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what do you like most about domnation - 9/27/2006 9:07:37 PM

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what excite you most for a slave to do, or to do to a slave

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/27/2006 9:17:28 PM

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Jump his ass for poor spelling and grammar and for being a wimpy wanker and having a profile that screams "I am a do-me sub with no clue what BDSM is really all about."

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/27/2006 9:18:32 PM

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Are you married, lilguy?

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/27/2006 9:22:15 PM

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what excite you most for a slave to do, or to do to a slave

Sorry, but there is not not one particular thing that I want a submissive to do, nor that I want to do to a submissive that excites me the most. What excites me the most is the look in his eye when he absolutely does NOT want to do something, and his incredulity at feeling compelled to do it anyway, simply because it's what *I* want... the exact opposite of a "do me" sub. Totally yummy! And I work very hard at finding more and more things to stretch his horizons that way.

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/27/2006 9:22:41 PM

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First Ladymorgyn- Hu. Little hostile. Am sorry about the spelling. Very Dylexic, see some letter backwards, and sometime I read over the words and they look correct. Dont think I am do me slave. Could be considered one I guess, not an expert on BDSM. So who knows.

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/27/2006 9:38:05 PM

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what excite you most for a slave to do, or to do to a slave

Command of the english language really makes me wet. Seems like we're going through another dry spell again.....

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/27/2006 9:57:14 PM

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I hear that. Fully half the slave applicants I turn down, I do so because they are not conversant; either they don't have a fifth grader's grasp of the English language, or they do the caveman-grunt thing that is so irritating to us women! Either way, it's not acceptable. I expect my slave to be a companion to me amongst his other duties.

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what excite you most for a slave to do, or to do to a slave

Command of the english language really makes me wet. Seems like we're going through another dry spell again.....

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/27/2006 10:54:50 PM

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Hi lilguy31:

Allow me to save you some grief here by extending to you the gift of context. You may be taken aback by the replies that you've received thus far. They even seem a bit hostile to you. Well, the reason for this is because every other day someone new comes on the boards and asks a loaded question designed to extract descriptions of what Dommes would like to do or have done, etc. This is most commonly referred to as "wanker material" by everyone. Now, the first time that this happened it was probably slightly better received, but by the thousandth time, everyone is pretty tired of it and have gone on to concentrate on the spelling errors.

O.K., so this will help you: Don't Ask Dommes what kind of BDSM things they like to do, it's bad form, and they will quickly suspect you of being a one-handed typist (read wanker). And beyond that, you must understand that most Dommes are not so much into "activities" as they are into the relationship that gives meaning to the activities... again the gift of context. Not one of the non-pro Dommes that I've known was interested in stranger's pain. They always sought a relationship that gave the pain, or fear, of pleasure, specific meaning.

So you must now either forget about this altogether, or stop thinking like a guy. Yes, if a attractive female sub posted four naked pictures of herself and typed only these two words in her profile "Any takers?" she would likely get a million emails from horny "Doms" but it just doesn't work the same way with Dommes. My advice, fill in your profile maybe blog a little, hang around and continue to contribute to the forums. Give it time and grow into it. And don't be embarassed about being new or inexperienced, geez you should have seen my first BDSM profile--terrible!!! I hope this may help you and that you will receive it in the spirit in which it has been offered.

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/27/2006 11:00:25 PM

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LASub, you are a real treasure!!!! and an awesome profile too... how could any of us resist you? :)

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/27/2006 11:27:31 PM

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LASub, you are a real treasure!!!! and an awesome profile too... how could any of us resist you? :)

Thank you for the compliment LadyMorgynn, that was kind of you to say, and lilguy31 if you're still listening, I hope that you will take into account LadyMorgynn's kind words, at least in part, as an endorsement of what I was trying to point out to you.

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/28/2006 1:14:58 AM

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what do you like most about domnation

Dominating.

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what excite you most for a slave to do

Cooking, cleaning doing laundry.

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to do to a slave

Depends on my mood.

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/28/2006 3:47:55 AM

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I like him to do my online research for me, would free up hours of my time! also he would clean out my walk-in closet, which currently I can't actually walk in ;)

What I would do to him is put him in his t-shirt emblazoned "slave" and take him to the mall :) That just really gets me going, LOL!

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/28/2006 4:30:38 AM

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actully I was just wondering what people into

Ask similar stuff on the slave board. Not wanking off to them

Interested in what people into. Wasn't expecting just a huge F you honestly. I figure been pretty nice

I dont mind you post. The spelling thing, pretty dylexic so mess that up. But again wasnt expecting spelling to inspire rage

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/28/2006 5:03:18 AM

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Tying up men (sometimes women) and torturing them until they turn to jelly.

Then using them as my sextoy for as long as I want.

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/28/2006 6:14:57 AM

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I wasn't angry or joking in my response.
You just didn't like it because it doesn't fit with your style of submission from reading your profile.

You sound like a bit of a "do me" boy, while saying very little about what you can do for her (the domina who takes you on)...

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I am still pretty new to this but tried a few things. I tried cross dressing, humilation, dildo's, whips, canning, slapping (like that), Getting spanked (love that), golden showers, and pussy worship.

If you want some free advice, better put some personality into that profile, because as it is, you're probably going to have trouble connecting or getting respectful answers.
Here's some definitions to help you on your journey:

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_604021/mpage_1/key_definitions/tm.htm
Top; one who controls the scene for play only.

Bottom; one who submits during the scene only

Sadist; one who enjoys inflicting pain

Masochist; one who enjoys receiving pain

Dom/Domme; the one who dominates, the one who is in control of, is responsible for, gives orders and direction to the sub/slave. This is something they are, a personality type, not just something they do only in the bedroom. A Dom/Domme is what they are whether or not they currently own a sub or slave.

Master/Mistress, is one who is dom/domme and currently owns a submissive or a slave. It is a title bestowed on them by virtue of such ownership. It also goes much deeper than the Dom/Domme relationship on the spiritual, emotional and physical levels in regards to the depths of the power exchange and the responsibilities involved.

Switch; one who can either top or bottom during play or a scene.

Submissive; one who yields power or control to the dominant on a limited basis both during day to day life and during scening or playing. Or one whose nature is submissive, one may be a submissive whether or not they currently are submitting to a dominant, it is what they naturally are.

Slave; one who yields control of all aspects of their existence to the dominant within the limits agreed upon prior to being collared (these are generally agreed upon moral limits, not to be confused with" I get it my way or I leave or Sam type behaviors). One who is considered to be owned by another as their sole property. One whose submission to their owner/s is total, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week in and out of any scenes or play..

Good luck, M

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/28/2006 12:00:27 PM

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wasnt talking about you blk. You answered the question pretty nicely actully

what listed those things cause it nice to know what a person into and there experence

but this was put in a polls and random stupity section.

So guess I was wrong

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/28/2006 12:02:55 PM

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oh by the way my personals in the dating part of the site where I put the personality stuff

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RE: what do you like most about domnation - 9/28/2006 2:37:34 PM

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what do you like most about domnation
Dominating.

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what excite you most for a slave to do
Cooking, cleaning doing laundry.

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to do to a slave
Depends on my mood. M

I am completely surprised at the number of guys (Dom or Sub) that don't know how to cook, clean, or do laundry. How did they survive when they were single?

I supposed the Doms were able to "coerce" their girlfriends into taking care of that stuff! LOL

I'm no chef, but I can follow a simple to moderate recipe and I learned how to sort clothes before and fold them after. I'm kind of hit and miss on the cleaning, but I don't have anything growing anyplace LOL

I'll admit, I've produced some really inedible meals on occasion and I have pinked my whites early on; but by in large, I get by

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