was sleeping in a sub cell while with another Master.

I miss my chain and I miss my collar.

561-903-144



AquaticSub -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (10/2/2006 4:09:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mystictryst

A 50 pound dog on one side and an 11 pound cat on the other. I never move because the furry ones keep me safely and securely pinned in bed all night. :D

I personally could not stand being restricted in my sleep. I'm a wriggley worm and would never ever get any sleep if I was tied to/in something! Good luck.


So adorable!



Darthtellectual -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (10/5/2006 5:41:43 PM)

Good thoughts. But I always go back to the three most important points of play: Safety, Safety, and more Safety.



Nikolette -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (10/5/2006 5:50:32 PM)

I've mentioned this before and it still is true... My slave loves to use the cuffs on our under the bed restraint. They are adjustable, comfortable, strong, and most importantly in any emergency he can get out of them on his own. I use them for any bed related bondage I want to employ for long periods of time. (among other things)[:D]



RedSavageSlave -> RE: night time securing... What do you do? (10/5/2006 7:59:16 PM)

A form of night restraints was described to me once by a potential dom I was talking with. He told me that He liked to use cuffed restraints on the wrists as the submissive had her arms wrapped around His thigh at night. (kind of hugging the leg if you will). I thought it sounded kind of interesting but never had the opportunity to try it.



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